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Verena
1 day ago
Bisexual Female, 38
United Kingdom

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It seems odd to me that after four years they haven't discussed it and he still doesn't know why.

Personally I've always loved the pulsing sensations of a guy coming inside my pussy or mouth
Yes, many times because sometimes it can be very satisfying just taking care of your partner's/date's needs.
It depends on the circumstances. In a long and slow sensuous lovemaking session, I would feel my efforts were being undervalued.

During a quick steamy session on my knees being naughty and dirty with a guy or girl, I love it, because it's true.
I've never done it simultaneously but it sounds very sensuous so it's now on my must-try-it list
Not sure as I don't know how you are defining a sex freak!
Receiving a strong kissing session with stroking and exploring hands never fails to take me past the point of no return
I love doing them when the man is in control and I'm doing it as a submissive act, makes me cum when he does
Man or Woman, I always need them to be the assertive one.
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It's an oddly phrased question. If you felt that "horny" about him, why would you just want to blow him and not have sex? I've never met a guy and just thought "I want to swallow your cum, but that's it."

I exclude occasions why a blowjob is the only practical option e.g. in a public place.


Apart from drinks influenced naughty occasions when I was younger I agree with naughtyannie's comment
Yes, quite a few times, mostly fooling around and giving blow jobs, full sex only a couple of times.
The current fantasy I have is, with the knowledge and experience I have now, to be the new pretty 18 year old office junior that everyone's got the hots for, including some of the women.

Now that would be fun
Depends on the size of the car. Awkward but fun, blow jobs are an easier option, I've given quite a few of them in cars
1. High heels - Neither
2. Dick Pics - Turn-off
3. Bromances - Neither
4. Poetry - Neither
5. ASMR - Neither
6. Game of Thrones - Turn-off
7. Cuddling - Turn on
8. Sarcastic & Cynical Humour - Neither
9. Motorcycles -Turn-off
10. Musical Virtuosity - Turn on
11. Yourself - Neither
12. Short Skirts - Turn on
13. Classical Erotic Art Pieces - Neither
14. Emotional Sensitivity - Depends
15. Tattoos - Turn-off
16. Scars - Neither
17. Social Awkwardness - Turn-off
18. Star Trek Uniforms - Neither
19. Lesbian Orgies - Turn-off
20. My (Venutian) Profile Picture - Neither
I certainly look at women and partially undress them with my eyes. I like to imagine what she's wearing underneath, how she carries herself, what that could tell me about her and would she be flattered or freaked out if she knew I wasn't just admiring her outfit?
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Are you asking...what, what I do if my partner isn't able to achieve an erection? Your phone is not doing you any favours.

Anyway. If my partner wasn't able to achieve an erection after sustained, serious efforts on my part, I think that I would lean more towards something being wrong medically--cardiac issues, for instance, can affect a man's ability to achieve and maintain an erection--rather than leaning towards he's just not in to me.


This, plus stress or anxiety could be the cause. A caring partner would gently delve into the potential reasons first and find out why and react as she feels is appropriate to it.
Yeah, in my previous long-term relationship I was happy to do it when he wanted me to, which was most days unless life got in the way.
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1. I'm fine thanks.
2. Yes, the rain, April showers and it's cold, 4 degrees.
3. I don't need to talk about it, no one can control the weather.
4. I wouldn't judge you for spelling judgment-free zone without a hyphen.
Correction: Your total turn off words?

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The word Cunt..


Thank you, you saved me having to type it.

Babe, baby and baby doll leave me cold.

Muff, chuff, snatch, fanny and gash are also words I don't like.
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I have never understood these threads, same as would you .... with the person above you. But whatever.


No, I've never understood the relevance of this thread either as the OP isn't going to see what we're wearing. Anyway, maybe he's seen something like this I found on the internet and he's doing a personality/frame of mind or kind of thing.

It's a guide to what colour your wearing says about you:

BLACK: Sexiness, Seduction, Secretive or just plain "I want to get some tonight, baby!"

RED: Passionate, Romantic, Erotic... "I want to be romanced tonight...take my breath away, lover..."

PINK: Delicate, Flirty, Youthful... "You might get some, you might not... but I am yours tonight!"

WHITE: Innocent, Virginal, Pure... "Be gentle with me, and I may have some fun with you!"

BLUE: Bold, Strong, Mischievous? I'm in control tonight, sexy? wink

PURPLE: Mysterious... "I like to keep you guessing? I'll spring you when you least expect it!?

ORANGE: Playful... "Let's have some fun tonight!"

GREEN: Anything Goes... "No location is too risky for me!"

LEOPARD PRINT: "Rwar, I'm an animal, baby. Let's get wild!"

NONE: SOMEBODY'S GETTIN' SOME TONIGHT!!!!!

Okay, so not definitive, it doesn't mention yellow, turquoise, magenta, pale blue, gray, brown, multi-colored, high-vis, patterned, sheer or a whole load more colours and designs out there. It also doesn't make reference the style either. THONG: I'm up for it - versus - GRANNY PANTS: Keep it in your trousers.

Whoever submitted this guide did very little or no research and is probably colour blind.

Today I wore yellow and you can't mix any of the colours above to make yellow but it is the hue on the visible spectrum lying between orange and green. Anything goes and playful
In my dreams/imagination: It was at midnight, in the dunes of the cape, from a song I like very much called 'Pina Colada' by Rupert Holmes.

But it wasn't that romantic, as others have said I didn't lose it, I gave it, on my boyfriend's bed.
Yes but it depends of course on the story, how it's structured and the use of language. I am no expert, I've only recently embarked on having a go at writing and my stories reflect that. Erotica, in my opinion, is a written form of pornography that stimulates the imagination and takes you into the minds of the characters which photos and videos can't unless they are of a high artistic/creative level, which constitutes very few.

Straight to the action leaves me behind, I need to identify with the characters and there has to be a plot to the story.

A certain word will turn me off even if it's a great story. There are many words to describe women's genitals but, maybe it's an English thing or the way I was brought up, but the word 'Cunt' (also referred to as C U Next Tuesday).

If it's a story that gets me going I will masturbate but not to completion, I enjoy teasing myself.