I use a pen name for erotica and haven't told anyone that name. Nor have I told anyone that I write erotica so no one would have a reason to look into it.
I am faced with an ethical dilemma though. I was asked to volunteer with a local game night and there might be kids there. I turned them down once but they asked again. Obviously I would never share my work or even bring it up in that setting but I'm worried some prudish parent might find out (how would they unless they are reading it themselves and do alot of snooping) and make a stink. I feel like I should tell the person asking me to volunteer and let them decide, on the other hand then I've tipped my hand after I've actively tried to keep it close to my vest.
Do you folks limit contact with minors to avoid controversy as a result of writing erotica?