I am in no doubt.
I AM Bi- sexual.
Quote by BethanyFrasier
But if you don't label yourself, how will I know whether to hit on you or not? Too many people are afraid of labels. I've run into several women who've told me they're straight, and then later admit to having had sex with other women on many occasions. Presumably, if you're doing this, its because you enjoy sex with other women, but just don't want to be labeled bi-sexual for whatever reason. People many be averse to being labeled, but labels, like words, carry meaning. If you've never yet had sex, but only feel attraction to the opposite sex, are you straight-curious, or straight? Most would label you straight, even if you've never yet experienced straight sex. That's why I feel the expression 'bi-curious' is rather disingenuous, unless we start calling people straight-curious and gay-curious too. So if Lisa says she finds two women together arousing, and would probably sleep with another woman, the term 'bi-curious' just seems a bit sciolistic. If the desire is there, own it!
Quote by BethanyFrasier
But if you don't label yourself, how will I know whether to hit on you or not? Too many people are afraid of labels. I've run into several women who've told me they're straight, and then later admit to having had sex with other women on many occasions. Presumably, if you're doing this, its because you enjoy sex with other women, but just don't want to be labeled bi-sexual for whatever reason. People many be averse to being labeled, but labels, like words, carry meaning. If you've never yet had sex, but only feel attraction to the opposite sex, are you straight-curious, or straight? Most would label you straight, even if you've never yet experienced straight sex. That's why I feel the expression 'bi-curious' is rather disingenuous, unless we start calling people straight-curious and gay-curious too. So if Lisa says she finds two women together arousing, and would probably sleep with another woman, the term 'bi-curious' just seems a bit sciolistic. If the desire is there, own it!
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Quote by LadyAnnWest
I have had just 2 extraordinary sexual encounters with lovely women some years ago. If the desire and fire is there for me to be with another woman, I might do it. Don't really know. If I did, probably one night or afternoon.
So, sure I have the desire, but the passionate fire is not yet lit. So I wouldn't label myself as lez, bi-curious, straight-curious, gay -curious, curious, weird, or confused... my god have I covered all the labels??? Simply, put I'm a straight lady who enjoyed (notice the past tense) the encounters with women.
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Quote by monkey101
Erm... im still not sure i have been with 3 guys in the past which i enjoyed very and i am turned on by some gay/bi porn but its more of a fantasy than an undying urge to be with a guy so i would probably just class myself as curious i think. If anyone thinks differently please comment i like constructive criticism
Quote by AudriNichols
I was curious enough once. I tried it. I decided it wasn't the way I wanted to live my life. I chose to be straight.
Quote by dpw
I don't think choose is the right word. It infers an option. You found you were not bisexual, so you were straight. If you discovered you were bi but lived a purely heterosexual life, then you would have chosen to be straight.
Quote by AudriNichols
To say that anyone who is bi has absolutely no choice in their sexuality, would require that they must be with both male and female partners at the same time, all the time...they wouldn't have a choice. They must be a slave to their biology, and have no self control in their sexuality or their life choices. To claim that a person has no choice, means they are physically incapable of choosing who they have sex with. Only then, would they truly not have a choice. We all have choices every single day of our lives, how we want to live it. People do have a choice in their sexuality, and what desires they want to act on, whether they want to admit it or not. Choose is exactly the right word.
Quote by dpw
This is so typical of a heterosexual.
The only choice you have is to live a lie or accept your sexuality. You chose to be who you are, you didn't choose to be straight.
Quote by She
Or we can look at it from other perspective and say humans are bisexual to start with and not heterosexual as most people think, and there then is possible choice in preferences.