Calling me: 'Daddy' ?

Quote by Poppet
I used to like calling some of the men I've been with Daddy, but in all honesty for me its right up there with Master or Sir. To me it’s a softer side of my submissive in me. I haven’t used the term in a long time, though currently I’m in a D/s relationship where I’m the Mistress so that wouldn't be right anyway.

I’m not sure why I like it, it makes me feel younger, and it sounds hot to moan. It defiantly has nothing to do with that kind of daddy, at least not for me. I also think it flows from the lips better, it just sounds hot.

I guess part of it; it makes me feel younger, and very submissive, to sum it up in a few short words.

I hope that made sense.

Quote by yourmisterdark
It doesn't, in my opinion, have any real incestual significance when used colloquially. That's some people's hangup. Beatniks didn't mean "father" when they used the term Daddy-O. Marilyn Monroe and the Hollywood bombshells didn't mean "father" when they called a man Daddy (as in My Heart Belongs to Daddy). There is some relativeness to "sugar Daddy", but for the past several decades at least "Daddy" means someone who fulfills a special role, a caring one, a provider of sorts, a wiser head, a source of reliable responsible strength of morality, character, and life coping-ness. When The Zombies rock and roll band of the 1960s sang "Who's your Daddy?" it wasn't about . When I gave a woman her first fur coat and she squealed "Oh, Daddy!" and wrapped it tighter around herself, it wasn't about any incestual feelings. So, please, don't try to make it about that. As Poppet said, it's an endearing term, like "Baby" and doesn't mean you imagine your lover as an actual baby (unless that's the fetish - which I personally find both weird and icky). All that said, there are any number of reasons why some guys hate the thought of it. One is that they aren't the type of man any woman sees as a Daddy, another is that they are young and resent the fact that a younger woman (or an older one) is with someone they call Daddy instead of them. Some can't get past some antiquated pseudo-Biblical patriarchal b.s. about implied . Which, if you study "Bible era" history, you will find it was far more typical for much, much older men to marry much, much younger wives, usually through purchase or coercion.

If you have some skewed notion about a woman calling a man "Daddy", that's your own thing to deal with. By the way, "Daddy" is also common in the lesbian community and, again, implies no notion of . Words are what you make of them, by your personal definition and understanding.

Quote by yourmisterdark
It doesn't, in my opinion, have any real incestual significance when used colloquially. That's some people's hangup. Beatniks didn't mean "father" when they used the term Daddy-O. Marilyn Monroe and the Hollywood bombshells didn't mean "father" when they called a man Daddy (as in My Heart Belongs to Daddy). There is some relativeness to "sugar Daddy", but for the past several decades at least "Daddy" means someone who fulfills a special role, a caring one, a provider of sorts, a wiser head, a source of reliable responsible strength of morality, character, and life coping-ness. When The Zombies rock and roll band of the 1960s sang "Who's your Daddy?" it wasn't about . When I gave a woman her first fur coat and she squealed "Oh, Daddy!" and wrapped it tighter around herself, it wasn't about any incestual feelings. So, please, don't try to make it about that. As Poppet said, it's an endearing term, like "Baby" and doesn't mean you imagine your lover as an actual baby (unless that's the fetish - which I personally find both weird and icky). All that said, there are any number of reasons why some guys hate the thought of it. One is that they aren't the type of man any woman sees as a Daddy, another is that they are young and resent the fact that a younger woman (or an older one) is with someone they call Daddy instead of them. Some can't get past some antiquated pseudo-Biblical patriarchal b.s. about implied . Which, if you study "Bible era" history, you will find it was far more typical for much, much older men to marry much, much younger wives, usually through purchase or coercion.

If you have some skewed notion about a woman calling a man "Daddy", that's your own thing to deal with. By the way, "Daddy" is also common in the lesbian community and, again, implies no notion of . Words are what you make of them, by your personal definition and understanding.