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When you have only had one sex partner experience, it can be a real tightrope to "swing out" a bit because the emotions run away with the passions and you can find yourself suddenly in a crush, infatuation, or "in love" with someone you did not expect to. That "shock of the new" -- as artists/cultural pundits call it -- can overwhelm your sense and sensibility. On the other hand, if you remain "aloof" and detached, you lose the good feeling of connecteness for the sexy bits. Might I suggest you use the "vicarious method"? Go out together (esp. if you can get a babysitter) and oogle other people that appeal, then go home and screw each other's brains out. Try that for awhile and see where it takes you before jumping the shark, so to speak.
This is awesome advice... this is something any long term couple can do. As you get to "oogle" other people, you can describe to each other why you find that person hot... or (and I've done this for my husband, to tease him), as you're walking around town, look for people that HE would find attractive, and talk about it. Like maybe, "Don't you think she's hot? I love her ass!" Just talking dirty like that can be a real turn on, especially if he isn't used to hearing it from you. And it puts the focus on your YOUR potentially hot and spicy sex life. Good luck!
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Kind of gross, where they ended up finding it, but here is new evidence to contradict what's above. This article is from April of this year.
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Anatomic Existence of the Elusive G-Spot Confirmed, Study Claims
ScienceDaily (Apr. 25, 2012) — For centuries, women have been reporting engorgement of the upper, anterior part of the vagina during the stage of sexual excitement, despite the fact the structure of this phenomenon had not been anatomically determined.
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A new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine documents that this elusive structure does exist anatomically.
Adam Ostrzenski, M.D., Ph.D., of the Institute of Gynecology in St. Petersburg, FL, conducted a stratum-by-stratum anterior vaginal wall dissection on an 83-year-old cadaver. The dissection established the presence of the G-spot, a well-delineated sac structure located on the dorsal (back) perineal membrane, 16.5 mm from the upper part of the urethral meatus, creating a 35 degree angle with the lateral (side) border of the urethra.
Having 3 distinct regions, the G-spot emerged with dimensions of length (L) of 8.1 mm x width (W) 3.6 mm to 1.5 mm x height (H) 0.4 mm. Upon removal of the entire structure with the adjacent margin tissues, the G-spot stretched from 8.1 to 33 mm.
"This study confirmed the anatomic existence of the G-spot, which may lead to a better understanding and improvement of female sexual function," Ostrzenski concludes.
Irwin Goldstein, editor-in-chief of The Journal of Sexual Medicine believes that research in women's sexual health issues is important. "This case study in a single cadaver adds to the growing body of literature regarding women's sexual anatomy and physiology."
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1.Adam Ostrzenski. G-Spot Anatomy: A New Discovery. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2012; 9 (5): 1355 DOI: 10.1111/j.1743-6109.2012.02668.x
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Science News
... from universities, journals, and other research organizations
Save Email Print Share
Anatomic Existence of the Elusive G-Spot Confirmed, Study Claims
ScienceDaily (Apr. 25, 2012) — For centuries, women have been reporting engorgement of the upper, anterior part of the vagina during the stage of sexual excitement, despite the fact the structure of this phenomenon had not been anatomically determined.
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See Also:
Health & Medicine
•Gynecology
•Sexual Health
•Women's Health
•Erectile Dysfunction
•Menopause
•Teen Health
Reference
•Sexual dysfunction
•Vulvovaginal health
•Urinary tract infection
•Orgasm
A new study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine documents that this elusive structure does exist anatomically.
Adam Ostrzenski, M.D., Ph.D., of the Institute of Gynecology in St. Petersburg, FL, conducted a stratum-by-stratum anterior vaginal wall dissection on an 83-year-old cadaver. The dissection established the presence of the G-spot, a well-delineated sac structure located on the dorsal (back) perineal membrane, 16.5 mm from the upper part of the urethral meatus, creating a 35 degree angle with the lateral (side) border of the urethra.
Having 3 distinct regions, the G-spot emerged with dimensions of length (L) of 8.1 mm x width (W) 3.6 mm to 1.5 mm x height (H) 0.4 mm. Upon removal of the entire structure with the adjacent margin tissues, the G-spot stretched from 8.1 to 33 mm.
"This study confirmed the anatomic existence of the G-spot, which may lead to a better understanding and improvement of female sexual function," Ostrzenski concludes.
Irwin Goldstein, editor-in-chief of The Journal of Sexual Medicine believes that research in women's sexual health issues is important. "This case study in a single cadaver adds to the growing body of literature regarding women's sexual anatomy and physiology."
