As long as they know you love them, with your whole heart, and this is precious between the two of you, then I think it's fine. If it lessens them in your eyes, makes them weaker, or it bothers them...stop.
Thank you! I was probably the reason the rule was implemented. Or part of it.
I have my reasons. I have my hopes. And I did have that affair, but it was a long time coming. I used to write a lot of stories for this site, for me, before I went cold turkey awhile back. I don't fit...in anyone's thinking, most likely, with how I have endured.
I have no discipline. Like...I come here when I know I should be doing other things. Like studying for school. No offense...just love to put my tongue between your thighs, Lush, and take your temperature.
If a woman loves to give head, eye contact is fine, and even great. If she is doing it only because she knows I like it...and I know it...eye contact isn't a turn on at all. I love to give oral, and I want that same desire and enjoyment from my lover.
Is pseudo- implied ? I've never heard of that term.
I have two responses: first, I had my first blow job from a gal, Kim, and that was so intense, so incredible....wow! We still love each other, even though life took us different directions.
When I lost my virginity, it was intense, but it wasn't epic. I felt...as if I had passed a test. I grew up in a conservative, religious family and background, and that had an effect on me. Nothing like cumming for the first time in a woman. Wow! The heat!
I have been married for 27 years, and endured a largely sexless marriage. I love my wife. I am attracted to my wife. If she desired it, we could have learned to be great lovers, and had an incredible sex life. She chose not to. She wouldn't get help. Last year, after all those years, especially the last four years of no sex, I had an affair.
Can she trust me? Yes, she can! If she changes her mind, and wants to engage me as more than a husband in name, I am all hers!! She knows the ball is in her court. She doesn't know I cheated on her. If she cheated on me, I would view it completely differently. I have been here for her, all these years. If she cheated on me, I wouldn't trust her. I don't trust her now. But if she returns to me, in her heart and with her body, I am hers.
I stopped asking four years ago or so. I go to bed and she is fingering herself, thinking I can't notice what the jiggling of the bed is from. She wants everyone to think everything is fine, and acts like we are accomplishing our goals, etc. All the while...my mind is young while my body ages.
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1. I didn't have intercourse on my wedding night.
2. I used to be a regular writer on Lush.
3. I once sang "You Light Up My Life" over the P.A. system in a tiny town at 2:30 in the morning.
4. I was in love with my cousin.
I would consider it if my partner was into it. I think, whenever something can pull you together, you should be open. I would hate to do it, to be the one into it, and my partner not be.
When I first moved down South, back in the eighties, I was hanging out with a gal who was anxious to have sex with me. Once I established that I wasn't looking for a relationship, she immediately began conversing about taking it to the next level. From that moment on, when we were away from our friends, we would make out. I had just moved down there, living with my brother, with no car even, so she would drive us around in her Pinto. I was kissing her and, with her shorts open, fingering her pussy. Very wet. I was licking my fingers, and we had a bus with church kids pull up next to us. That...was interesting.
Well, based on recent history, or lack thereof...a woman pressing up against my cock...or even putting her hand on my thigh, yeah! I love the braless look. Downblouse view.
I'm easy to please.
I have two friends who regularly have sex together with a friend. FFM. The wife says she did it just to please her hubby, but it tears her apart to do it. She does it to please him. The young gal who is part of it gets most of the attention.
I am sure that there are those who don't have this experience, but asking for your ex to be the third? As a guy, this isn't about being confident with the relationship. It's not about being open. It's about you choosing someone from your past to share his present with you. Yikes!
I guess I should measure my tongue...because I'm good with that. lol
For me, having a woman swallow is about passion, connection, and intimacy. I swallow, she swallows.
I lost my virginity in an abandoned house. Dirty mattress on the floor.
Heat. Definitely like the heat of her mouth or pussy.
RCIS (almost) Registered Cardiovascular Invasive Specialist. Two months and then my internship.
I have written a few series, and I am currently trying to submit the first of a very old series I posted several years ago, under another name. The series I have written got great votes, all the way through. I think it was because I was invested in the story personally. I was turned on by the scenarios, and it showed in the story and writing.
When I lost direction, or when I had gone as far as I wanted to in the series, or was plausible, I stopped.
haunches. She stood up and
Passionate, Loyal, Giving.