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lifeafterdeath
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 31
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What really turns me on..... I'm gonna say a session of hot passionate love making, not just fucking. I want to see the expression on my girl's face when she climaxes and feel her grip me tighter as a press deeper and slower, savoring those sweet moments. It turns me on to see her riding me to her fullest content, as fast as she wants while I press her buttons, kissing her chest, neck and anywhere else my lips touch. It also turns me on to know that she puts the same amount of effort (if not more) that I put in to make sure that she is not just satisfied, but happily pleasured.
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Quote by WellMadeMaleQuote by lafayettemisterQuote by thepainterQuote by studintraining
where abouts is the gspot or is it different for every woman?
It's generally located under the middle toe of the woman's right foot.
Shows what you know. It's under the middle toe of the woman's LEFT foot. Dumbass.
You rookies are all clueless.
She generally keeps it in her purse, inside her billfold and it has a 25k limit.
Dangit, last time my girlfriend said that she must've left it at home......... :/
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Rain, I must say. Well, actually, water falling or crashing. Top three on my list will have to be;
1)Waterfall
2)The waves crashing at the beach
3) Rain falling at the cabin in the woods.
1)Waterfall
2)The waves crashing at the beach
3) Rain falling at the cabin in the woods.
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So, I'm sure some of you read my previous thread (Is it sad that I take my personal life and put it up here for random people to criticize?)
I know time is the only real way you can get over someone, I'm just looking for a way to speed things up, you know? Kick it up a notch.
I know time is the only real way you can get over someone, I'm just looking for a way to speed things up, you know? Kick it up a notch.
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The simple truth is that a pussy isnt what we have, and we find it inciting and arousing when we see one. Its just nature. Think about it, girls have pussies, so why do they get filled with lust when they see their partner's cock? There must be a balance.
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Relax, dont rush things. If you want to lose it just because you have it and not because you're giving it to someone you love, I really dont see the point. My view, same as the old fashioned view, Save it for someone you're truly in love with. Trust me on this one, there will be no regretting it this way.
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Stand there shocked for a while. I mean come on, what else can you do if she randomly ran up to you, kissed you and then walked away? Unless if she didnt walk away, then we'd get to talking.
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Ladies, we all know that making out can lead to lots of stuff. From hardcore fuckfests to tender love making.
What I'm asking is for you to describe the best kiss you ever had.
What I'm asking is for you to describe the best kiss you ever had.
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Okay, here's my problem. There's this girl that I started seeing, not officially dating yet, but still seeing her rather often. Everything was going great, chemistry was right. After bout 3 weeks or so her periods came and nearing the end of it, we had a small fight over the phone. Now, I didnt do anything, and apparently my silence towards her situations pissed her off really badly. After a few days, things started to get normal again and I thought we were gonna pick up where we left off. Now, one of her friends who works close to her recently confessed to her and tried kissing her, but she isnt like that, so she backed away and they argued for a while about how that was sort of inappropriate. The dude said some shit and she started crying while we were on a video call with each other, I didnt know what to do or say. After that, a few days went by where she ignored his calls until finally she picked up and they started talking, and they eventually became friends again.
I still like this girl, alot, and I thought she felt the same way about me too, until recently I saw something that may or may not prove otherwise. I visited her the other day, and the topic of the guy came about around friends, and when she said his name, she blushed and said it in a kinda high pitched fashion.
I think she likes this guy, the same dude that insulted her to the point of tears. I told you all this to ask this simple question; Why do girls like guys that hurt them emotionally? I dont get it, I fell in love with this girl and there's a chance that she's pushed me aside for someone who isnt gonna make an effort to make sure that she's happy at the end of the day. Or was it something I did wrong? Someone, please tell me, cause this feeling that I have right now is freaking unbearable.
I still like this girl, alot, and I thought she felt the same way about me too, until recently I saw something that may or may not prove otherwise. I visited her the other day, and the topic of the guy came about around friends, and when she said his name, she blushed and said it in a kinda high pitched fashion.
