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Yes! I have also converted my formerly nevernude boyfriend.
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domiKNITrix
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 154
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'I could care less' instead of 'I couldn't care less.'
It drives me up a fucking wall.
THIS ONE. Also, using the word "literally" when talking about an exaggeration. Example: "Oh my GOD Kelsey, I LITERALLY died when my professor told me to read a dictionary!"
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Well, turns out I'm a brat! Contrary to my username, I bottom a bit more often than I top.
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Well shit, maybe I should tell my boyfriend. He has the same issue and likes his butt to look good. I own a pair of men's jeans and yeah, they compress the booty. Not so comfortable.
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Women's - 1920's, but downplayed a little. The cloche hats are so fucking cute, the short bobs, knee-length rectangular dresses, lipstick, dark eye makeup, the film noir and silent film aspects... not big on 1920's brows though.
Men - Same era. Wool suits with suspenders look dapper as hell.
Men - Same era. Wool suits with suspenders look dapper as hell.
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Gosh, seeing all of these vibrant, happy, graceful older women makes me sooo happy! Society puts so much emphasis on youthful being a "better look" for women. Seeing a smiling woman with gray hair, wrinkles and fucking cute lingerie surely proves otherwise! Maturity is so far from being a bad look on women.
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I'm always overdressed or UNdressed. I only own nice clothes, so that's how it works.
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I'm a yoga teacher, so I see the BKR waterbottles a lot. I haven't jumped on that train yet, as I rarely drink water away from home. If I'm travelling, it's always SmartWater. So as of now, I don't own a waterbottle.
A fitness trend I have gotten in on, is yoga. I got on that train with my mom when she started doing it when I was 3 or 4. She got me my own mat when I was that age, and that's pretty much where I lived. That mat was where I ate food, watched tv from, colored, etc. But, the issue with making the mat your home is that I was panicking internally when I my boyfriend asked for nude yoga lessons, without a mat, on top of a mountain a week or so ago. We ended up doing fine. I highly encourage yoga outdoors barefoot without a mat now!
Another fitness trend I do is making smoothies. Smoothies are my main food source. I was formerly anorexic, and still see eating as a chore. I make up excuses to avoid eating. When I can make a huge smoothie with fruits, nuts and veggies and oodles of calories, I have no excuse. I'm also dairy-free. I avoid ingesting fluoride (and I make my own toothpaste). I wash my hair with baking soda, and condition it with a little bit if hemp seed oil. I suppose these are all "trends".
A trend I'd LIKE to get in on is making my own clothing. Purchasing high-quality cotton fabrics, and sewing my own shirts. Knitting my own skirts, hats and socks. The thrifting I've been doing since I was 12 is good, but it's difficult to find durable clothing doing that.
A fitness trend I have gotten in on, is yoga. I got on that train with my mom when she started doing it when I was 3 or 4. She got me my own mat when I was that age, and that's pretty much where I lived. That mat was where I ate food, watched tv from, colored, etc. But, the issue with making the mat your home is that I was panicking internally when I my boyfriend asked for nude yoga lessons, without a mat, on top of a mountain a week or so ago. We ended up doing fine. I highly encourage yoga outdoors barefoot without a mat now!
Another fitness trend I do is making smoothies. Smoothies are my main food source. I was formerly anorexic, and still see eating as a chore. I make up excuses to avoid eating. When I can make a huge smoothie with fruits, nuts and veggies and oodles of calories, I have no excuse. I'm also dairy-free. I avoid ingesting fluoride (and I make my own toothpaste). I wash my hair with baking soda, and condition it with a little bit if hemp seed oil. I suppose these are all "trends".
A trend I'd LIKE to get in on is making my own clothing. Purchasing high-quality cotton fabrics, and sewing my own shirts. Knitting my own skirts, hats and socks. The thrifting I've been doing since I was 12 is good, but it's difficult to find durable clothing doing that.
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Beards are super sexy! Well-kept and clean, of course. I don't wanna be kissing cave-Gandalf.
