I have and have used considerable experience that I have gained over many years with partners of both sexes. I like to discuss our experiences with the people I have had a relationship with. Both before and after. Asking your partner what they expected and how they enjoyed their experience with you in a commonsense way (not erotically) has given me the perspective I can write about. Being bi has helped get opinions and experiences from both my male and female partners and even during a relationship, the thoughts and feelings they are having. I enjoy a chat whilst we are ‘together’ as it adds a bit of spice to what we are doing and have done with others.
Some if my stories reflect these chats with a lot of literary licence to spice it up a bit.
Sex to me is a pleasure and often recreational. Some can, and others can’t accept sharing your body with another in a friendly way. I am not one of them.
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