Hi folks,
please be serious and helpful.....what should do a husband of stunning and young white gal if she accepted to be the mother of her lover son/daughter...and this man is African?
Should he leave or is believable their marriage could survive....
Precisely how the husband should deal with her African lover and their acquaitances?
Please be helpful....you all understand the psychological difficulties and matters....
Can you repeat the question?
White chick is in love w/ blk guy? Is that the question? married? Why is the guy second guessing himself?
I swear this has been asked before but I can't find it now. Basically he's asking what do about his white wife having her African lover's baby. Not sure if this is real or hypothetical. Roughly.
If she is doing this against her husband's wishes and is going to do it any way, it is time for D I V O R C E. The big D and I don't mean Dallas. As fast as possible.
If there is no mutual consent, it is cheating. Cheating by its self can be a survivable event in a marriage. Adding a child to this equation makes it nearly impossible for a marriage to survive.
Brandie
Hi Brandie, truly speaking my wife just took her decision and said it was her own decision...so if want to keep being with her, should live with it!
I don't get the question.
Matthew since your married there is no my decisions! It’s an our decision always! If she makes a statement like it’s my decision and yours don’t matter then there’s a problem! You have a few choices, you accept it but probably will never be ok and it causes issues, you man up and put your foot down and be prepared for it to either straighten out or go south! Either way you have to look at you in the morning. That’s my two cents for what it’s worth.
I tend to agree. There should not be “I” in a couple. Not for decisions like this anyway. But its up to you if you want to live with it or not.
Whatever you decision is, you will have to live with it and never complain.
I know what mine would be; i would not stick around.
Sadly, there is no easy answer to that one... do waht your heart tells you to do...
So, in response to the last couple of answers... It's not that I don't get that couples should approach problems as team, but at the same time, nobody can tell someone else what to do with their body. When a man tells a woman what she can do with her reproductive system it's a whole new level, also.
The fact that you've been focused on the color of his skin and/or ethnicity kind of makes me feel there is another layer of prejudice underlying this question, but that is merely suspicion. If you'd care to confirm or deny that, I'm kind of interested.
Anyway, the problem here is not whether or not she can/should have a child with her other partner. It's whether or not you want to be with her. It's probably worth asking if you're poly, have an open relationship, etc. Would he be the child's father, or just a biological donor, as it were? There's a lot more questions I could ask, but mostly, this is just about whether or not you want to be with her still. Nothing else.
I would think it would be about the same as if she decided to have a child with an European, Latino or Asian Lover.
Indeed She, it has nothing to do with the color of the skin. The same rule applies to men as well. They should not have children with other women and bring them back in the family without their wife agreement.
I agree, everyone owns their own body but when you live in a couple, things should be done together. Otherwise, whats the goal of bieng with someone else?
The same “rules” apply to both.
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This has been asked and answered several times.
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