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My morning routine:
-First thing, tea, spicy cocoa or lemon coffee while checking Tumblr, Facebook, Lush, etc. (15 minutes)
-Small breakfasty thing like yogurt or a banana (3 minutes)
-Brush teeth, take out retainer (3 minutes)
-On mornings when I floss, add another 2 minutes.
-Next, I put on makeup while naked. (20 minutes)
-Do my hair (5-8 minutes)
-Clothing (4 minutes)
-First thing, tea, spicy cocoa or lemon coffee while checking Tumblr, Facebook, Lush, etc. (15 minutes)
-Small breakfasty thing like yogurt or a banana (3 minutes)
-Brush teeth, take out retainer (3 minutes)
-On mornings when I floss, add another 2 minutes.
-Next, I put on makeup while naked. (20 minutes)
-Do my hair (5-8 minutes)
-Clothing (4 minutes)
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Three. Two of them were trash. 0/10. Definitely quality over quantity.
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It doesn't bother me, I myself use it. But nothing beats the proper terms, I must say. "I slid my tongue along every crevasse of her throbbing vulva", in my opinion, is more erotic than ""I slid my tongue along every crevasse encasing her throbbing pussy".
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Personally, I think you gals are prettiest when not wearing a lot, if any, make up and I can see the real you. So my question is, why do you? Do you feel better when you wear it? Do you wear it for yourself or for others? Because it's expected of you?
Thoughts please
Personally, I don't give a damn what men or women think. I don't wake up and think "I'm gonna wear teal eyeshadow because Michael likes teal" or "I'm gonna wear red lipstick because Michael loves kiss marks on his face." I love Michael but Michael doesn't know shit about makeup, and doesn't affect my makeup decisions.
The thing is, even if I'm wearing makeup, you do see the "real" me. Are you against people wearing clothes because "that's fake, you weren't born with that, I wanna see the real you!" NO. My body is still my REAL body, and accessorizing it and clothing it doesn't change that. My face is my REAL face and, contrary to common belief, doesn't actually change shape when makeup is applied.
Without makeup, I feel cute, adorable, fresh. With makeup, I feel more confident, in charge, sexy as fuck. I wear makeup for myself when I do wear it. Also, from my experience, I've never felt that I was "expected" to wear makeup. I am ridiculed or criticized by both men (like yourself) and women, left and right, because I often DO wear makeup.
The biggest misconception has got to be that I wear makeup because I'm self-conscious. It took me far more courage to wear black lipstick in public for the first time than it does to go out there bare-faced.
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I had a very bad back injury as a child (age 7). I was in chiropractic therapy weekly for about two months, then monthly for a few years. When I was 12, I got a steel-boned cincher like the ones pictured, which I would wear to school on "bad back days". From my experience, wearing a cincher causes your body to not distribute excess fat to that area... it's been well over three years since I've worn one now, and while my chest, thigh and buttock measurements increase or decrease drastically if I gain or lose weight, my waist stays the same. No, that's definitely not genetics, because every other female in my family gains weight right in the stomach area.
I like the idea of waist-training... although I don't think it's healthy to wear a corset all the time. If a corset is worn literally 24/7 for years, this could affect core strength. Also going too narrow can't be good for the internal organs.
I like the idea of waist-training... although I don't think it's healthy to wear a corset all the time. If a corset is worn literally 24/7 for years, this could affect core strength. Also going too narrow can't be good for the internal organs.
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This is difficult because I'm a nudist. Probably my leather jacket with patches and spikes. Every time I wear it, I get tons of compliments.
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Crocs are the biggest NOPE ever.
Bootcut jeans... ugh. I once dated a man who wore bootcut jeans. They are just so fucking unflattering on everybody.
The skinny jeans + Vans, converse, whatever. It makes feet look super flat. Gotta pair skinny jeans with a nice pair of heels or high-tops.
But out of all of this, my biggest turn-off fashionwise has to be... unkempt piercings. If you have piercings (I have 12), you have GOT to be able to maintain them. Neglected, uncleaned smelly stretched piercings... ughhhhhh. I'm not THAT person, whoever I'm dating also should also be not THAT person.
