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I have a serious question I need help of experience women please.

I know that size does not really matter because the woman's pussy will always adjust, it can matter only at the first time, I have a good size, long but not thick. but My girl got her best strongest orgasm, when i was fingering her and sucking on her nipples ..

why is that? she could not explain or maybe dont want to sad

give me your ideas
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I have a serious question I need help of experience women please.

I know that size does not really matter because the woman's pussy will always adjust, it can matter only at the first time, I have a good size, long but not thick. but My girl got her best strongest orgasm, when i was fingering her and sucking on her nipples ..

why is that? she could not explain or maybe dont want to sad

give me your ideas


I don't have any cock-in-pussy experience, I'm afraid, but I have a huge amount of orgasm-from-fingering experience.

Firstly, not every orgasm is the same. Some are stronger, longer, less, more. It's never the same every time. It can depend on her mood, how turned on she is, time of the month, if she's stressed, if you hit her G-spot, etc.

Secondly, fingers and mouth can do a whole lot more at times simply because they are more dextrous, and can find different angles and produce varied pressures and rhythmns, all at the same time.

I would say your lass probably genuinely doesn't know why it was different. It's not a sign that you're a crap lover. Rather, it shows you're capable of pleasing your lass in many ways.

Experiment with positions and angles of penetrative sex, by all means. But please don't be worried or upset because you made your partner orgasm hard! Every orgasm is brilliant, no matter how it comes (geddit?)! If she likes her nipples sucked, try to find a position where you can do that as well as penetrate.

Above all, I would try to enjoy it, and experiment because it's fun, not because you're trying to do with one part of you that another can do just as well or better. Try both in one session! Good luck.

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wow shylass ,, thanks for your entry .. i am not worried or upset i love it and i want to know to be able to give her more of it, we do all kind of position and I love her getting the best experience and great feeling and orgasm, I wanted to know more, thats all .. thanks again you are amazing and by the way dont expect a man to give a pleasure to a woman like woman do :P
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wow shylass ,, thanks for your entry .. i am not worried or upset i love it and i want to know to be able to give her more of it, we do all kind of position and I love her getting the best experience and great feeling and orgasm, I wanted to know more, thats all .. thanks again you are amazing and by the way dont expect a man to give a pleasure to a woman like woman do :P


You're welcome.

I don't expect a man to give pleasure like a woman. That's why I like lads, after all!
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.

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I have a serious question I need help of experience women please.

I know that size does not really matter because the woman's pussy will always adjust, it can matter only at the first time, I have a good size, long but not thick. but My girl got her best strongest orgasm, when i was fingering her and sucking on her nipples ..

why is that? she could not explain or maybe dont want to sad

give me your ideas


Long but not thick describes my husband perfectly! And he manages to get me off quite nicely.

Here's something to try the next time you're in the sack with your hunny: If you're in missionary position scoot up on her so the top of your penis runs hard on her clit...and then don't let her scoot away!

The other thing to do when she rides you is to hold her hips and grind her on you until she comes.

Hope that helps!
thanks christi, nice tips ... smile
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I don't have any cock-in-pussy experience, I'm afraid, but I have a huge amount of orgasm-from-fingering experience.

Firstly, not every orgasm is the same. Some are stronger, longer, less, more. It's never the same every time. It can depend on her mood, how turned on she is, time of the month, if she's stressed, if you hit her G-spot, etc.

Secondly, fingers and mouth can do a whole lot more at times simply because they are more dextrous, and can find different angles and produce varied pressures and rhythmns, all at the same time.

I would say your lass probably genuinely doesn't know why it was different. It's not a sign that you're a crap lover. Rather, it shows you're capable of pleasing your lass in many ways.

Experiment with positions and angles of penetrative sex, by all means. But please don't be worried or upset because you made your partner orgasm hard! Every orgasm is brilliant, no matter how it comes (geddit?)! If she likes her nipples sucked, try to find a position where you can do that as well as penetrate.

Above all, I would try to enjoy it, and experiment because it's fun, not because you're trying to do with one part of you that another can do just as well or better. Try both in one session! Good luck.



This is all very true. Every woman is different. What works for one may or may not work for another. And there are so many factors that come into play as Shylass has stated.

Keep working at it and try new things with your lady. try your fingers on her clit as you penetrate her, try different positions and angles. So many options. The fact that you are concerned and want to please her tells me a lot! I am sure you will find what works. And most of all enjoy the journey.
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I don't have any cock-in-pussy experience, I'm afraid, but I have a huge amount of orgasm-from-fingering experience.

Firstly, not every orgasm is the same. Some are stronger, longer, less, more. It's never the same every time. It can depend on her mood, how turned on she is, time of the month, if she's stressed, if you hit her G-spot, etc.

Secondly, fingers and mouth can do a whole lot more at times simply because they are more dextrous, and can find different angles and produce varied pressures and rhythmns, all at the same time.

I would say your lass probably genuinely doesn't know why it was different. It's not a sign that you're a crap lover. Rather, it shows you're capable of pleasing your lass in many ways.

Experiment with positions and angles of penetrative sex, by all means. But please don't be worried or upset because you made your partner orgasm hard! Every orgasm is brilliant, no matter how it comes (geddit?)! If she likes her nipples sucked, try to find a position where you can do that as well as penetrate.

Above all, I would try to enjoy it, and experiment because it's fun, not because you're trying to do with one part of you that another can do just as well or better. Try both in one session! Good luck.



I don't think I could say it better than my friend Shylass - she's nailed it!
Thanks Nikki for the ideas, we are trying everything, not because we are unhappy but because we want to make it much better and exciting and give each other more pleasure and always new excitement thanks again smile