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Quote by Algolditto : )
Things I've learned about writing. (WellMadeMale kicked my ass on my first story.Thanks Jeff!)
Thanks Nicola...
This doesn't surprise me..
Everything has been user friendly, educational, professional and down right pleasant as it should be : )
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I don't cyber, send pms, chat or make friend requests and rarely answer an email. I have no desire to. If one sends an email requesting knowledge which is not personal to me, for example-a question about photography, I am happy to respond but these emails are not common. I do enjoy the connection and sharing knowledge with the world in the forums. Mostly I'm content to watch you all and read and write quietly by myself.
I don't discriminate with the friend requests because it's other people's way of using the site. All levels of maturity and cooth are excepted. It is easy for me to except the compliments/interests and ignore the juvenile's (grown or not grown) silliness.
I don't discriminate with the friend requests because it's other people's way of using the site. All levels of maturity and cooth are excepted. It is easy for me to except the compliments/interests and ignore the juvenile's (grown or not grown) silliness.
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My man says he doesn't share and I'm good with that : ) But there are times when I fantasize and get off on the thought of a beauty for us to share. Something to fill our hands and mouths and other places during sex. I do know though, it would be difficult to share the one and only thing that is for us alone.
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I read gay erotica because it is almost always interesting in that it gives me information about the male's body. We women can use this insight to please the male. The same with porn of this type. It is interesting. Technically (he) with another, can show me how to pleasure himself better than a woman can and in my mind this is a gift. Thanks people.
Also in my opinion, gays (male or female) tend to be more honest in their sexual expression for whatever reasons. : )
Also in my opinion, gays (male or female) tend to be more honest in their sexual expression for whatever reasons. : )
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You are lucky if you find any bra that doesn't hurt you in the back, or side, or rib, or tit. I feel best with no bra but need one most of the time. Even a new good fitting bra wears out much to fast for my liking especially when you consider the expense. My bra drawer over floweth.
Especially in winter, to achieve support in all areas (front-back-shoulders), I wear two bras. A light under-wire covered with a light tighter stretch bra can lift, separate and helps my torso support my tits instead of my shoulders.
Here's my tip - Save all your bras. Depending on what you're wearing, different combinations will be needed. Good bathing tops can be added to the collection as well : )
Love that y'all commented on the corset. Hadn't thought on this as everyday attire and will fit myself and give it a try -thanks
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Especially in winter, to achieve support in all areas (front-back-shoulders), I wear two bras. A light under-wire covered with a light tighter stretch bra can lift, separate and helps my torso support my tits instead of my shoulders.
Here's my tip - Save all your bras. Depending on what you're wearing, different combinations will be needed. Good bathing tops can be added to the collection as well : )
Love that y'all commented on the corset. Hadn't thought on this as everyday attire and will fit myself and give it a try -thanks
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I believe you are already cheating. I heard somewhere that if you cheat in your heart, it's the same as cheating with your body. What I've observed throughout my life in this regard has proven these words right. Also, it's probable your wife is cheating.
Furthermore, do believe we are all searching for good sex as well as some sweet harmony. Aren't these cultivated and then grown never given like magic?
Be careful what you ask for because you usually get it -good luck
Furthermore, do believe we are all searching for good sex as well as some sweet harmony. Aren't these cultivated and then grown never given like magic?
Be careful what you ask for because you usually get it -good luck
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I haven't experienced the feeling of loss anywhere on the net except for some lost accts.
Although I like some of you and respect the words you write, none of you are part of my real world. Outside of communicating with my family, I use the net for info and research. Even my writing and photography is a way to research myself. Have to admit though, would miss Dirty if he disappeared ; )
Love this site.
Although I like some of you and respect the words you write, none of you are part of my real world. Outside of communicating with my family, I use the net for info and research. Even my writing and photography is a way to research myself. Have to admit though, would miss Dirty if he disappeared ; )
Love this site.
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Quote by eviotis: )
Often quoted and then misread
you're the voice permeating my head
seldom to rise when they truly need
unbeknownst truth lying within my deeds.
Come and play while we still have the day.
Happy in sand, take my hand.
Live about love and believe in something above.
Leave the strife, enjoy your life.
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Don't have the patience to be intimidated. I write edit and write edit some more and then force myself to sit on it until I'm finished having a hard time waiting to just get it done.
Writing is a process for me. The more I write the better the outcome and practice should make better. There are times when I feel guilt for the work I put on the publishers, but also, there is joy in the pleasure of the words for me and the readers.
We are all in this together and do get it done.
: ) read, write and learn
Writing is a process for me. The more I write the better the outcome and practice should make better. There are times when I feel guilt for the work I put on the publishers, but also, there is joy in the pleasure of the words for me and the readers.
We are all in this together and do get it done.
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Quote by stephanie
I was a drug addict for almost 12 years. (I'm clean 8 years now.)
When I was using, I had a string of very sexually satisfied girlfriends, though of course the relationships would eventually disintegrate because addicts can't maintain adult relationships.
Addicts seek both release and escape from themselves. They can't accept themselves straight. (And interestingly, they come to resent the people close to them who DO love them.... For why should they, when you don't even love yourself?)
When, FINALLY, (because my latest girlfriend who I loved very much left me, being unable to take the chaos anymore) I cleaned up I discovered some strange things.
The 11 years I had spent on cocaine had been lost to me, in that, I hadn't matured, learnt real-life lessons in over a decade. I was in fact 11 years younger in my head then I was in my real life.