Bootcut jeans... ugh. I once dated a man who wore bootcut jeans. They are just so fucking unflattering on everybody.
The skinny jeans + Vans, converse, whatever. It makes feet look super flat. Gotta pair skinny jeans with a nice pair of heels or high-tops.
But out of all of this, my biggest turn-off fashionwise has to be... unkempt piercings. If you have piercings (I have 12), you have GOT to be able to maintain them. Neglected, uncleaned smelly stretched piercings... ughhhhhh. I'm not THAT person, whoever I'm dating also should also be not THAT person.
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Wow - so many women in this thread opening up about being survivors of sexual abuse! So proud of you, and I'm glad you're okay and hopefully healing!
Some men do like to abuse women. This is a sad fact. No woman likes to be abused. To be a little more clear about what abuse is:
BDSM: Not abuse, as all true BDSM is consensual.
Non-Consensual BDSM: Actually just abuse, not BDSM at all.
Some men do like to abuse women. This is a sad fact. No woman likes to be abused. To be a little more clear about what abuse is:
BDSM: Not abuse, as all true BDSM is consensual.
Non-Consensual BDSM: Actually just abuse, not BDSM at all.
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I have two answers for this. One for largest length, the other for largest girth.
Longest was close to 7 inches with an average girth. He was 5'11" and basically had no clue how to fuck, give oral or anything. It sucked.
Thickest was definitely above average in girth, but had a lower-end-of-average length. It was awesome, but only for a short time. This asshole REFUSED to use lube. That girth with no lube was hell after 10 minutes. He was 5'8".
For me, a perfectly average size (maybe even a little on the small side) with a decent, sexually educated person attached is THE BEST.
Longest was close to 7 inches with an average girth. He was 5'11" and basically had no clue how to fuck, give oral or anything. It sucked.
Thickest was definitely above average in girth, but had a lower-end-of-average length. It was awesome, but only for a short time. This asshole REFUSED to use lube. That girth with no lube was hell after 10 minutes. He was 5'8".
For me, a perfectly average size (maybe even a little on the small side) with a decent, sexually educated person attached is THE BEST.
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Often! Pretty much any time I'm not on my period. Nobody notices though.
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Only consentually! I do not enjoy having my face bit though.
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Fun in theory, but can be time/energy-consuming in practice. So no.
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As long as they weren't a sissy. I find sissies to be pretty degrading to women as a whole. Shemales, trans people and feminine men, however, are very okay!
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My boyfriend wears my booty shorts if he has to leave our room to get something. I think it's adorable! If he was to wear my bras or panties during foreplay, I'd be completely okay with it.
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Older, but only slightly.
I've found that men in my age group (18-21) are still getting their lives together and aren't the most mature bunch.
But astoundingly, I also found out through a few not-so-smart decisions on my part that MUCH older men (40+) who chase women in my age group tend to have emotional problems and control issues coupled with the lack of maturity and not having their lives very put-together as their younger counterparts. I'm aware that not all older men are this way, but that has been my experience thus far and I'm not risking that kind of instance again.
Therefore, the 22-26 age group seems optimal for me at this point in my life. My wonderful boyfriend is 5 and a half years older than I am, and I couldn't possibly be happier!
I've found that men in my age group (18-21) are still getting their lives together and aren't the most mature bunch.
But astoundingly, I also found out through a few not-so-smart decisions on my part that MUCH older men (40+) who chase women in my age group tend to have emotional problems and control issues coupled with the lack of maturity and not having their lives very put-together as their younger counterparts. I'm aware that not all older men are this way, but that has been my experience thus far and I'm not risking that kind of instance again.
Therefore, the 22-26 age group seems optimal for me at this point in my life. My wonderful boyfriend is 5 and a half years older than I am, and I couldn't possibly be happier!
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I love giving blow jobs, but I'll only do it if I know they can return the favor AND make me cum. Hint: I've only been with one man who could. Also, I don't swallow