Passive aggressive, nope. Just telling you that you opened the door. Another poster made a comment from a male perspective so I gave my interpretation. Nothing to do with it? Well, if your content to be selfish and one way about things then I guess from your point of view it probably doesn't have anything to do with he OP. (Although I'm STILL not clear on how my remarks concerning what was meant by another post fit that description or why it was Me you chose to open fire on. Gotta give ya credit though it wasn't passive, just aggressive, needlessly so.) Next, time you post something you might want to consider that any time you're talking about personal relationships other people just MIGHT have thoughts and feelings that do not of necessity agree with everything you have to say. Clear enough now? Oh, and forgive me for offering those of your gender who might be in need of it or might have friends or family who do; a resource written by an expert (not self styled, this one has a doctorate.)
Thank you Mazza!
That describes how I've felt about my wife for 43 years. Not by rote, just those feelings and thoughts that I've lived by with her. Now her memory is going away and it's the saddest thing in the world. She doesn't remember me asking her to marry me or our wedding. I would not have missed a single moment of it though, even the rough times, because every one of them made us what we are and now each is a memory for me that I cherish and hold close.
And, yeah, sometimes I lay awake at night and stare up into the dark and remember her and cry. She's still with me but it's progressing and it's getting more difficult to take care of her. When I can't any more I don't know what I'll do. She has been my life for all that time.
I hope I can keep some of these memories as mine go away too. I can feel it start with new small things to remember and it's very frightening. If I can't i do not want to continue.
Lush is actually helping me with that. Several young ladies have adopted me as "Grandpa" and I love it. I offer advice and caring and treat them like my kids. Soft where needed but harder when that's needed. Others have given me pictures of themselves and talked about sex with me and I love it. I'd pretty much given up on that when my wife did. One has offered me even more in many emails. If I ever get to meet her I think I'll love her like I did my wife.
Here's What I expect.
1) Your new Ferrari is in the garage
2) your black card is on your pillow
3) The yacht is back from the detailers
4)Your private Island is fully developed, your castle is finished.
5) the jet is fueled and ready to go.
5) When my therapy starts.....lol!
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
As much as I want to smack a certain person on this post path and tell them to enjoy their life of loneliness and porn I'm going to move on from that.
I don't think that I want to hear all of those. Yes I want honesty and respect , but if I'm gonna be a bitch (which ladies let's be honest who isn't every once in a while) I want my guy not to fall all over him self but to go "what's wrong?" Or " and your problem is?" And help me
I think if I heard all of those from a man I'd think he cheated. Maybe I'm a cynic .
That's very hard.
All you can do is love them and take care of them. And remember what it was like.
Good for you. I loved my grandma and wasn't told she was dead for almost a year. I was in the navy and overseas. Years later my cousin told me that I had been grandmas favorite of the grand kids. I never knew that and have carried that guilt trip around for 45 years. Talk to her and get said all those things that you'll regret never telling her.
Good luck
Do you girls know how to tell if a guy is really in love with you? It's when he doesn't ask you where you hid the TV remote.
vs Mazza 
