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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Non-binary, 33
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My cousin's husband stared at my chest while his wife breastfed their daughter in the corner of the room. It was uncomfortable.
Prized Object


You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away. Your style is the perfect mix of hot and cold. You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for.
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See, the bride and the maid-of-honour are always total sluts at these parties.

Guys, take note...

Hehe

Actually on a more serious note - my male stripper friend was seriously psychologically scarred during his manwhore-dancing days. After seeing these blushing brides so eager to be down on their knees in the backroom, he felt he could never trust any woman. He actually decided that he was going to find a "nice virgin" to marry because the rest were surely cheating sluts. Sometimes when our group of friends were out drinking (at normal, non-stripping bars), he would get all serious with me and read me the riot-act about how I was being "disrespectful" to my boyfriend by going out and partying at bars without his supervision and that I should "think about how he feels" blah blah. Yup. Male strippers are damaged goods as far as accumulated emotional baggage goes. They've just seen (and done) too much.


I've never really given this any thought. Thanks for the insight. It inspired a story.
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The DMV causes extreme anxiety for me! Something about pulling a number and sitting In those cold hard govt chairs for hours on end only to be greeted by Mildred who clearly doesn't know what a clit is or how to redeem pleasure from it! Nope sorry, I'll avoid the DMV and May even pay the penalties!


I lol'd so hard at this.
Yes, unfortunately a few times, and let me tell you guys it is NOT sexy. Even if the girl gives you a friendly smile or stands next to you, do not make such advances because it won't make her feel sexy, it will be violating her.
I've done it with one or two guys, but I love it with girls. Seriously, LOVE it. Best ever.
Before I hooked up with girls, I was approached a few times by lesbians. It was awkward, of course, but not because they approached me, but because I had to say I wasn't interested and felt bad for doing so. Especially if the girl seemed like she was nice and trying really hard.
I do like to tease under the table sometimes if we're sitting with others to get a guy into trouble and make him laugh.
Listen, John. Let me give you some advice. We all came on this site to talk to like-minded people, mostly about sex, but have some class. Talk to people, build friendships and then ask to them. You're better than this. We all are.
I don't know, man. There's something about the rough look that makes a man seem more animalistic and wild.
I don't like to admit it, because although sex is great, my love for it isn't really a love, it's an addiction. I know why I am one (terrible experiences at a young age). It's all in my head, I know that too. Nymphomania is a pretty shitty disorder. Sufferers are usually mistaken for sluts who are sex-crazy, but we ourselves know that no matter how much sex we have, it will never be enough and it will never make us feel...right. Whatever. It feels good physically, but mentally it's numbing.
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I need great lapdance song suggestions....


I lap-dance for my man to trip-hop. There's an eery feel to the music that makes it much sexier.

Example:
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Appreciative glance = Good.

Leering = Bad.

There is definitely a distinct difference... (unless he's hot! LOL)


I second this. I've snapped at men on the street for being creepy and leering at me, but if a man gives an appreciative glance, I will smile and say hi to the poor fella.
For a girls first time, she's usually on the bottom, especially if the guy is experienced.
Too much talking, asking me what I want, and soft kisses. I mean, you want to be sweet and romantic. That's understandable, but c'mon...
If I want a relationship, then it's a combination of the three, personality being the most important.

If I just want sex, then again, all three, but body and looks are most important.
I don't know if I speak for most girls here, but I prefer first dates to feel like we're on a fifth date. Instead of dinner and a conversation, I like a man/woman who knows how to be spontaneous and fun. My best first date was when the guy took me paintballing and then we went to Taco Bell and had a competition to see who could eat the most. That was better than any dinner and conversation date I had ever been on.
It depends on who I'm sleeping with. I get a little aggressive during dirty talk, which some people are not used to.