I've never really noticed much difference.
Complicated. I don't approve of cheating but it's not my job to police them. If a man comes on to me I don't ask if he's single. Even if he is married, he may be in an open relationship. If not, he is the one cheating, not me.
I often don't wear panties. Especially with jeans. Or if it's hot I will wear a cotton dress without underwear. As for 'other naughty secrets', only on very rare occassions do I go out with any secret objects inserted.
The longest cock I have ever had was 10-11inches. Way too long. Eight inches is about as long as I ever want for a good hard fuck. Thickness is a different matter. I have taken a cock thicker than my wrist. It took a bit of relaxing to get it in there but it was worth it. My legs were like jelly afterwards.
I have only 'made love' to about thirteen men. They all fucked me over in one way or another. These days I prefer to just get fucked. Long and hard. Then they can either get out, or stay and fuck me again in the morning. But no more making love for me thanks.
A bit of both of course. I do like being able to give my lovers so much pleasure but I really enjoy the control factor. The power I have over a man when I have his cock in my mouth is amazing. The look on their faces as they blow their loads in my mouth is hilarious. Plus I get to suck them hard again. Which drives most men insane just after they have cum. Then they fuck me longer so it's a bit of self interest on my part. Plus I do actually get wet sucking cock.
Of course I love being eaten out. Who doesn't? I orgasm much easier from oral than from fucking. Only riding my sybian makes me cum faster.
That's the best way to get round two or three out of them. The salty sweet mix is good.
It feels like we have had this question before. I definitely prefer to insert something. I rub my clit to bring myself off but I pretty much always have a vibrator or dildo inserted while I am doing it. Riding my Sybian is best.
Tie him up. Suck him hard but stop before he cums. Ride him for as longs a you want but don't let him cum. You should be able to tell if he is getting close to cumming. Get off him if necessary. Ignore all his pleas to let him cum. Frustrate the hell out of him! Straddle his face and don't get off until you have cum at least twice. Then go down and ride his cock some more. Repeat as often as desired.
When you feel you are FULLY satisfied, you can suck him off or untie him and let him fuck you hard. If you have kept him from cumming for an hour or two, he will cum in seconds, I promise.
I have known several married friends who got into swinging and almost without fail, it caused problems. Once or twice it was because my girlfriends became more attracted to one of their other lovers and broke off the earlier relationship. Most of the time, the problem came from the male who initiated the whole idea. They found that watching or hearing about their wife/girlfriend fucking other guys wasn't the fantasy they thought it would be.
I have had quite a few lovers ask me to include a third person. Since we weren't in a one on one relationship, there were no jealousy issues and it was great fun. In a serious relationship though things can be quite different, so be very careful that this is what you and she really want.
It appears to be age related. Most of the younger men I have been with recover within a few minutes and they are ready to go again. Older men usually take longer to recover, but they often take longer to get off as well, which is nice, so it kind of balances out.
Young or old though, the best way I have found to get them hard again, is to suck their cock.
I've been watched many times. I've only been filmed by a few close lovers. It's fun to watch ourselves on playback. I have been very careful about what happens with the recordings.
It depends on the position but a bit of eye contact sometimes is hot. I love watching their face when they cum.
The climax is always a high point of course. Pun intended.
It's not really about intimacy. I don't really think of sex that way.
It's more about the unbridled passion. Wild abandon. Loss of control.
I love everything about it but sometimes I don't even remember their name.
It's not intimate.
So ask her! I like it at the final stage of a blow job when they can't hold back anymore and grab my head and fuck my face. It something about the satisfaction of taking them to that edge I guess. A bit of a power thing. Whatever the reason. I love it.
They vary! Grunters mostly. Not a lot of big talkers at the critical moment. LOL
I don't see the appeal. I will give it a miss.
Some bodily functions are best kept from the other sex. Actually all men's bodily functions should be kept to themselves. Except one, but that's more suited to the bedroom, than the bathroom.
I wear short skirts and dresses without knickers frequently.
I can't think of any forbidden places as such. However one very public place springs to mind.
I went to a seaside area wearing a short , light summer dress, without knickers. Big mistake!
It was a nice day so there were thousands of people around. On the way back, the wind picked up. I spent the next two hours trying to stop my dress blowing up. Quite often unsuccessfully. A hundred people must have seen my bare arse or fanny that day.
I'm not really interested in a partners previous experiences. Also not really into telling him about mine. I don't find that sexy in any way.
I would rather that we make our own intimate memories.
The lounge room. My modular sofa was bought wirh sex in mind. It is very comfortable whether I am straddling, laid out on my back, or on my hands and knees.
The bed or the couch. Other places too of course but those are the main ones.
I prefer none but it is a pain shaving nearly every day. I tried waxing but didn't like it. Too painful.
Sex and love are two completely different things. You don't need sex to love someone. You don't need to love someone to have sex. But I can't imagine reaching a point in a relationship where I would say 'I love you', without having already had sex, many times. So if you are talking about romantic love, sex always comes first.