Best way to numb/remove sexual and relationship needs?
You would have to tell us what the sexual and relationship needs you are talking about, are. Are you talking about your sex drive, love, friendship?
Find and use the most ferocious avatar you can [x] Check!
Display repeated animosity towards your previous preferred gender [x] Check!
Appear self-centered, victimized and empathy drained [x] Check!
Counter any and all advice requested from and provided by anonymous internet denizens [x] Check!
Castrate self to remove further hormonal raging [ ]
Give away computer, fire your internet service provider, remove all telecommunications devices from yourself [ ]
Sell house, quit apartment lease or leave active military housing, move to cave suitable for creature depicted in avatar [ ]
Live happily ever after.
You're more than half way there, dood.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Get a fleshlight for the sexual needs and get a pet dog or cat for the companionship needs.
Anti-depressants to generally numb the overall emotional highs and lows.
When your mood stabilizes, set up a nice home office and join one of those sites like SecondLife and set up camp in the online universe. Act the complete opposite as you have on Lush.
Enjoy.
I have been in a boat where I didn't want any sort of relationship. The pain and hurt I had gone through was far too much and I didn't want to deal with trying again. If you truly want to put all that in the past and not date and not have the urges it’s possible. Do you have any desire to ever date again? Do you even want to have sex or masturbate? Do you want to just shelve this all for a while? Take some time for you, just you and no one else. Or is this a forever thing?
It’s a good thing you are medicated. It helps. I do think getting a pet is a good idea. Pets are extremely good for people. More so for those who live alone. {Not that I know if you do or not.}
If this is a forever thing, if you want to never think of being in a relationship and want the support. Try joining “Men Going Their Own Way aka MGTOW”. I know someone who’s in the group and has been for a few years. Sadly he isn't on Lush anymore.
If this isn't a forever thing and just want some you time for a while until you’re ready. You can do it. I did it for four years. I didn't date, have boyfriends, hell I didn't even masturbate. I just stopped it all. I have oddly weird will power when I want and or don’t want something and just go for it.
Best of Luck.
As far as my limited mind can forsee, I need it to be forever.
My mistake, tried to learn, explain. Messed up, very sorry wont bother again. Thank you for your patience and time
I would suggest you find a different psychologist. Seriously, they are not all like that. Please consider just giving it one more chance with a different psychologist, what have you got to lose? Have you ever seen a Psychaiatrist? and NO I'm not calling you insane, or loony or whatever.. psychaiatrists dont' always treat their patients with medication. They place a high value on talking things through, putting things straight in your mind, help you to untangle the many thoughts going through your head at one time....they have a wider range of tools to help you than a psychologist does, and that doesn't include medication. Sometimes when you are thinking in a certain pattern for so long, it's hard to get out of it, they can help you see things in a different light etc.
I would really love to hear how you are going in the future.
I agree with Trinket.
These psychologists are just people and some really suck at their job. A personal example is with my mother who after her divorce when to a psychologist. She came out feeling great because she convinced the psychologist to take her side which validated her victim attitude. This was no help at all for her and years later she hasn't changed, leading to her kids pushing her away.
Getting out of being stuck isn't easy or quick and at the end you should not feel empowered to continue the same distructive behavior that lead you to the psychologist in the first place. This is a personal choice by the way that can't be blamed on the psychologist. You get out what you put in.
There are Yoga moves that lower sex drive, as it channels the energy into the upper charka's rather then letting stay in your base charka.. it works.
When all else fails, become a solitary hermit in some solitary place and contemplate serenity all day and night long. When you get tired of the futile, empty life, welcome yourself back to the real world and suck it up, be a human being with dignity and respect for all.
Porn.
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Beer.
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Pets.
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Books.
Comics.
Anime.
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Sports.
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Sight Seeing.
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