I think she likes this guy, the same dude that insulted her to the point of tears. I told you all this to ask this simple question; Why do girls like guys that hurt them emotionally? I dont get it, I fell in love with this girl and there's a chance that she's pushed me aside for someone who isnt gonna make an effort to make sure that she's happy at the end of the day. Or was it something I did wrong? Someone, please tell me, cause this feeling that I have right now is freaking unbearable.
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Baby, I love you because even though I screw almost everything up, you put up with it. You make me smile, laugh, feel loved, wanted and so much more. Words cant describe the feelings I get when I look into your eyes. I love you for being you. Nothing is perfect, but you come pretty damn close.
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Here are some things you might have wondered about your penis, but were afraid to ask.
No. 1: Your Penis Does Have a Mind of Its Own
You've probably noticed that your penis often does its own thing. You may remember times when it was completely inappropriate to have an erection; and yet you couldn't wish it away.
It's true that you have less command over your penis than body parts like your arms and legs. That's because the penis answers to a part of the nervous system that's not always under your conscious control. This is called the autonomic nervous system, which also regulates heart rate and blood pressure.
Sexual arousal usually isn't voluntary. The conscious mind is complicit in it, but a lot of sexual arousal goes on in the sympathetic nervous system. In addition, impulses from the brain during the REM phase of sleep cause erections, whether you're dreaming about sex or about a test you forgot to study for. Heavy lifting or straining to have a bowel movement can also produce an erection.
Just as the penis grows without your consent, sometimes it shrinks. "The flaccid penis varies in size considerably within a given man," says Drogo Montague, MD, a urologist at the Cleveland Clinic. Exposure to cold water or air makes your penis shrink. That's a function of the sympathetic nervous system.
Psychological stress also involves the sympathetic nervous system, and stress has the same effect as a cold shower, Montague says. When you're relaxed and feeling well, your flaccid penis looks bigger than when you're stressed out. Psychological stress can result in loss of libido and problems with erections. Both stress and anxiety are leading causes of temporary erectile dysfunction or ED. Being able to manage stress and control anxiety will help you get your erectile function back.
Of course, not all ED is caused by psychological problems such as stress. Physical problems such as atherosclerosis or high blood pressure can inhibit the flow of blood to your penis. Type 2 diabetes can damage both blood vessels and the nerves involved in getting an erection. Excessive alcohol consumption can also interfere with getting an erection.
The penis is "kind of a barometer of the sympathetic nervous system," Montague says. So the greeting, "How's it hanging?" is more apt than you might have realized.
No. 2: Your Penis May Be a 'Grower' or a 'Show-er'
Among men, there is no consistent relationship between the size of the flaccid penis and its full erect length.
In one study of 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely, from less than a quarter inch to 3.5 inches longer.
Whatever the clinical significance of these data may be, the locker-room significance is considerable. You can't assume that a dude with a big limp penis gets much bigger with an erection. And the guy whose penis looks tiny could surprise you with a big erection.
An analysis of more than a thousand measurements taken by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey shows that shorter flaccid penises tend to gain about twice as much length as longer flaccid penises.
A penis that doesn't gain much length with an erection has become known as a "show-er," and a penis that gains a lot is said to be a "grower." These are not medical terms, and there aren't scientifically established thresholds for what's a show-er or a grower.
Kinsey's data suggest that most penises aren't extreme show-ers or growers. About 12% of penises gained one-third or less of their total length with an erection, and about 7% doubled in length when erect.
No. 3: Your Penis Is Shaped Like a Boomerang
Your penis is shaped like a boomerang. Just like you don't see all of a big oak tree above ground, you don't see the root of your penis tucked up inside your pelvis and attached to your pubic bone.
In an MRI picture, the penis looks distinctly boomerang-like, as noted by a French researcher who studied men and women having sex inside an MRI scanner.
