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that's why i don't limit myself to one partner.... everyone does things a little (or a lot) differently.... everyone has different things that they will or won't do.... i don't want to miss any of it
*kisses*
-Kristen
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-Kristen
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Rainbow Warrior
I have several FWB's. The only one who comes up short in the cunnilingus department also happens to have the biggest cock, so I try to forgive him for being a lousy pussy-licker. And the one with the smallest cock has other attributes I'm fond of, so it all works out.
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Sexy jeans Coloflamingo!
I would like more anal stimulation while having my pussy eaten.
I would like more anal stimulation while having my pussy eaten.
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We have formed a FWB group of 6 bisexual people (3F.3M) who after many years of experiments and trials, have finally found the people that can live and love together without any form of jealousy or commitment. I live and sleep with my girlfriend and two of our guys live away from us. One couple have decided to live together but partake of the pleasures we all enjoy together without fear or favour. We have found that this is the only way we could continue to participate in the affairs we have. Yes we have our favourite guy and girl etc but none of us have exclusive rights or desires. As I have mentioned it took a lot of experimenting and trials before we found the people prepared to live as we do. None of us are prepared to commit to being faithful to one person and are open with each other.
We have found that we each have our own particular desires, dislikes and habits etc and we all know and respect each them. I no longer participate in anal - that is my decision and each one respects that. Some of the others have favourite aspects and avoidances within our relationship without any problems.
Our way of life is probably not for everyone and I read of many instances here of desires for multiple engagements or partnership (wife) swapping etc. If you can handle them , they are in our opinion amazing but obviously not for everybody. We don't normally engage with married people if we participate outside the group, which is now a rare occurrence.
We have found that we each have our own particular desires, dislikes and habits etc and we all know and respect each them. I no longer participate in anal - that is my decision and each one respects that. Some of the others have favourite aspects and avoidances within our relationship without any problems.
Our way of life is probably not for everyone and I read of many instances here of desires for multiple engagements or partnership (wife) swapping etc. If you can handle them , they are in our opinion amazing but obviously not for everybody. We don't normally engage with married people if we participate outside the group, which is now a rare occurrence.
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sounds like you've got a pretty good thing going, meggsy. not because it's *the* solution, but it seems to be *your* solution, and that's all anyone needs. we've all got our own desires and hang ups, and we all hopefully figure out what works for us, and find people along the same wavelength who want the same thing, whatever that happens to be.
*kisses*
-Kristen
bunnysdreams.net
-Kristen
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Her Royal Spriteness
Train dragons. and yes, i've asked her, and the answer is always 'no'. bitch.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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Hubbie, Steven, and his wife Kim. They are together working in Miami. Should be coming back home to New Orleans tomorrow. They are the only two men I make love too. I fuck all the rest. Kim feels the same way. She has had them both all to her self this week. Well maybe.
Brandie
Brandie
Quote by BethanyFrasier
The only one who comes up short in the cunnilingus department also happens to have the biggest cock, so I try to forgive him for being a lousy pussy-licker.
Any advice in how not to be lousy?
I mean, there are people who don't like it but for those who want to be good in that department, any advice or guidance is welcome.
Rainbow Warrior
Quote by Gael
Any advice in how not to be lousy?
I mean, there are people who don't like it but for those who want to be good in that department, any advice or guidance is welcome.
Cunnilingus 101...
Leave your ego outside the bedroom door. If you believe your skills in bed are legendary, you've already failed. Every woman is different, and finding what gives the most pleasure to any particular woman is a learning process you must approach humbly, for she will be your best teacher.
Be observant, and learn where your attentions elicit the best response, the degree to which her clit is sensitive to stimulation, and the pace that her arousal builds.
The slow tease: The clit needs to be romanced slowly. Too much pressure and stimulation too soon will overload her nerve endings, and frustrate you both. Approach it teasingly, with kisses and licks starting at her best erogenous zones and moving inexorably closer to the target. (I'm assuming you know where the clitoris is)
When your tongue arrives at her pussy, get comfortable. You're going to be there for awhile. Her orgasm will depend on how well you read her responses to whatever you're doing, because orgasms can be elusive in a woman. You hit a spot you think is getting her to her peak, and she suddenly loses it. This is the part where your patience comes into play. Get her clit into a familiar rhythm. Circle it, flick it, wiggle the tip of your tongue under her hood. If you need to back off her clit, lap deep through her slit from top to bottom and back. Use your fingers inside, and rub her g-spot, which is the underside of her clit.
When you're doing everything right, she will begin to buck and thrash. It will be difficult to stay focused on her spot, and your teeth may even hurt her when she jerks upward. This can either help or hinder her reaching her climax, but keep your head aligned with her sex as best you can, and your tongue right where she needs it most. She will be excreting copious amounts of her juices into your mouth. Enjoy them! Swallow them. Coat your whole face with them. There is a point where she might be hovering between extreme pleasure, and pain. She may indicate you need to back off a bit until she gets back to the pleasure. This is the most frustrating part for you because you don't want to be causing her pain, but you've almost reached that golden moment. Get creative! Reach up and lightly pinch/twist her nipples, or use another finger to tease her asshole. Usually her climaxes come in waves, and you need to keep her there until she's completely over the cliff and her thrashing or clenching subsides. Her clit will probably be extremely sensitive at this point, and any further tongue-play may be uncomfortable, so it's time to cuddle and hold her close.
