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justalilfun
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 45
Australia
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I went the trial and error route...
There are major differences in feeling between brands.
I know someone who could not maintain in one brand, but used another same day, no probs...
I found one that works for my size etc, so I stick to them.
There are major differences in feeling between brands.
I know someone who could not maintain in one brand, but used another same day, no probs...
I found one that works for my size etc, so I stick to them.
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I do, but mostly when I am writing them. When re-reading and editing not so much... I guess it is because I know what is coming up in the story line.
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What a cool idea. Now we shall see how diverse our musical interests are...
I Remember When I was Young by Matt Taylor.
An oldy, but a goodie.
I Remember When I was Young by Matt Taylor.
An oldy, but a goodie.
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Quote by Dani
What's a false pussy eater?
I have to agree. I love eating pussy. I have sucked on, and played with fake breasts before. But only ever eaten real pussy. mmmm love eating pussy....
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The orgasm race is always one where a gentleman comes second. I am sure glad I don't have such a short fuse.
But to not get you off after you have gotten him off - that is just plain rude.
As others have stated, you need to be open and communicate with him on this. Don't try to encourage him. Tell him. Maybe you could try and deny him a blowjob, and when he asks for one. Tell him not until he gets you off first. He needs to learn that your needs are important too.
Deny him and let him know it is how you feel when you don't get your release for weeks on end. It might be a turn on for both of you to try edging.
Work on building up the length of time before he cums together. You could get him close, then have him get you close. Turn it into a bit of fun.
I wish you the best of luck with this one...
But to not get you off after you have gotten him off - that is just plain rude.
As others have stated, you need to be open and communicate with him on this. Don't try to encourage him. Tell him. Maybe you could try and deny him a blowjob, and when he asks for one. Tell him not until he gets you off first. He needs to learn that your needs are important too.
Deny him and let him know it is how you feel when you don't get your release for weeks on end. It might be a turn on for both of you to try edging.
Work on building up the length of time before he cums together. You could get him close, then have him get you close. Turn it into a bit of fun.
I wish you the best of luck with this one...
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17 cm or about 6.7 inches, not lacking in the stamina dept either... Never had a complaint.
If any of the sexy ladies on here wished to bring a tape and an hour glass, she may check for herself...
If any of the sexy ladies on here wished to bring a tape and an hour glass, she may check for herself...
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Duchess, speaking for myself. I love eye contact, it is such a turn on. I also prefer you to be the one in control (well the lady who is giving), unless we are in a 69 and I can return the favor.
If you enjoy yourself, your guy will too. Don't be afraid to ask what he likes. But unless your jaw is starting to get sore, don't be in a hurry. If you take your time he will enjoy it so much more.
There is no greater a turn on than a lady who uses her hands to play with my balls, stroke my shaft and run her hands over my body in general. Don't focus all of your wonderful attention on just sucking it.
The occasional light bite, or tooth scrape is sensational too. Vary the amount of suction you give him, light to full on too. As others have said, if you suck me till I go soft it is fantastic. The head of my penis is very sensitive, but more so after I cum, so continuing after I have cum is something else.
I still remember the woman who first gave me the treatment I have described, and a few other things. I have no idea how she could work her mouth on me, but it was wonderful all the same. And no, she was not my first lover - she was the best though.
I think if you follow some of the advice from here, you will indeed be the best he has ever had.
Lucky guy....
If you enjoy yourself, your guy will too. Don't be afraid to ask what he likes. But unless your jaw is starting to get sore, don't be in a hurry. If you take your time he will enjoy it so much more.
There is no greater a turn on than a lady who uses her hands to play with my balls, stroke my shaft and run her hands over my body in general. Don't focus all of your wonderful attention on just sucking it.
The occasional light bite, or tooth scrape is sensational too. Vary the amount of suction you give him, light to full on too. As others have said, if you suck me till I go soft it is fantastic. The head of my penis is very sensitive, but more so after I cum, so continuing after I have cum is something else.
I still remember the woman who first gave me the treatment I have described, and a few other things. I have no idea how she could work her mouth on me, but it was wonderful all the same. And no, she was not my first lover - she was the best though.
I think if you follow some of the advice from here, you will indeed be the best he has ever had.
Lucky guy....
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Surely if you want others to show you respect you should show yourself some!
I hope that you aren't implying that I behave like this! If you are you obviously know nothing about me!
My comment was not personally directed at you, no. My comment is directed at everyone who just assumes from what is written in the person's profile, that it is fine to jump right in with something like 'Hi, I have a XYZ" cock, wanna chat'.
Be nice to someone and you may end up having a long lasting and fun lush friendship. Judging by some of the other forum topics, maybe more...
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You should still use a little decorum before just jumping in. It is out of respect for yourself, as well as the other user.