One method of surgical "penis enlargement" is to cut the ligament that holds the root of the penis up inside the pelvis. This operation may give some men a little extra length if more of the penis protrudes from the body, but there are side effects. This ligament, called the suspensory ligament, makes an erection sturdy. With that ligament cut, the erect penis loses its upward angle and it wobbles at the base. The lack of sturdiness can lead to injury.
No. 4: You Can Break Your Penis
There is no "penis bone," but you can break your penis all the same. It's called penile fracture, and it's not a subtle injury. When it happens, there's "an audible pop or snap," Montague says. Then the penis turns black and blue. And there's terrible pain.
Penile fracture is rare, and it typically happens to younger men because their erections tend to be quite rigid.
Here's how to avoid penile fracture: don't use your penis too roughly. A common way that penile fracture happens, Montague says, is when a man is thrusting too hard and fast during sex, and slams into his partner's pubic bone. Also, a woman who moves wildly while on top of a man during sex can break a man's penis.
Peyronie's syndrome is a related condition that tends to show up more in older men, Montague says. An older man's erection may not be as rigid, but still is hard enough for sex. Over time, if the penis bends too much a certain way during sex, small tears in the tissue can form scars, and the accumulated scar tissue gives the penis an abnormally curved shape.
Not all penis curvature is a problem, however. "There is a lot of variability in what normal is," Cummings says.
No. 5: Most Penises in the World Are Uncut
A report by the World Health Organization (WHO) and the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS) estimates that worldwide only 30% of males aged 15 and up are circumcised.
Rates vary greatly depending upon religion and nationality. Almost all Jewish and Muslim males in the world have circumcised penises, and together they account for about 70% of all circumcised males globally.
The United States has the highest proportion of males circumcised for non-religious reasons. A whopping 75% of non-Jewish, non-Muslim American men are circumcised. Compare that to Canada, where only 30% are. In the U.K. it's 20%; in Australia it's merely 6%.
The practice of circumcising baby boys for medical and cosmetic reasons has become controversial in the U.S. But recently the World Health Organization (WHO) and the UUNAIDS recommended circumcision for adult men, based upon evidence that men with circumcised penises have a lower risk of being infected with HIV.
The CDC estimates that about 65% of all newborn boys get circumcised in the U.S.
No. 1: Your Penis Does Have a Mind of Its Own
You've probably noticed that your penis often does its own thing. You may remember times when it was completely inappropriate to have an erection; and yet you couldn't wish it away.
It's true that you have less command over your penis than body parts like your arms and legs. That's because the penis answers to a part of the nervous system that's not always under your conscious control. This is called the autonomic nervous system, which also regulates heart rate and blood pressure.
Sexual arousal usually isn't voluntary. The conscious mind is complicit in it, but a lot of sexual arousal goes on in the sympathetic nervous system. In addition, impulses from the brain during the REM phase of sleep cause erections, whether you're dreaming about sex or about a test you forgot to study for. Heavy lifting or straining to have a bowel movement can also produce an erection.
Just as the penis grows without your consent, sometimes it shrinks. "The flaccid penis varies in size considerably within a given man," says Drogo Montague, MD, a urologist at the Cleveland Clinic. Exposure to cold water or air makes your penis shrink. That's a function of the sympathetic nervous system.
Psychological stress also involves the sympathetic nervous system, and stress has the same effect as a cold shower, Montague says. When you're relaxed and feeling well, your flaccid penis looks bigger than when you're stressed out. Psychological stress can result in loss of libido and problems with erections. Both stress and anxiety are leading causes of temporary erectile dysfunction or ED. Being able to manage stress and control anxiety will help you get your erectile function back.
Of course, not all ED is caused by psychological problems such as stress. Physical problems such as atherosclerosis or high blood pressure can inhibit the flow of blood to your penis. Type 2 diabetes can damage both blood vessels and the nerves involved in getting an erection. Excessive alcohol consumption can also interfere with getting an erection.
The penis is "kind of a barometer of the sympathetic nervous system," Montague says. So the greeting, "How's it hanging?" is more apt than you might have realized.
