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RavenFox
Over 90 days ago
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I think 1-2 per encounter is the norm for me. Hubby sometimes gets creative and likes to see if he can wear me out. My record is seven and then about a ten hour nap.
But we're talking about fantasy. I think 3 would be sufficient. Like another poster mentioned, it really doesn't seem real if she cums from his every touch.
But we're talking about fantasy. I think 3 would be sufficient. Like another poster mentioned, it really doesn't seem real if she cums from his every touch.
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Well, I'm in a long term, non-monogamous relationship, AND have extensive experience prior to that AND we swing. So...
I have specific criteria. If you have a dick not belonging to my husband, you will wear a condom. If I share a sex toy with my lady lover, it will wear a condom. If you have any broken skin, skin lesions, bumps, or other skank-indicators, I'm not going to fuck you, I don't care how much you paid for the hotel room or how long you've been planning our date. Put your clothes back on and let's end the night on friendly terms.
Now, that being said, I never use condoms with oral. YUCK. You can't put enough flavored lube on a condom to make it not taste like I'm sucking off a soda bottle. And dental dams are really a joke. Unhandy little buggers, you'd think that we could come up with a better gadget by now!
I get tested regularly and I have always been 100% STD free.
I have specific criteria. If you have a dick not belonging to my husband, you will wear a condom. If I share a sex toy with my lady lover, it will wear a condom. If you have any broken skin, skin lesions, bumps, or other skank-indicators, I'm not going to fuck you, I don't care how much you paid for the hotel room or how long you've been planning our date. Put your clothes back on and let's end the night on friendly terms.
Now, that being said, I never use condoms with oral. YUCK. You can't put enough flavored lube on a condom to make it not taste like I'm sucking off a soda bottle. And dental dams are really a joke. Unhandy little buggers, you'd think that we could come up with a better gadget by now!
I get tested regularly and I have always been 100% STD free.
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Quote by ReallyHard
Boilerplate disclaimer: I am not as shallow as the answer below may make me appear. The question posed was solely about physical appearance vis a vis attraction, so that's where my answer focuses.
The first determinant - for my tastes - between a curvy lady and being built like a truck is, well, curves. A voluptuous woman who has big breasts, big hips, yet still appears 'shapely,' has a waistline that's in obvious contrast to her bust and hips, and generally dresses to accentuate her figure is more likely to get an appreciative glance from me than one who looks and dresses as if her body resembled a refrigerator in basic shape. If a woman's figure appears 'proportionate' rather than a clearly large stomach or thighs or arms, she's less likely to get my first glance. The total package of that woman can still draw my interest, just as a stone-cold fox with the personality of catsup is unlikely to keep my attention very long.
I'd be ball-parking any sizes because of differences in height and proportion and such, but I'd say above USA size 14, a woman's starting to cross over to 'built like a truck' territory.
You had me all the way until the last paragraph. I totally agree that curves are sexy. The hourglass figure is desirable no matter the amount of the sand! It's when she is no longer shapely that there is a problem.
BUT THEN, that last paragraph made me laugh. Wow. I haven't been a 14 since high school. I'm only 5'5" and honey, I've got some dangerous curves. I get appreciative glances most everywhere I go and I can still make the hubby drool. Now, to each their own and I know you're only stating your opinion. Maybe a better way to put that is "above USA size 14, she's nearing the upper end of what I'm attracted to." I'm not trying to say you're a meanie for saying that, just that it was kind of a generalization that I've found personally to be untrue.
P.S. just as a stone-cold fox with the personality of catsup is unlikely to keep my attention very long. made me
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Quote by HoneyBee000
I don't like a backstory at the start of a story, I much prefere smatterings through out the whole story.
At the moment, I can't think of a way to do that without messing with the continuity of the story, but I'm sure it can be done. I'm just not wrapping my brain around it yet. Do you have any examples of how that would work best?