Classroom dismissed. Time for labwork.
Wow. Guys, you should read this.
I gotta say, Beth, YOU are the best
I've always wanted to say this, I just didn't know how. I mean, I have been with lots of guys but as far as I can remember, only 3 of them have made me cum by cunnilingus. That makes me hate cunnilingus because I know it'd only frustrate me. Yeah this is my answer to the thread. And forgive me for saying this, just because 'you think' you've made other women cum, doesn't mean you are skillful at it. Keep this in mind: EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT.
p/s: I said "guys", because girls never disappoint me
Quote by BethanyFrasier
"Cunnilingus 101...
Leave your ego outside the bedroom door. If you believe your skills in bed are legendary, you've already failed. Every woman is different, and finding what gives the most pleasure to any particular woman is a learning process you must approach humbly, for she will be your best teacher.
Be observant, and learn where your attentions elicit the best response, the degree to which her clit is sensitive to stimulation, and the pace that her arousal builds.
The slow tease: The clit needs to be romanced slowly. Too much pressure and stimulation too soon will overload her nerve endings, and frustrate you both. Approach it teasingly, with kisses and licks starting at her best erogenous zones and moving inexorably closer to the target. (I'm assuming you know where the clitoris is)
When your tongue arrives at her pussy, get comfortable. You're going to be there for awhile. Her orgasm will depend on how well you read her responses to whatever you're doing, because orgasms can be elusive in a woman. You hit a spot you think is getting her to her peak, and she suddenly loses it. This is the part where your patience comes into play. Get her clit into a familiar rhythm. Circle it, flick it, wiggle the tip of your tongue under her hood. If you need to back off her clit, lap deep through her slit from top to bottom and back. Use your fingers inside, and rub her g-spot, which is the underside of her clit.
When you're doing everything right, she will begin to buck and thrash. It will be difficult to stay focused on her spot, and your teeth may even hurt her when she jerks upward. This can either help or hinder her reaching her climax, but keep your head aligned with her sex as best you can, and your tongue right where she needs it most. She will be excreting copious amounts of her juices into your mouth. Enjoy them! Swallow them. Coat your whole face with them. There is a point where she might be hovering between extreme pleasure, and pain. She may indicate you need to back off a bit until she gets back to the pleasure. This is the most frustrating part for you because you don't want to be causing her pain, but you've almost reached that golden moment. Get creative! Reach up and lightly pinch/twist her nipples, or use another finger to tease her asshole. Usually her climaxes come in waves, and you need to keep her there until she's completely over the cliff and her thrashing or clenching subsides. Her clit will probably be extremely sensitive at this point, and any further tongue-play may be uncomfortable, so it's time to cuddle and hold her close.
Classroom dismissed. Time for labwork."
***
I gotta say, Beth, YOU are the best
I've always wanted to say this, I just didn't know how. I mean, I have been with lots of guys but as far as I can remember, only 3 of them have made me cum by cunnilingus. That makes me hate cunnilingus because I know it'd only frustrate me. Yeah this is my answer to the thread. And forgive me for saying this, just because 'you think' you've made other women cum, doesn't mean you are skillful at it. Keep this in mind: EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT.
p/s: I said "guys", because girls never disappoint me
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I miss the dirty talk, the sensual caresses, the deep kisses where tongues dance. Now it is just "Suck my dick I want to fuck you." While shoving his dick in my face with a peck on the mouth. It wasn't like that when I first fucked Mr Jaune 10 years ago. :/
Advanced Wordsmith
Lots of woman complain that there men, god I hope it is men not man. Are not very skilled at Cunnilingus.
Of the many many men I have been with only a few have really been skilled at Oral Sex in the beginning.
If a man is willing to get down between your thighs, I promise you he wants to please you.
My experience is that except for the egomaniac, men are more than willing to discuss your needs and wants.
So tell you guy what it is the makes your mind spin like a Slot Machine. You both will be more satisfied I promise.
Besides no two of us are exactly alike.
The biggest issue I have had with men, is to convince a new man just how much I love and need Anal Penetration.
Many seem to fear they will hurt us and there may be some pain at times.
But OMG the BENEFITS.
Of the many many men I have been with only a few have really been skilled at Oral Sex in the beginning.
If a man is willing to get down between your thighs, I promise you he wants to please you.
My experience is that except for the egomaniac, men are more than willing to discuss your needs and wants.
So tell you guy what it is the makes your mind spin like a Slot Machine. You both will be more satisfied I promise.
Besides no two of us are exactly alike.
The biggest issue I have had with men, is to convince a new man just how much I love and need Anal Penetration.
Many seem to fear they will hurt us and there may be some pain at times.
But OMG the BENEFITS.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by CheetNWifeSlut
The biggest issue I have had with men, is to convince a new man just how much I love and need Anal Penetration.