No. 2: Your Penis May Be a 'Grower' or a 'Show-er'
Among men, there is no consistent relationship between the size of the flaccid penis and its full erect length.
In one study of 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely, from less than a quarter inch to 3.5 inches longer.
Whatever the clinical significance of these data may be, the locker-room significance is considerable. You can't assume that a dude with a big limp penis gets much bigger with an erection. And the guy whose penis looks tiny could surprise you with a big erection.
An analysis of more than a thousand measurements taken by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey shows that shorter flaccid penises tend to gain about twice as much length as longer flaccid penises.
A penis that doesn't gain much length with an erection has become known as a "show-er," and a penis that gains a lot is said to be a "grower." These are not medical terms, and there aren't scientifically established thresholds for what's a show-er or a grower.
Kinsey's data suggest that most penises aren't extreme show-ers or growers. About 12% of penises gained one-third or less of their total length with an erection, and about 7% doubled in length when erect.
No. 3: Your Penis Is Shaped Like a Boomerang
Your penis is shaped like a boomerang. Just like you don't see all of a big oak tree above ground, you don't see the root of your penis tucked up inside your pelvis and attached to your pubic bone.
In an MRI picture, the penis looks distinctly boomerang-like, as noted by a French researcher who studied men and women having sex inside an MRI scanner.
One method of surgical "penis enlargement" is to cut the ligament that holds the root of the penis up inside the pelvis. This operation may give some men a little extra length if more of the penis protrudes from the body, but there are side effects. This ligament, called the suspensory ligament, makes an erection sturdy. With that ligament cut, the erect penis loses its upward angle and it wobbles at the base. The lack of sturdiness can lead to injury.
No. 4: You Can Break Your Penis
There is no "penis bone," but you can break your penis all the same. It's called penile fracture, and it's not a subtle injury. When it happens, there's "an audible pop or snap," Montague says. Then the penis turns black and blue. And there's terrible pain.
Penile fracture is rare, and it typically happens to younger men because their erections tend to be quite rigid.
Here's how to avoid penile fracture: don't use your penis too roughly. A common way that penile fracture happens, Montague says, is when a man is thrusting too hard and fast during sex, and slams into his partner's pubic bone. Also, a woman who moves wildly while on top of a man during sex can break a man's penis.
Peyronie's syndrome is a related condition that tends to show up more in older men, Montague says. An older man's erection may not be as rigid, but still is hard enough for sex. Over time, if the penis bends too much a certain way during sex, small tears in the tissue can form scars, and the accumulated scar tissue gives the penis an abnormally curved shape.
Not all penis curvature is a problem, however. "There is a lot of variability in what normal is," Cummings says.
No. 5: Most Penises in the World Are Uncut
A report by the World Health Organization (WHO) and the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS) estimates that worldwide only 30% of males aged 15 and up are circumcised.
Rates vary greatly depending upon religion and nationality. Almost all Jewish and Muslim males in the world have circumcised penises, and together they account for about 70% of all circumcised males globally.
The United States has the highest proportion of males circumcised for non-religious reasons. A whopping 75% of non-Jewish, non-Muslim American men are circumcised. Compare that to Canada, where only 30% are. In the U.K. it's 20%; in Australia it's merely 6%.
The practice of circumcising baby boys for medical and cosmetic reasons has become controversial in the U.S. But recently the World Health Organization (WHO) and the UUNAIDS recommended circumcision for adult men, based upon evidence that men with circumcised penises have a lower risk of being infected with HIV.
The CDC estimates that about 65% of all newborn boys get circumcised in the U.S.
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Yeah, I have. Fell out of it though, person wasnt what I thought they were.
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Dude, I have no idea why. Its happened to me before -____-
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(My first one was true, actually)
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Never been in a threesome before
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Never been in a threesome before
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Something that weird has to be true!
When I'm nervous I cum in my pants
When I'm nervous I cum in my pants