They may be after a conversation of an explicit sexual nature, just not with you.
Not every user is on the site for your gratifications...
They may be after a conversation of an explicit sexual nature, just not with you.
Not every user is on the site for your gratifications...
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I am not defending women, or men either for that matter. I am merely saying that a persons username, their profile description etc, should not leave them open to rude crude and disrespectful opening conversation lines or friend requests.
I am making the point that you should always show a person a level of respect during the first few contacts, and see where the conversation goes.
Not just start with some derogatory gutter comment - who cares how big or small your appendage is?
If you can't put your brain into gear first, it is going to stay in your pants. With the people I have met it would anyway, people seem to forget the biggest sexual organ in the human body is your mind...
Men and women are capable of being both intelligent and also being absurd little grotts. It is just that sometimes intelligence loses and their ugliness comes to the fore.
I am making the point that you should always show a person a level of respect during the first few contacts, and see where the conversation goes.
Not just start with some derogatory gutter comment - who cares how big or small your appendage is?
If you can't put your brain into gear first, it is going to stay in your pants. With the people I have met it would anyway, people seem to forget the biggest sexual organ in the human body is your mind...
Men and women are capable of being both intelligent and also being absurd little grotts. It is just that sometimes intelligence loses and their ugliness comes to the fore.
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I take some of your points, the problem is that only the decent guys will post on a thread like this, so at least you'll earn points. The point I'm making is that if you have a user name like Fuckmypussy and your bio reads "I like riding hard cocks" with interests of Rough Hard Sex", then is it any wonder that a guy will say "I've got a 9" dick"?
Why should she then complain of inappropriate messages and blame the guys?
So let us put a slightly different twist on this then... Off topic a little but...
If the lady was walking/ sunbaking/ swimming etc on a nude beach nude, does this mean she is just waiting for a random male to walk up to her for sex?
I may be reading your responses wrong, but I get the impression you think it does...
Just incase you were wondering, it does NOT.
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OK I am a guy, and after reading some of the responses from the ladies in this thread...
Guys in general are a**holes. It is no wonder the few of us males that are here for the fun and not to be a troll are given the brick wall treatment.
Regarding your username - it should not mean that a lady or a guy for that matter, is here to be trash talked at by anyone.
If you have no respect for others, why should they respect you?
But there have been some responses from the ladies on here that... Well they actually don't surprise me. I see no reason why the ladies should have us guys chat to/with them in any way other than we would in real life.
Guys in general are a**holes. It is no wonder the few of us males that are here for the fun and not to be a troll are given the brick wall treatment.
Regarding your username - it should not mean that a lady or a guy for that matter, is here to be trash talked at by anyone.
If you have no respect for others, why should they respect you?
But there have been some responses from the ladies on here that... Well they actually don't surprise me. I see no reason why the ladies should have us guys chat to/with them in any way other than we would in real life.
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IMHO, I have only ever written for the fun and enjoyment of writing. The readers' comments and score are just a bonus for me.
I actually checked out a couple of my own stories. Yes there is one story that I never intended to a multi part story, but it could be. The way it ends for me was to be a sensual memory style ending. BUT after reading some of the replies to this thread and checking it out again, maybe it could be thought of as a bit of a cliffhanger in some readers' eyes?
I have only ever written 1 multipart story. Readers seem to love it, so yes I have given thought to how I will end it. When I published the first few chapters, I had not thought too much about how long it would be between publishing each chapter. I did write the first 4 or 5 before publishing it though. Now I am about to write the 8th chapter, I think it will be the last. Does that now mean for the few people who have enjoyed my story, they will be disappointed in it coming to an end?
Back to the main reasons I don't publish in a regular pattern.
Ideas come, the story is crap, no I don't publish it.
I don't get time between, work, family, my other releases in life, etc to write. So I don't bother trying to. As an example, I went twelve months between my last story and starting the multipart I am currently working on. I am sure I am not alone in this situation. I often wonder how the mods get any stories written - Hats off to you guys, without you, we can only wonder how our own stories would get here...
Just my opinion, take it or leave it...
I actually checked out a couple of my own stories. Yes there is one story that I never intended to a multi part story, but it could be. The way it ends for me was to be a sensual memory style ending. BUT after reading some of the replies to this thread and checking it out again, maybe it could be thought of as a bit of a cliffhanger in some readers' eyes?
I have only ever written 1 multipart story. Readers seem to love it, so yes I have given thought to how I will end it. When I published the first few chapters, I had not thought too much about how long it would be between publishing each chapter. I did write the first 4 or 5 before publishing it though. Now I am about to write the 8th chapter, I think it will be the last. Does that now mean for the few people who have enjoyed my story, they will be disappointed in it coming to an end?
