It is hot over here, so I'll wear nothing
Well, I also don't think this is 'normal' drunk sex actually... Ramming it in with no lube, ripping..... sounds very painful.
He should use loads of lube and take his time to relax you. Start with massaging for example, it really helps and make it a much more enjoyable experience.
And as Trinket said; get information before trying it again, it must be pleasurable for the both of you. Information you can find here in several treads.
And why do you think he is missing the fooling around with other guys?
Loads of men simply love anal sex, that has nothing to do with being bisexual. If it worries you, just ask him and don't be afraid of the answer.
Succes!
Fantasy Seducer
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you possess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.
You inspire each person to be idealistic and passionate, and you make each moment memorable.
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life.
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.
Your abilities to make dreams come true is strong. So strong that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.
I take it as a compliment and love to flirt with 'admirers'.
I'd like to be able to see, seperated, how many 1,2, 3,4s and 5 s have been scored. I loose track now.
Reading your profile made me smile, I really like what you wrote. I saw you like Bob Marley so thats a nice thing too. Well, I just think you are a smart, funloving person;)