Many seem to fear they will hurt us and there may be some pain at times.
But OMG the BENEFITS.
You would have loved Mr Jaune before he was medicated. He was obsessed with anal were I hate it with a passion. I am so happy now he is normal thinking and doesn't attempt to fuck my arse.
Winning. 
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Cunnilingus 101...
Leave your ego outside the bedroom door. If you believe your skills in bed are legendary, you've already failed. Every woman is different, and finding what gives the most pleasure to any particular woman is a learning process you must approach humbly, for she will be your best teacher.
Be observant, and learn where your attentions elicit the best response, the degree to which her clit is sensitive to stimulation, and the pace that her arousal builds.
The slow tease: The clit needs to be romanced slowly. Too much pressure and stimulation too soon will overload her nerve endings, and frustrate you both. Approach it teasingly, with kisses and licks starting at her best erogenous zones and moving inexorably closer to the target. (I'm assuming you know where the clitoris is)
When your tongue arrives at her pussy, get comfortable. You're going to be there for awhile. Her orgasm will depend on how well you read her responses to whatever you're doing, because orgasms can be elusive in a woman. You hit a spot you think is getting her to her peak, and she suddenly loses it. This is the part where your patience comes into play. Get her clit into a familiar rhythm. Circle it, flick it, wiggle the tip of your tongue under her hood. If you need to back off her clit, lap deep through her slit from top to bottom and back. Use your fingers inside, and rub her g-spot, which is the underside of her clit.
When you're doing everything right, she will begin to buck and thrash. It will be difficult to stay focused on her spot, and your teeth may even hurt her when she jerks upward. This can either help or hinder her reaching her climax, but keep your head aligned with her sex as best you can, and your tongue right where she needs it most. She will be excreting copious amounts of her juices into your mouth. Enjoy them! Swallow them. Coat your whole face with them. There is a point where she might be hovering between extreme pleasure, and pain. She may indicate you need to back off a bit until she gets back to the pleasure. This is the most frustrating part for you because you don't want to be causing her pain, but you've almost reached that golden moment. Get creative! Reach up and lightly pinch/twist her nipples, or use another finger to tease her asshole. Usually her climaxes come in waves, and you need to keep her there until she's completely over the cliff and her thrashing or clenching subsides. Her clit will probably be extremely sensitive at this point, and any further tongue-play may be uncomfortable, so it's time to cuddle and hold her close.
Good work Doctor Bethany, this should be Oral Sex 101 for every male as he enters Puberty
Classroom dismissed. Time for labwork.
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by BethanyFrasier
Cunnilingus 101...
Leave your ego outside the bedroom door. If you believe your skills in bed are legendary, you've already failed. Every woman is different, and finding what gives the most pleasure to any particular woman is a learning process you must approach humbly, for she will be your best teacher.
Be observant, and learn where your attentions elicit the best response, the degree to which her clit is sensitive to stimulation, and the pace that her arousal builds.
The slow tease: The clit needs to be romanced slowly. Too much pressure and stimulation too soon will overload her nerve endings, and frustrate you both. Approach it teasingly, with kisses and licks starting at her best erogenous zones and moving inexorably closer to the target. (I'm assuming you know where the clitoris is)
When your tongue arrives at her pussy, get comfortable. You're going to be there for awhile. Her orgasm will depend on how well you read her responses to whatever you're doing, because orgasms can be elusive in a woman. You hit a spot you think is getting her to her peak, and she suddenly loses it. This is the part where your patience comes into play. Get her clit into a familiar rhythm. Circle it, flick it, wiggle the tip of your tongue under her hood. If you need to back off her clit, lap deep through her slit from top to bottom and back. Use your fingers inside, and rub her g-spot, which is the underside of her clit.
When you're doing everything right, she will begin to buck and thrash. It will be difficult to stay focused on her spot, and your teeth may even hurt her when she jerks upward. This can either help or hinder her reaching her climax, but keep your head aligned with her sex as best you can, and your tongue right where she needs it most. She will be excreting copious amounts of her juices into your mouth. Enjoy them! Swallow them. Coat your whole face with them. There is a point where she might be hovering between extreme pleasure, and pain. She may indicate you need to back off a bit until she gets back to the pleasure. This is the most frustrating part for you because you don't want to be causing her pain, but you've almost reached that golden moment. Get creative! Reach up and lightly pinch/twist her nipples, or use another finger to tease her asshole. Usually her climaxes come in waves, and you need to keep her there until she's completely over the cliff and her thrashing or clenching subsides. Her clit will probably be extremely sensitive at this point, and any further tongue-play may be uncomfortable, so it's time to cuddle and hold her close.
Classroom dismissed. Time for labwork.
I love Professor Bethany, I wish she'd give me a test to evaluate what I learned from her most interesting class. I promise I will try my best to get an A+ (:
The Linebacker
The really fun women will tell you what they want and how they want it. Just do what they want. If you give them what they want they will eagerly return the favor.
Once you really learn someone, like my wife and I with each other, then it's really wild, loud and break the bed fun.
Once you really learn someone, like my wife and I with each other, then it's really wild, loud and break the bed fun.
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