After a lifetime of marital modesty, this question has planted the seed of desire in my mind. I am no longer a wife and I am finding my ideas developing in a very different direction. The thought of posing naked seems cool to me now rather than absolutely out of the question. My figure is now in better shape than it has been for a long time, and I sort of like the idea of being nude and admired -- and lusted after.
My emotional attachment to my ex-husband became so vile that since my divorce I have needed sex but not the baggage that goes with it.
I love clothes of any era that scream FEMININE and those years after World War Two do just that. Dior captured the spirit of an era where women wanted to shed themselves of uniforms and utility clothes. I have always adored big swishy skirts, white fitted blouses and so forth.
This is a really good question. I am 39 and recently divorced. While I never dressed specifically to please my ex, in my new status as a single mother who wants to look good I have begun re-wardrobing myself. I want to look myself, but sparkling rather than frumpy, but it is a struggle. I suspect I belong in a niche market to which only limited attention is paid by those who design, make, and sell women's clothes
yes, I think it could be fun
My biggest splurges are perfumes, lipsticks, and silk lingerie
I tend to window shop and shop in entirely different places, because it always comes down to price
Yes, I do like my clothes smelling lovely
This has been a fascinating read because I am in the process of doing a total do over with my hair. Until the spring when my divorce was final I had a kind of shoulder length bob, but now I have begun growing it out. I haven't had long hair since I was in , but now at 39 I am single and changing my whole look completely. Long hair gives so many more options and I am looking forward to trying them
I saved myself for marriage, but wish I hadn't -- which is perhaps one of the reasons I am now divorced
It is the unexpected that I find the most arousing. I was in church a few weeks ago and when the the usher came to the pew in which I was sitting to usher us to communion he glanced down at my chest, his eyes lingering for a split second too long. I don't have big breasts, but I was wearing a pretty royal blue summer dress that was very slgihtly daring. He could not have aroused me more if he had touched me there inappropriately.
My inner exhibitionist says Yes, Yes, Yes, my inner responsible female says No, No, No
The other evening I happened to see Alfred Hitchcock's To Catch A Thief. As I watched I found myself being fascinated by Grace Kelly, the gorgeous clothes she wore, her class and style. I just wished I could be her. By the time I reached the end of the movie I would have done anything to go with Cary Grant. Such is the world of fantasy!
In my experience it is ridiculous to make such a sweeping statement. I have almost always been able to have satisfying orgasms when I pleasure myself, but it took a little longer to get the hang of orgasming with a partner, especially if that partner is not sensitive to what is going on with me. Have I faked orgasms? Not a lot, but I don't always need a big O to be satisfied. Do I like orgasms? Yes, I adore them
When my marriage ended a couple of years ago I decided to liberate some of my ex-husband's Brooks Brothers button-down white and blue shirts. He didn't discover until it was far too late! They are such useful garments to wear in bed at night, to wear around the house, to wear over a sweater, to wear under a sweater, to be a cover-all while putting on makeup, and so forth. They also can have a flavor of sexy too.
1. How old are you? I am 39
2. Location? Alabama
3. Breast size? 34C
4. Are you shaved trimmed or hairy? Experimenting with being shaved and bare
5. Do you prefer to spit or swallow? Swallow, I think
1. How old are you? I am 39
2. Location? Alabama
3. Breast size? 34C
4. Are you shaved trimmed or hairy? Experimenting with being shaved and bare
5. Do you prefer to spit or swallow? Swallow, I think
I am 39 and had never done more than trim until recently. I have started shaving and waxing and really love how it feels and how it is admired
Is it cheating to go with someone else when you are separated but the divorce is not final?
I am recently divorced and have been giving myself permission to look beyond the cage in which I lived for the past seventeen years. Hardly a day goes by when I don't encounter someone I would love to go to bed with, and who becomes the source of so many fantasies.
Gray, black, or purple seem suitable colors for a funeral to me.
The choice is a beard, stubble, scratchy whiskers, or a smooth soft chin -- I vote for the smooth soft chin
Green is a terrible color for lingerie
I find that if I am wearing heels when I drive it doesn't do them much good. I have a pair of ballet kind of shoes in the car that I slip on when I am driving. Only in the winter when I am wearing boots do I sometimes find myself driving in heels.
I am my mother's daughter. She always would prefer to be over-dressed and so do I. I may only be in my forties but I hate, hate, hate the casual look gone crazy. When I go out with a guy I dress up for the date and I expect him to do the same.
I think chemistry is very important, there was always very little between me and my ex-husband
