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I've never heard that before, not do I imagine that it's necessarily true. Every woman has her way of doing it, and how the guy likes it is what makes one blow job better than another. Big girls rock.
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benawriter
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 56
0 miles · Birmingham
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I think it differs with men and women. As guys get older, we tend to want younger women because they are more adventurous sexually and consequently we will try things we never considered before. Women, on the other hand, at least in my observation, tend to be more satisfied with tender (or sometimes rough) sex with the same partner because each knows the other's "hot buttons".
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I agree with several comments above, that it has to be with people you know and trust and that everybody understands that everybody involved should be sexually satisfied one way or another before it is over. Usually doing it with friends is best because you should already know a lot about them. I've only been in fmf threesomes but have always managed to satisfy both of them. Not all women want to share a guy and not all women want any girl/girl action but they may still agree to participate in a threesome.
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during role play with a hooker while my girlfriend was out of town for an extended trip, I was restrained (as requested and planned) she after a (probably pretended) orgasm sitting on my face, she urinated and forced me to ingest some of it in the process. She ignored my "safe" word. My girlfriend knew that I would visit this hooker in her absence because they were friends, but I did not tell her what happened because I was actually turned on by the aggressiveness and dominant nature of the hooker.
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You've not been with the right guy(s) yet; most of us do it willingly and want to please and satisfy her. Unless it's a hygiene issue or the wrong time of the month, no reason not to accommodate her.
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Not having sex or coming for days at a time I don't think is physically painful. However there are circumstances that can produce the "blue balls syndrome" such as when she takes him to the edge, manually, orally, etc. repeatedly and he does not come for whatever reason. I think the boyfriend's comment was mean to make you feel sorry for him and have sex.
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I have never understood the process of pulling out and masturbating on her face, tits or anywhere else. I would think a woman would prefer to leave him in her mouth when he comes. At least she has the option of swallowing or spitting, either of which is less messy for her. I definitely would prefer to continue the pleasure she's giving me by finishing in her mouth, or pussy for that matter.
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The only "feeling:" I can describe is just before I come, maybe 4 or 5 seconds when it's going to happen and there's no way to stop it, I can feel it rising in my cock.
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Considering your body and attitude, I'd want oral the first time around, preferably a 69. Would that do?
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I think that sex with a virgin just requires a little patience, making her comfortable, finding out what arouses her and then proceeding at a pace that won't pressure her. Giving her an oral orgasm first would be my preference.
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If she wants it, there is no reason not to do it, and do it right. Some guys are just too eager to get to the main event that they don't consider giving her pleasure first, which is a mistake. There's something very gratifying to satisfy her orally first, or just any time she wants it.
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Being orally inclined, I'm comfortable with thin, slender, average, thick or plus size if she likes where I like to go.
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I think it's natural for a guy to be attracted to a sexy ass, and playing with it to some degree in foreplay is fun if both partners enjoy it. Anal sex would have to be her choice and then, proceeding carefully I would oblige. Admittedly it is fascinating if she is top riding reverse cowgirl to watch me being consumed by her.
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You could just flash your tits and I'd be a goner with a boner. Not a fighter, more of a licker.
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I don't care for the taste of my own cum, but if she wants me to, or even better, "makes" me do it (I like being dominated) I will, however she wants to feed it to me.
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Three times to satisfy fantasies I could not get from my girlfriends, first two were adequate, barely worth the money, the last, a threesome with an escort and her stripper girlfriend was the hottest sex I could imagine, worth much more than I paid.
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Lying on my back, leaning up on my elbows so I can watch her. Slow, long strokes with lots of attention to the head. At the end, just squeezing the head with her fist and then using my cum to stroke the shaft again, slowly for a long time.
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An athletic, or well toned butt arouses me more, but a small versus large would be preferable. There's always enough to be smothered with!
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With a nice set like that in the pic, I'd wonder how much you'd let me get in my mouth.
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Unless she states an objection in advance, I prefer to let it go wherever it is when my orgasm arrives. If it's in her mouth, between her tits, in her hand or pussy or in her ass. If she states a preference, I'll comply.
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Pictures, whether she states they are really of her or not, are basically immaterial. What arouses my interest is what she says about her sexual interests and if they are parallel to mine or even close.
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The attraction to a younger woman/girl for guys is two-fold. One, it's an ego thing that a younger girl/woman would have sex with you, and two, younger girls/women have a tendency to retain their sexual adventure. They're more willing to have sex in various ways for fun and pleasure. As women get older they tend to want to find a routine for sex, nothing spontaneous or outside-the-box.
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If she was even remotely attractive, or even average, I'd say "Tell me what prompted you to do that so I can make you do it again." If she was fugly I'd probably break away and ask, "What was that all about?"
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If she is walking towards me, her face and then her legs. If she is walking away from me, her ass and then her legs.
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Since most women get hot from kissing, I don't care if she has lipstick or lip gloss, but if she is into teasing kisses, flavored lip gloss, the stickier the better melts me in her hands.
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Any female who wears a uniform with any sense of authority and fits the uniform = she can make me do anything for her (sexually). Female cop, female fire fighter, meter maid, female doctors, dentists, hygienists. If the uniform calls for a skirt, OMG I'm a goner, gonna drool until she laughs at me.
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I like to use my other fist to catch it and then use it for lube for a second round. Shower takes it all away later.
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Alternating between licking, sucking and stroking is pretty hot, when I don't know when she will let me come. Regardless of the method used, take it slow and easy; it will drive him crazy.
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Bethany Frasier had the best answer, but next to that, convince him to let you tie him down, then have your way with him. if he doesn't go along with, find somebody who cares for you enough to do it, or somebody who just loves giving oral.
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Handjob from two women, one at a time. The second would be the best.