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perkynipples
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 59
United States
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as an avid reader I want to thank you writers for sharing your talent with us, and for acknowledging our importance on this site.
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If i'm using my computer the living room. other than that anywhere my phone goes lush goes with me.
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Welcome to Lush.
Now with this being your first semester you can't try and rush into dating and sex.
What you should do is get out of your room and join a coed club. This will help with you confidance. Then after your a bit more comfortable start asking girls to lunch or coffe where there is no pressure, talk to them and listen to what they say. Then keep them as friends. Then find a girl to ask on a date. You can't rush this since your a bit lacking in confidance. You will find someone it's just going to take some time.
Now with this being your first semester you can't try and rush into dating and sex.
What you should do is get out of your room and join a coed club. This will help with you confidance. Then after your a bit more comfortable start asking girls to lunch or coffe where there is no pressure, talk to them and listen to what they say. Then keep them as friends. Then find a girl to ask on a date. You can't rush this since your a bit lacking in confidance. You will find someone it's just going to take some time.
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We're working on lushmail.com, stay tuned.
yes! that would be fantastic!
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i use , it never gives me problems, plus, i like going to the g-spot every day
Is that like eating at the Y.
is spam a lot. At least that's what I refer to it as.
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if it's a special occasion then most likely I would have it on. other than that probably not.
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A great sexually fueled conversation with a friend. And lush of course.
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A well written one. Subject won't really matter if the author spins a good tale.
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It's our choice to be lesbian or bi. Just like its your choice to be straight. The question is are you Judging us because of that choice.
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Seems like a fun guy. And who can say anything but nice stuff about a guy who likes warrior princess.
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Angel, a few things to remember 1. You are not alone. 2. People do care and want to help if you will let them. 3. Forgiveness.
I too am not so easily trusting. I learned early in my youth that men could hurt you. I still have the emotional scars.
It gets easier to trust but only when your ready. The one thing that helped me is that I forgave the man who emotionally hurt me, and I forgave myself. Not for feeling guilty or thinking it was my fault but for letting him get away with it. Mind you I had no control over the situation at the time. I was a child. The forgiveness came in my early 20's. You don't have to confront them to forgive them so long as you mean it in your heart it will help. I never forget how I felt but I let people in a lot more. If they break my trust I cut them loose. But I am a better person for it. The drugs, drinking, and hiding don't help the pain go away. I've been there. They truly just make it worse. You come down from your high and get smacked around by reality even harder than before.
I think your stronger than you realize. It took great strength to ask virtual strangers for help. Hold onto the good days you have. You will need them when darkness strikes. There are good day ahead. Not going to lie it's not going to be easy and there will be bad days. The fight to survive is in your hands. Don't let the bastard that hurt you win. Tell him to fuck off, get your ass our of bed and do something; it doesn't matter what you just need to do it.
And like a few others have said if you need to talk I'm a pm away.
I too am not so easily trusting. I learned early in my youth that men could hurt you. I still have the emotional scars.
It gets easier to trust but only when your ready. The one thing that helped me is that I forgave the man who emotionally hurt me, and I forgave myself. Not for feeling guilty or thinking it was my fault but for letting him get away with it. Mind you I had no control over the situation at the time. I was a child. The forgiveness came in my early 20's. You don't have to confront them to forgive them so long as you mean it in your heart it will help. I never forget how I felt but I let people in a lot more. If they break my trust I cut them loose. But I am a better person for it. The drugs, drinking, and hiding don't help the pain go away. I've been there. They truly just make it worse. You come down from your high and get smacked around by reality even harder than before.
I think your stronger than you realize. It took great strength to ask virtual strangers for help. Hold onto the good days you have. You will need them when darkness strikes. There are good day ahead. Not going to lie it's not going to be easy and there will be bad days. The fight to survive is in your hands. Don't let the bastard that hurt you win. Tell him to fuck off, get your ass our of bed and do something; it doesn't matter what you just need to do it.
And like a few others have said if you need to talk I'm a pm away.
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Go to the forums and read the post on BDSM start with the BDSM 101 gives you lots of info of where to begin. Good luck.
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I swear that all hell breaks loose when I'm not around. How hard is it to be civil to each other. Fucking grow the fuck up.
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No you are not a looser! And yes some woman like virgins. It gives them an opertunity to teach them as opposed to retraining them in the are of pleasing them.
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No
No
I have no idea how I would react. I might think its the greatest thing in the world. Then again I might not. I guess I won't know till it really happens.
Bi
No
I have no idea how I would react. I might think its the greatest thing in the world. Then again I might not. I guess I won't know till it really happens.
Bi