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Note: Materials may be edited for content and length. For further information, please contact the source cited above.
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Journal Reference:
1.Adam Ostrzenski. G-Spot Anatomy: A New Discovery. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2012; 9 (5): 1355 DOI: 10.1111/j.1743-6109.2012.02668.x
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Wiley-Blackwell (2012, April 25). Anatomic existence of the elusive G-spot confirmed, study claims. ScienceDaily. Retrieved July 19, 2012, from http://www.sciencedaily.com /releases/2012/04/120425094741.htm
Note: If no author is given, the source is cited instead.
Disclaimer: This article is not intended to provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Views expressed here do not necessarily reflect those of ScienceDaily or its staff.
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Cyber is something I've only recently done - and it wasn't something I came on this site to do. But when someone is so good with words, and knows me really well... it's hard not to get insanely turned on... 
Thankfully, I type for a living, so multi-tasking isn't a problem, LOL! 
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I know for a fact, that the winter Olympics helped Canadians unite and be proud of our country and citizens. We are not known as a bragging country .... but we showed our Colours proudly and in going to these Summer Olympics, again, we are seeing lots of our top athletes stoked to share and participate and hopefully take a medal in London.
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My still-favourite erotica series is The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy, written by Anne Rice, under the pseudonym A.N. Roquelaure. It's very hardcore, even today, but especially considering when it was written - the early 80's.
As Wikipedia says: The trilogy was written in the 1980s when many feminists denounced pornography as violation of women's rights, but Rice firmly believed that women should have the freedom to read and write whatever they pleased, and considered the trilogy her political statement.[10]
I loved it!
As Wikipedia says: The trilogy was written in the 1980s when many feminists denounced pornography as violation of women's rights, but Rice firmly believed that women should have the freedom to read and write whatever they pleased, and considered the trilogy her political statement.[10]
I loved it!
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When I need to vent because I've had a terrible day, first words out of his mouth are, "Oh, honey... that's terrible!" I get sympathy, BEFORE he gives me his solution to the problem. Best of all, I get the sympathy even when the problem is my fault, before he gives me his idea for a solution.
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Love, love, LOVE it when he's forceful with me in bed!!!!!!!!!! It helps that we've been together for a very long time, so the trust is absolute. It couldn't be anything else but smoking hot, when he fits both of my wrists in one of his hands, or pulls my hair, or holds me down, uses all of his strength to overwhelm me... but never to hurt me.
<Pant, pant>... Now I think I need to go have a moment...
<Pant, pant>... Now I think I need to go have a moment...
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Hmm... I wonder if a better question would have been, "Has anybody NEVER fallen in love with someone they couldn't have?"
I, too have loved someone I couldn't have. I was overseas, he was distantly older than me, we were both married. Neither of us was really willing to hurt our spouses and families, but ohhh, it hurt when it was over!
I, too have loved someone I couldn't have. I was overseas, he was distantly older than me, we were both married. Neither of us was really willing to hurt our spouses and families, but ohhh, it hurt when it was over!
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Besides, I know when his head snaps around when we're out somewhere, it's usually some fancy or rare car driving by, not a woman he's looking at.
LOL!!! Mine's the same! And no, I don't get jealous, either. Used to, when I was younger, but after 12 years of marriage and 2 kids, confidence has come with age.
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Confession: I MILDLY criticised someone's profile today, BUT it was someone with whom I've been corresponding. I said that it would be nice to see a little more about him on his profile, as the info there was a bit vague, but I didn't mean it to be a critical comment. I also stressed that the great thing about this site is that you can be anyone you want to be, and put as much or as little on your profile as you feel comfortable with.
My thought was only to express interest in this person's interests, to know where they came from, etc.
I am in stark admiration of some of the profiles on here - so much creativity!
My thought was only to express interest in this person's interests, to know where they came from, etc.
I am in stark admiration of some of the profiles on here - so much creativity!
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I think these days, it's all in the tone, which I personally try very hard to convey, if using it to comment on a story. As DD said, the more urban context:
"Niiiiccce!"
However, it is not an adjective I'd want used to describe me. It's been used many times, and I hate it. "You're a really nice girl." Plbbbbts!!!!
For a story, I once had, "Yeah, nice one. I really liked this." It wasn't over the top endorsement, but I appreciated that they took the time to write something positive.
"Niiiiccce!"
However, it is not an adjective I'd want used to describe me. It's been used many times, and I hate it. "You're a really nice girl." Plbbbbts!!!!
For a story, I once had, "Yeah, nice one. I really liked this." It wasn't over the top endorsement, but I appreciated that they took the time to write something positive.