I lost all confidence. I had NO IDEA who I could be if I couldn't be the guy I had been during those years. I had to re-discover who I REALLY was, what made me happy, what I was good at, what was it about me that people really liked (if anything!!!) What made me happy? (I had no idea.....)
I was terrified. (And I missed the drug soooooo much....... But not as much as I missed the girl.... And I KNEW she wasn't coming back, but I also knew that if I went back to coke again I'd NEVER have another chance with anyone else...)
Fuck a girl????? For months I couldn't even talk to one.
Lonely? (I learned the horrible, HORRIBLE meaning of that word....)
And I felt guilt and shame about the time I'd wasted, the people I'd hurt, the lovers I let go, the opportunities I had thrown away.
Plus I had to come to terms with the mental and psychological issues that had led me to seek escape in addiction in the first place. (In my case, indeed in the case of most addicts I've met....... Let's just say a DIFFICULT childhood...)
Importantly, NEVER the fault of your current partner..... They're just the one's you take it out on....... Because you can......
Recovery is not a confident place to be.
You can't feel like a sexual person if you've lost all confidence...
I was disgusted by myself. I felt such shame and sadness at what I'd allowed myself become. And now I had to discover who I really was. (And what if, without the drugs, I turned out to be nothing at all?)
This POOR GUY is going through all these feelings.
And if you think about, it's not the easiest thing to admit, ESPECIALLY to a wife you love, you respect, you've hurt and Who You Need To Love And Respect You..... (And you ask yourself, "Why should she?")
You get over it. The self hatred is the hardest thing to let go of.
This is my experience.
I have good friends now, and incidentally, my libido is as good as it ever was. But maybe sharing this with the wife of a guy who's going through what I went through might make her understand a little bit.
I hope I haven't been too honest, but I really feel for this guy and his wife.
It get's much better.
Self confidence returns........ (But a different confidence because you've become a different type of guy....) It takes a lot of time.
xx SF
What you have written here is beautiful. I am personally grateful for the honesty and insight. Thank you : )
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I don't mind and even get turned-on when the word cunt is used to describe the material aspects of a woman's genital. But it sounds wrong to me when associated with meaning or life giving part of the woman's body.
In other words, there are times when the word can be used to show this material thing as just a sexual object whereas, the use can be taken to mean just that (a thing) when describing a beautiful (thing) which somehow deserves more than cunt.
Know when to and when not to use it.
In other words, there are times when the word can be used to show this material thing as just a sexual object whereas, the use can be taken to mean just that (a thing) when describing a beautiful (thing) which somehow deserves more than cunt.
Know when to and when not to use it.
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Giving a blowjob is the same as eating a woman. Both can be acts of beauty and can deliver great orgasm.
Of course, we see women jacked in the face often and rarely see men forced or handled roughly in this manner. Bummer because not only is it a turn-on to watch a woman stick her sweetness in a face and work it hard but also, it's great to watch a emotional dick sucking.
Imagine a mouth drenched dick and balls. So hard and slippery it slides down a relaxed throat as the balls hard become an extension and are allowed in the mouth as well. Then she strokes with her hand the places the mouth missed. After a while his blood red cock begs for the softness of the mouth and then the roughness of her hand. Shoving, he screams in a low manner as she sucks and then jerks the cream to his head and spills it over him to see the whiteness and then has to have the sweetness and eats it.
With a towel she wipes the wet and mess from him and wishes for more.
A blowjob is sex. It can be wonderful to receive him with your mouth as you should your vagina or your ass : )
Of course, we see women jacked in the face often and rarely see men forced or handled roughly in this manner. Bummer because not only is it a turn-on to watch a woman stick her sweetness in a face and work it hard but also, it's great to watch a emotional dick sucking.
Imagine a mouth drenched dick and balls. So hard and slippery it slides down a relaxed throat as the balls hard become an extension and are allowed in the mouth as well. Then she strokes with her hand the places the mouth missed. After a while his blood red cock begs for the softness of the mouth and then the roughness of her hand. Shoving, he screams in a low manner as she sucks and then jerks the cream to his head and spills it over him to see the whiteness and then has to have the sweetness and eats it.
With a towel she wipes the wet and mess from him and wishes for more.
A blowjob is sex. It can be wonderful to receive him with your mouth as you should your vagina or your ass : )
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Just before I turned 50, after a rough night we sat in the morning sun warming ourselves on the porch. I remember avoiding his glances and hiding my face from him. He said,
"What you doing?"
I said "I'm a mess."
Nodding his head he said,
"Yes-You're my mess."
: ) the sweetness of it will stay with me forever
"What you doing?"
I said "I'm a mess."
Nodding his head he said,
"Yes-You're my mess."
: ) the sweetness of it will stay with me forever
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hey Catnip, IMHO, it kid of depends on the situation you are writing about, for me, pussy is fine, vagina (strangly enough) is also very erotic when used in the right context, I think Cunt is fine when used in a strictly non-derogatory way (and in moderation), but why not use words that describe the particular aspect of the genitalia you are writing about, eg, labia, pussy lips, clitoral hood, mons.
other phrases I have read include "juncture of her thighs" and "her sex"
Don't kow if this answers your question, but I hope it helps
agree that it can depend on the situation -i like to read the writer -by that i mean i want to hear how the writer speaks -this aspect of a writer can be entertaining in its self: )
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