I just wanted to share a couple of very pleasant experiences I had shopping at the Natick Mall near Boston. It was the first time ever that I managed to shop with confidence and without any stress. I really want to give compliments to lovely women who made this possible (in case any one of you ever went to shop there, tell them about this story).
The first experience I had was at a small boutique store named Free People. I was just passing by the store, when a few skirts and dresses on display caught my eye. I was planning on shopping for a dress, so I went inside. There were few customers, a couple of teenager girls and a woman in her forties. The only sales associate was a short young girl. She looked friendly, but not too intrusive. She did notice me and gave a welcoming smile, but did not draw attention to me by greeting loudly. She was mostly busy checking something at desk computer and adjusting clothes on racks. As I strolled around in the store, I happened to walk around to where she was standing. I was checking out some dresses, when she asked me in a low voice and friendly manner if I needed any help. I wasn't yet sure, so I said I'm doing good. I was happy to be keeping a low profile so far.
I picked a knee length cocktail dress, held it to my chest and stood in front of a mirror. I did look around to see anyone was giving me any look. The 40something woman was nearby, and I'm pretty sure she noticed me checking out the dress, but she did not stare at me.
Then I saw a saffron color lace skirt & I was instantly sold on it. It was a very light textured skirt, very girly and little bit of see through. The waistline had a flowery lace design and the hemline had some ruffles. It had sort of fluffy and airy look suitable for a teenager or young woman. The moment I saw it, I knew it I was buying it. I picked two- three different ones and did a quick compare on size. I briefly held it to my waist and found that it was fairly short enough to stay a couple of inches above my knee. This was exactly what I was looking for. I looked around and saw that the sales girl was arranging some stuff in one corner. As I pondered my next move, she noticed me looking in her direction & walked over towards me. She smiled and asked if I needed any help.
Now, a few months ago, this would have been precisely the moment when I would have panicked & chickened out, but not this time. I had summoned enough courage this time. I looked her in the eyes and said, "I like this skirt and I think I want to buy this. But, I want to try it on before buying. Can I use the fitting room to try it ?"
To my relief, she did not show surprise or disdain like I used to dread about. On the contrary, she looked as if that was the most natural thing to ask and said , "Oh sure, you can. Let me show you the fitting room."
I told her that I was looking for a small or medium size and asked her which of those dresses were small, as I couldn't see a label. She pointed at two of those and said those are small &medium and then said, "Maybe, try both. See which is a better fit" She showed me to one of the three fitting rooms.
The fitting room did not have a solid door, but just a heavy curtain. I was just a little conscious about there being gap between curtain and walls and that someone might see me.
Nevertheless, I quickly took off my shoes, jeans and put on the small size skirt .I posed at different angles and saw how it flowed and moved as I turned. I also did bend down to see if while doing so it looked too tight. It did not. It was a perfect fit.
I went to the checkout, the assistant asked me if I was all set. I said yes and paid. As she was neatly folding the skirt and putting it in a carry bag, I blurted out , "I'm buying something after a long time, wasn't sure what size would fit me". She blushed a little bit. I thought for a second if I shouldn't have said anything, as it seemed to embarrass her, but then she gave a beaming smile of understanding and said "Have a good day".
As I walked out of the store, I was actually surprised how calm I felt. In my past couple of experiences of shopping for lingerie or dresses, I used to be literally sweating or my heart would be beating so fast I could hear it. But today I just felt the nice feeling you get from happy shopping.
After buying the skirt, I walked around the mall, stepping in few stores occasionally. I had been very happy so far and was content to call it a day.
But I happened to wander into a store named "Francesca's collections". Walking in there, I would have never guessed how huge and great experience it would turn out.
This store was smaller than the last one. Also, unlike the previous one, there were no customers here at the moment. There were two lovely ladies behind sales counter- a smartly dressed tall woman probably in her mid 30s , and a younger woman who was very pretty.
I looked around a little bit, but nothing caught my attention. The young woman was walking around, tidying up things in general. I was looking at a few tops on one rack, when she asked me if she could help me find anything. I noticed that she wore a tag indicating her name was Kelly.
I hesitated for a minute, but remembering the previous experience, I decided it was worth asking for help. I showed her the skirt I had bought earlier and said that I was looking for something that would look good with this skirt.
She commented that it was a nice skirt and then asked the other woman, "Hey Linda, he wants to find something that will go well with this skirt"
Linda walked over towards me. She took the skirt in her hand and said, "Oh wow, that's a gorgeous skirt. Let me see ..." . She walked to one side and picked up a couple of white and beige colored tops. They looked a bit plain to me and I said as such. I was looking at a light-chocolate colored top with frills and asked Linda what she thought about it.
By this time, Kelly was also near. She commented on my selection that its color probably went well with the skirt, but not the design. She went through a few tops and picked a longer dress that had sort of a slip that went down to the knee. She said that since the skirt was sort of see-through, this slip would be well inside. I said I actually have a slip (I do) so didn't need that.
She asked me , "So are you mainly looking for something like a top?" . I told her that, that's what I was looking for.
She then looked around more and took a small beige halter top, with a satin finish, held it and the skirt together. She held it up against the light, pondered for a moment and said that these two would look good together.
Linda agreed and asked me what size I was looking for.
At this time, it dawned on me that they were still thinking that I was buying a gift for a girlfriend or wife. I cleared my throat and stated plainly, "It's actually for me, I need to try it on to know the size." I looked at their faces for expressions. Though my experience in the first store was positive, I was still half expecting for one of them to give me weird look.
I thought I saw faintest of smiles on Kelly's face.