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Wolfie22
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 40
United States
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Well this really depends upon what we are doing. If it's before we have sex, I like to start out standing, light kissing and touching before setting her on my bed and continuing from there with a whole lot of "B", hehehe, she likes me to be in control. But if we have just had sex, then we like to lay next to one another, kissing, touching, until I get hard again, then we decide how we are going to fuck again, hahaha.
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The Romantic Lover
73% partner focus, 71% aggressiveness, 45% adventurousness
Based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that:
You prefer your romance and love to be traditional rather than daring or out-of-the-ordinary, you would rather pursue than be pursued and, when it comes to physical love, your satisfaction comes more from providing a wonderful time to your partner than simply seeking your own.
This places you in the Lover Style of: The Romantic Lover.
The Romantic Lover is a wonderful Lover Style, and is the hallmark of young love--the Romantic Lover often loves the idea of being in love, and being a wonderful lover, and so they try to bring their prospective partners every bit of joy or happiness that they can. They are the serenaders, and the ones to rent carriages in the park or take a gondola ride down a canal. The Romantic Lover is a treasure to find, though they sometimes are prone to being hurt if their advances are ignored or harshly rebuffed.
In terms of physical love, the Romantic Lover can seem shy, but usually it is simply a by-product of wanting to be perfect for their lover, and often needs some extra encouragement and re-assurance to truly feel at ease. Given a special, intimate evening, and the right lover, the Romantic Lover can be a delight in bed.
Best Compatibility can probably be found with: The Classic Lover (most of all) or the Suave Lover, or the Exotic Lover.
Congratulations!
73% partner focus, 71% aggressiveness, 45% adventurousness
Based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that:
You prefer your romance and love to be traditional rather than daring or out-of-the-ordinary, you would rather pursue than be pursued and, when it comes to physical love, your satisfaction comes more from providing a wonderful time to your partner than simply seeking your own.
This places you in the Lover Style of: The Romantic Lover.
The Romantic Lover is a wonderful Lover Style, and is the hallmark of young love--the Romantic Lover often loves the idea of being in love, and being a wonderful lover, and so they try to bring their prospective partners every bit of joy or happiness that they can. They are the serenaders, and the ones to rent carriages in the park or take a gondola ride down a canal. The Romantic Lover is a treasure to find, though they sometimes are prone to being hurt if their advances are ignored or harshly rebuffed.
In terms of physical love, the Romantic Lover can seem shy, but usually it is simply a by-product of wanting to be perfect for their lover, and often needs some extra encouragement and re-assurance to truly feel at ease. Given a special, intimate evening, and the right lover, the Romantic Lover can be a delight in bed.
Best Compatibility can probably be found with: The Classic Lover (most of all) or the Suave Lover, or the Exotic Lover.
Congratulations!
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Quote by khlesasI'm not going to listen to a horsem even if you are a Doctor. lol But hey, keeping your thread alive.
this is not a turn you into zombie thread ...you can create a separate thread for that
But now you shall wear the outfit of a Fresh Musketeer, feather in your cap and all.
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Quote by sunshinehighAnd once again you with the dead, always with the dead!!! That's it I'm coming to bite you! And I am going to be bringing a mascot monkey head, a ninja suit and a pair or wings, so you will be crowned a flying, monkey, zombie, ninja!!!! YEAH, you are going to look awesome.
I bestow upon you the outfit of a zombie...one that has clearly had his inards busted out of him and is missing an arm..possbily slack jawed...you can still tell however that he is rocking is COD3 shirt...no headshots for you mister
But as for you mister poster above me... we are going to dress you is something extra specail. ;)
Hmm... Okay I got it. But I am going to need a horse suit!
I'm going to dress you up in a one person horse suit then put you in a lab coat, with a clipboard and a pen, you shall become.... HORSE MD!!! Nay sayers be damn, you are a doctor! *Snort.*
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Quote by SensualDesires83Well put there, and great advice. I must say I have never heard that thechnique before, I have however heard of a technique that involves grabbing the shaft and the scrotum, (one in each hand) and then pulling them in different directions. It's said to work, but it sounds and looks so very harsh, that it might even make him lose his erection... I don't recommend it.