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It's all about balance. Too much sex and not enough back story makes for an equally boring read. A good back story gets the reader interested in the characters and aids in the "picture" of the sex that is about to take place. That's why I build a lot of backstory first, and try to write the sex without the cliches.
Yes, balance is key. I agree. But do you think you are they typical erotica reader with that opinion? I've seen it posted elsewhere (not Lush) that if there isn't a reason to start stroking after the first page, then the reader will likely move onto something else.
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Quote by Dudeness92
To be perfectly honest, I like backstory. A lot. It makes a better story. I like stories that take a while to read, and being a speed-reader, that means I want a HUGE story.
I have the same problem with reading too fast. Unfortunately, I just can't (at least not YET) write erotica novels. I admire those who can, but I'm much more slam-bam-thank-ya-ma'am than an 800 page epic.
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Quote by BrindleChase
The rule of thumb is.... write your story. Where the sex begins, doesn't matter. But when writing backstory, be sure your setting the scene, introducing the characters and launching the plot... and nothing more. Too much backstory becomes what is typically called "info-dumping"... which is bad. It bores the reader, drags down the story and is tedious to write to begin with. Keep your backstory quick and to the point. Your characters, setting and plot will be your best guides as too how long is needed.
Less is more. Always.
And with erotica, sex is the main interest of your readers, so backstory needs to be a brief as possible, without cheating your story. But get to the sex quickly. You can keep your readers hooked with well crafted lead up as you present the plot, and it's a good idea if you have a lot of backstory you want to put in, to intermix it with the plot leading up to the sex. Never bore your readers if it can be helped. =o)
Good advice! I didn't find the back story tedious to write. Does that mean it wasn't too much? LOL I hope it was just the right amount. So, asking opinions and getting in a shameless plug for my first story.
When Love Comes To Town
we will start with a body shot
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Raven; you sound like fun, an we need more of that around here,
sounds like we should somehow get some sloe gin around here for ya!
Now about that kiss,,,to pay for the fufu drinks
Anyone who's a Cash fan deserves a real kiss.
However, I don't seem to have any kiss pics, so will a lick do?
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Quote by scooter
I'll give you a big ole kiss shameless,
but I'll have to do quite a few shots first.
Down the hatch
Raven; you sound like fun, an we need more of that around here,
sounds like we should somehow get some sloe gin around here for ya!
Now about that kiss,,,to pay for the fufu drinks
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Good to be here. Submitted my first story, both audio and text versions. The admin person seemed to really dig the audio. 
I really like the atmosphere here at Lush. I think this is the beginning of a beau-ti-ful friendship
P.S. That and I am having a BLAST playing with the smileys!!!
I really like the atmosphere here at Lush. I think this is the beginning of a beau-ti-ful friendship
P.S. That and I am having a BLAST playing with the smileys!!!
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Quote by scooterQuote by Hollywood3
Bars open and kissing will commence...
where the hell is shameless?
wow Holly thats a nice set of fu-fu drinks you have there!
Amonst other things
Shameless must be out chasin Alan, or cars, or getting his big ole white teeth polished
Does that mean we pay for the fu-fu drinks with kisses?
Damn, I'm glad I didn't order whiskey!
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Quote by AlgolQuote by redhotmommacita
Raven welcome here's your gin fizz join in the fun we are all friends here.....I am Mami
Mami, That's not gin Baby
Raven, Don't drink that...really...
Thanks Mami...it's nice to meet you!
*eyes her drink suspiciously*
Is this like a newbie hazing ritual? What's in this???
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Quote by SixtyMinuteMan
Nah, the length should be fine from the site's point of view. I just posted an 11,000 word story, which is well over 20 pages in Word.
As to what the reader wants... hell, I write stories that don't reach the sex until 5000 words are gone. I am DEFINITELY the wrong person to give advice here.
Well, it was more the readers than the site's requirements that concerned me, but it's nice to know that there are other Lush authors just as long winded as I
