I love it now. 1st time he just pushed his way in no lube no warning (didnt stay with him long lol). As i learnt more about what i wanted from sex and i felt happy to try more things i let partners both male and female play with my ass. What i class as my 1st real anal sex when i wanted it was with a couple of friends he was so gentle and took his time he used loads of lube fingering my tight hole and opening me up a little before he slid his cock in while she was playing with my clit to help relax me . Now i use anal sex as part of my sex life and sometimes use a dildo in my ass when i masturbate.