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alliet14
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 31
United States

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Fake
Love
Obviously
Puts
People
In
Never
Ending
Sadness,
Sadly.

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I am no therapist, but I think you have done your share. This site is full of people just like you have described your husband. Men and women get addicted to the attention that they receive from a stranger. The camera thing would freak me out. I first thought you were going to say he filmed the two of you having sex and posted it on the web, which is totally fucked up in my book. I see him as a control freak. He has you at home, alone where he can control you. Its not going to get any better if he does not own up to his problem. I wish you the very best.
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I believe its a very fine line. Being a preachers daughter, the Bible says if you do something in your mind, its the same as doing it. So in that sense, yes it is. However the gospel according to Allie says that cybersex is just assisted masturbation and I do not thing it is cheating.
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I guess it is possible, but I couldn't. My definition of love maybe different than other peoples. The thing about falling for someone on Lush is that there is never a complete trust. Someone can tell you they love you, yet have sexual talks with other people at the same time, and to me that is not love. I believe that you can find someone that can fill a void in your life, and give you the attention you desire, but still its not love. My reply may not be welcomed, I lost a dear friend on Lush because of it. He was/is too blind to see the writing on the wall, but we are all supposed to be adults yet we throw the word love around like a deflated football. smh
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I have not did anything stupid yet today, but the day is still young.