I very much prefer older men. Not only do I find them more fascinating, but more attentive as well. My husband is my own age, 3 yrs older, but my lover is 20 yrs my senior.
I found this once and it summed up my feelings succinctly... I like the king. A man who has made something of himself. He has a quiet confidence borne of years of victory, of having stretched himself, proved his mettle, and it’s now something that infuses his being and needs no advertising. So previously baffled by the erratic female in his younger years, he has begun to understand women. I always tell people, it’s really quite simple. Telephone her often and make love to her frequently. Settle all her demons and open her up to love. She must feel your presence with her, a protective shield to her opening. And it is precisely this love and openness that energizes a man. Something he eventually realizes he desperately needs. But he usually doesn’t realize it until he’s over 45.
From the blog... Beautiful and Depraved