Back to the main reasons I don't publish in a regular pattern.
Ideas come, the story is crap, no I don't publish it.
I don't get time between, work, family, my other releases in life, etc to write. So I don't bother trying to. As an example, I went twelve months between my last story and starting the multipart I am currently working on. I am sure I am not alone in this situation. I often wonder how the mods get any stories written - Hats off to you guys, without you, we can only wonder how our own stories would get here...
Just my opinion, take it or leave it...
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The sexiest thing a girl can wear to bed, well anywhere really is a smile. Especially if I am the reason for the smile.
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I have not yet met any of my lush friends... Some I would like to meet and see how everything went. From friends to sex, wherever we feel comfortable to go. I have however met people from other sites, and have had some great sex. I have also had a bad experience or two though.
Just make sure you meet away from home incase they are not so nice in person... Your safety should be upper most in mind, not just the sex side of things.
Happy days ladies and gentlemen.
Just make sure you meet away from home incase they are not so nice in person... Your safety should be upper most in mind, not just the sex side of things.
Happy days ladies and gentlemen.
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Holding the vibe, or an ice cube on her erect little love button can drive her crazy too.
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Depends really. Sometimes once a week. Sometimes it can be a couple of times a day, especially if I get on lush and read a hot story or two...
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Quote by gunshopgirl
I'm reading this fascinated, I expected the consensus to be that most guys wanted bald (shaved or waxed). I'm shocked at how many do **NOT** like this. I wax 100% front to back because I like how clean it feels (and is) and never thought that there might be someone who would be turned off by that. Some food for thought.
I agree with you gunshopgirl. I also thought most of the replies would have said waxed or at least fully shaven.
Personally though, I prefer trimmed the only bush I like is bushland for sex. If a woman shaves whatever she likes to do with the razor or wax is good.
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If alone... then masturbate if I am really horny. Everyone sleeps better after sex.
If with a lovely lady.. Make sweet love then fall asleep in each others arms.
Wake her up with oral and massage...
If with a lovely lady.. Make sweet love then fall asleep in each others arms.
Wake her up with oral and massage...
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O K... So I am pretty sure people seem to not be able to read what is wriiten on the home page of Lush, as there is this little quote "Lushstories.com is a free sex stories adult community site where you can publish, read and comment on erotic stories."
Did I miss something?
So where is the Lush dating/swingers tab? lmao
Are some of the ladies on here looking for a little male company?
As for your warning to the desperate and dateless... Or maybe the man in the mirror,
As in all situations real or online, If it seems too good to be true - it is.
The internet is full of these people. Here and on dating sites. People have all sorts of reasons not to use a personal photo.
Go down to your hardware store, buy some timber, a few nails, and a hammer. if you're really keen grab some paint too.
Go home and build a bridge. Then get over it.
Let the insults return.
Did I miss something?
So where is the Lush dating/swingers tab? lmao
Are some of the ladies on here looking for a little male company?
As for your warning to the desperate and dateless... Or maybe the man in the mirror,
As in all situations real or online, If it seems too good to be true - it is.
The internet is full of these people. Here and on dating sites. People have all sorts of reasons not to use a personal photo.
Go down to your hardware store, buy some timber, a few nails, and a hammer. if you're really keen grab some paint too.
Go home and build a bridge. Then get over it.
Let the insults return.
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A sexy smile goes along way with me. Also when she plays a little hard to get. Sensual kissing and caressing of each other... There are so many things really.
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I have had a couple. I see no reason not to have another. As long as we all enjoy and no one is hurt... Why not? It's just sex, not that 'L' word lol
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I do prefer a trimmed pussy. I also trim my manhood, why should I ask a lady to trim if I am not going to do so myself?
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Not sure how bad it is in the states. But over here in Oz, we either have singing shows, cooking shows - not that you would actually cook any of the 'meals', weight loss shows (Biggest loser) or some other reality based who cares type show.
It is very much the same as the music juggernaut of today. Find something that works this month and flog it to death. You can only flog a dead horse so many times...
The best thing is the networks advertise when the show will be on air, so you can happily watch something else.. Or log into lush and read a fantastic story or two lol
It is very much the same as the music juggernaut of today. Find something that works this month and flog it to death. You can only flog a dead horse so many times...
The best thing is the networks advertise when the show will be on air, so you can happily watch something else.. Or log into lush and read a fantastic story or two lol
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Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge turn off. No one wants to kiss an ashtray.
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wjackl, we could try - wait till 2022... He might just join the 27 club. He sure as hell wont get any talent between now and then! I wish the news agencies would stop reporting on the has beens, and never was beens. That way we would not have to ask for our 15 mins back.
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Have enjoyed a one nighter before. She came back twice more, does this still count? I agree with them as long as no one gets hurt.
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