wannabe89
Hi everybody. I guess I'm a cuckold wannabe at this point. I've been lurking for a couple years now and just joined so I could post. I am white, cis, and thirty-eight years old. Diana is thirty-six and nice-looking, with a respectable set. I've been wondering what it would be like if this dog actually caught the car. Well, if my wife, Diana, agreed to let me watch her be with someone else, I think I want it, and I've hinted at it a few times. So far, she's said, "No way." The last couple of times, though, she wasn't as sure. At breakfast, she said something about being sure I wasn't serious. And dropped it there.
I'm looking for help to get her to agree to it, and I guess reassure me it's not a bad idea. I kind of asked if she'd ever thought about screwing someone else.
From what I've read about it, the guy most often starts it. Is that right? What are some ways to introduce Diana to cuckolding me?
Touchme
My suggestion is, if you're not sure, don't.
Watchman_fg
If you want Diana to cuck you, take it slowly and then watch how she responds. It took me two years before my wife had her first lover; now she has two regular ones and sometimes has a one-timer. Don't be in a hurry, because if she gets mad, it's all over.
wannabe89
I've mentioned it a few times while we're making love, and while she hasn't said yes yet, we've talked about it a bit. I finally said out loud that I'd like to see her with another man. She didn't respond after that, though we enjoyed making love. That sounds like progress. Right?
Cuck4ever
Wannabe, it sure sounds like it. When it happens, it’s so wonderful. I love it when I can watch my wife. That only happens sometimes for me.
Watchman_fg
Try suggesting role-playing. Have her pretend her husband might come home and catch you.
Happy-Happy
Keep talking about it. It worked for me, although it took several months. Don’t do it too much, though. After Marci started, she told me I’d been trying too hard, and that actually made her resist. She loves messing around now.
wannabe89
A new report: She recently went clothes shopping, and the new clothes seem sexier and a little more revealing than before. Last weekend, she started some role play; she pretended to be fucking a co-worker. That’s a first, and she called me Leo. I know Leo from her work, and he’s good-looking and fit.
Happy-Happy
Do you ever watch porn together? What kind of reaction does she have? Can you share?
LovetobeCuck
God, I can’t get my wife to even try role-playing. I’m jealous..
Watchman_fg
She started it? I think she’s caving. I agree with Happy-Happy; see if you can get her watching Cuckold porn. Maybe even IR porn. Good luck, Wannabe.
wannabe89
Last night may have been a breakthrough. I got her to watch a movie—not just those clips on porn sites, but an actual movie that depicted a married couple thinking about it and then doing it. The last guy was black. Anyway, she went wild. The longer it takes, the more I want to watch her. What do you think?
Happy-Happy
I think you’re getting close; it took me about five years to think about it and tell her about it before she finally went for it. But when she does, watch out.
Watchman_fg
It took me convincing Mary that I’d still love her if she did it before we started.
Cuck4ever
When you get her started, you’ll love it. Remember that sometimes they won’t want you to watch. I’m usually left outside, listening and imagining what they’re doing inside the bedroom.
CuckDreams
That sounds so exciting, Wannabe. Be sure to continue to tell us what happens. You’re having more success than I'm having.
wannabe89
The last couple of nights, she didn’t want any more movies, but we did some role-playing once. It sometimes seems that I’m trying to climb an ice mountain. I seem to keep slipping back all the time. Diana doesn’t want to talk about it. When I try, she cuts it off. We do role play occasionally, especially cuckold role play. I’m getting frustrated.