There is one exercise called the "Squeeze Technique" where when a couple begins sexual activity, and the urge to ejaculate becomes prominent, they can stop and the partner can squeeze the glans (the head) where it meets the shaft with a gentle pressure until the urge to ejaculate has gone. At the point, the couple can resume, let's say maybe 30 seconds later. This process can be repeated over and over until the urge is gone and the woman can be penetrated. With this technique and with practice using it, the sensation of delaying ejaculation can be achieved and knowing when would become a habit where the "Squeeze Technique" may not be needed.
Another way is to have him masturbate to orgasm before you two have sex. Most of the time, this will delay ejaculation when you two start to engage in the act itself.
There is also topical numbing creams that can be applied to the penis, but they can be deceiving because they could numb his sensitivity too much and also cause you to have a loss of sensitivity because he is inside you.
This is also more than likely a psychological issue and he could get help with talking about it. He more than likely has performance anxiety and gets worked up about it. Maybe if he thinks less about ejaculating too early, he could enjoy being with you and having you stimulate him in a relaxed environment.
Whatever you do, I agree with Wolfie22. Do not chastise him over it. He is very aware that he is doing this and I am sure he feels ashamed.
As long as you two work together and build your relationship, it will get better.
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Okay, here's what you need to do. When you guys start to have sex, when he gets close, STOP. Just enjoy the feeling of him being in you, and the same for him, just kiss softly and very slowly start to work up speed again. If that doesn't work, have him pull out. give him a minute and just so you don't go cold, let him play with you. As soon as he can hold himself back from cumming, let him back in... trust me these things will work. Just please, for the love of god what ever you do, don't get mad at him for cumming to soon and DO NOT put him down for it. If you do that, he will do nothing but stress over it, and that will either make him cum sooner, or not be able to get hard at all. Trust me, he knows he is cumming too soon and is as worried about it just as much as you are, even if he doesn't say anything about it. You guys just have to work on this together with love and understanding. Best of luck to you both.
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It has to be my girls house, while her whole family was over to paint the house. We were in her room and I was feeling super horny, but I was trying to be good and not act like a total horn dog. Then her mom told her they were going to be panting to hall way so she need to close the door, she even told my girl she should just lock it to make sure we didn't open it. My turn her back to me and as soon as that door was closed and the lock was turned my cock was out of my pants and I was jacking it for all it was worth. When she turn around her jaw dropped and she said in a shushed tone. "Put him away you horny bastard. My family is right out side, you can't do that." But I didn't stop, I kept cranking as I stared into her eyes and growled. I kept that up for a few moment and was about to stop, so I could save all that nice cum for later on. But she grabbed hold of my cock and growled back at me, "Is this what you dirty boy." Start jerking me off. "Your not going to stop to now, you're going to give me all that cum right now." she got right next to my ear and commanded me to now! Needless to say I obeyed, I came all over her hand, part of my pants, the floor and even a little on her sister note book, Hahaha. Her mom came knocking on the door like two seconds later asking about something I don't remember, my girl just answered back to her while she started into my eyes, biting her lower lips and working my shaft with a few vigorous motions to try and get me moan out lone, hahaha, dirty girl.
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Quote by MissyLuvsYa
A cowboy hat.
Cowboy hats are sexy!
I thank you my good lady, I have wore a cowboy hat before and I must admit I do look sexy in one.
As for you good sir above I'd put you on a ship and make you wear the outfit of a pirate, a captions outfit for you good sir, and you can have many a battle with other pirates.
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Oh it's always the little things, being able to share a meal, a cup, being able to pick at one another, the kissing just because you want it, sleep together soundly through the night with her on your chest, holding hands, being able to say that we are friends as well as lovers, and her being able to calm me down when I am at the point beyond pissed (Never at her though)... But the best thing for me though has to be being able to tell each other fuck you, or being called an asshole and we just both laugh about it, the laughter and the trust in one another is very important.
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Sight is the one thing I couldn't give up. To never be able to see my beautiful fiance's face. I'd miss her smile way to much. Of course it would be hard to live without feeling her kisses as well, but for that I'd always my memories of what that felt like. Reading lips is an easy trick for me, plus I remember a shit tone of sounds, so no big lose there.
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Well if a tattoo for sexiness is what you are looking for I would say utilizing those magnificent breast of yours and putting one across the top. like Belladonna. Umm, you should probably avoid the tramp stamp, so played out. For my personal taste I'd pick the full shoulder tat or the back of the neck tattoo. Oww I have also seen a full leg wrap tattoo that can be super sexy, and a foot and ankle tattoo can be a nice one to start with.
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