Quote by MichaelMax
Why are you pleased that many women , including my wife I suppose, decline men and themselves this pleasure?
Do you have any suggestions as to how I might convince my wife to try it? Sometimes I touch her there and sometimes for a few minutes but she always stops me when or before my finger gets in to the first knuckle. I'd love to make her cum like crazy so she'd start to like it.
You are doing it wrong. For one thing, if she is stoping you then maybe there is a reason and you should talk about it like adults rather than try and try again.
Also, it sounds to me like you are just jamming your finger in there, instead, just go down on her and stimulate er butt gently untill she orgasms, then increase the penetration at her pace.
Better yet, experiment on yourself first, try fingerfucking your own ass and find out what works and what doesn't