Yes I have. In the mid 90s I spent a week working in one of the legal houses outside of Los Vegas on two different occasions. And I do like rough sex. In fact rough sex and BDSM was what I specialized in. I was offered a permanent job at both houses.
My first shared wife event after I got married, with Hubbie’s knowledge, was an offer from Col D to buy me some bikinies if I would model them for him. This was in the early 80s. We met at the base BX and I was wearing just a sun dress and a pair of high heeled sandals. That is all that Hubble laid out for me to wear. I picked out a rather conservative suite and showed it to him. He ask, “Do you only want one suite?”
“How many do you want me to buy?”
“As many as you are willing to model for me.”
So I picked out another conservative one and one that could go from moderate to very little coverage. I was surprised to find one like that at the BX. I tried them all on and came out of the fitting room and told him, “They all fit good and I wanted all three.”
“I thought you was going to model them for me? That is the offer.”
“Why yes! I am going to model them for you. I just thought it would be better to do it at your house.”
You should have seen the look on his face. After we got to his house we talked and had a couple drinks then I began modeling them for him. As I modeled them for him I got closer to him until I was standing between his legs. He began to touch and rub my legs.
I modeled the two conservative ones first. Then the last one starting with it in the most modest position. It was a yellow unlined string bikini. As I modeled it I repositioned the top to minimum coverage which let the edges of my brown to show. Then I repositioned the bottom so it was like a small thong with my whole ass showing. Which he began to caress and kiss my belly as I stood between his legs.
Then we had two rounds of oral sex with both of us having strong orgasms. He still had a good erection. When I climbed onto his lap to fuck him he said, “Let’s save something for the next time.”
I did not receive any cash but did get the three bikinis. I worked at a donut shop / restaurant, which is where I met Col D. He was a regular nearly every morning, especially after his wife passed away. He was always a good tipper but my tips got much larger.
On our second date we fucked our brains out. On our third he invited some of his fellow officers to join us. He would buy me nice clothes, shoes, and toys. He also took me on weekend trips. Never got paid cash except for the bigger tips at work. I considered it getting paid, what do you think?
I still see him a few times a year. Him and his 60 year old girlfriend were one of the 8 swinger couples on our skiing / swinging vacation in April. At 82 he is still flying, in great shape, and a fantastic lover!!!
Brandie
Brandie
A black guy telling me that I would kick all white guys in the street after he fucked me. I have never fucked one and probable won’t. I have seen many fuck in the swing clubs and don’t see any thing they do different.
Brandie
A medium rare ribeye or filet, topped with grilled onions and mushrooms, potatoes au gratin, fresh green beans with onions and pickled pork or Tasso (Smoked pork), a chopped Italian salad and Banannas Foster for desert.
Brandie
We generally do not use either. I have never had a whip used on me, but have seen them in use many times. To me the whip delivers the most pain and longer lasting whelps. A whip was the only one I have seen draw blood, on several occasions. When I was offered in the sub auctions, in the 80s and 90s, the Master that won me, 20 out of 22 trips to the auction block, used several sizes of paddles. We use and I prefer floggers and belts. The floggers produce the better orgasms.
Brandie
We were invited to a friend’s house for dinner tonight. We had sautéed fresh caught Gulf Shrimp and mushrooms, with onions, and garlic, in a rich homemade Alfredo Sauce. Over angle hair pasta, over fried eggplant. Sautéed fresh spinach with garlic, and roasted creole tomatoes halves with a cheese blend topping. For desert Blue Bell’s Groom’s Cake Ice Cream covered in fresh sliced strawberry’s in their own juice. A meal fit for a king.
Brandie
I first got into the BDSM side of the Life Style when I was 17. Except for the first year of my marriage I have been into it ever since. I was a sub to my Master boyfriend from 17 until I was 21 just prior to getting married. About a year after our marriage I became Hubble’s sub. During that time I have been lent out to other Masters on a temporary basis. I have taken on the roll of Master during this time in some long term relationships. Hubble does not have a submissive bone in his body and is always the Master in our relationship and several other long term relationships.
Most of the advise above is good. There was only a couple things I did not agree with. As mentioned, BDSM is a broad genre of the LifeStyle and can run from very little participation and light forces to 24/7/365 participation and heavy forces. One of Hubble’s subs could only achieve an orgasm by being restrained, humiliated, and flogged. He never had normal sexual intercourse with her and we met with her 2 to 3 times a week. We originally met her at a local BDSM club’s meet and greet, after her hubby Master passed away and her new boyfriend did not want to be involved in the BDSM part of her life. He could not accept the idea that pain could be orgasmic.
That said I am offering to discuss this with you, your wife, or both. Preferably both would be best. I know Hubble would be willing to participate also. We have both been involved in teaching classes and holding demonstrations at clubs and conventions since 1980. I am also an avid exhibitionist. Also online with individuals, couples, and groups since 1998. We also know people that hold retreats for beginners to the very seasoned players in the same location at the same time. A couple can learn a lot by just watching novices to the very experienced performing a scene.
Let me know if that interest you and we can set up a time to meet in a chat room here or on another site to chat. I do have a few online sites I can recommend, but would prefer to do so privately after some discussion.
Done properly it can add a very erotic and orgasm boosting element to a very loving relationship. It can be a very low coast, to no cost at all to take a look and get started. You don’t need to buy a $129.99 BDSM starter kit.
BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, DONE IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP IT “AIN’T DOMESTIC VIOLENCE,” as a lot of people think that are not educated in the BDSM side of the lifestyle.
What ever you decide we wish you good luck. One of our philosophies for a strong, long lasting, and loving marriage / relationship is to keep refreshening the relationship with new adventures and bringing back older ones or combining some.
Brandie
I went to see my current boyfriend at the time and had already decided we would, “Go all the way,” this time. I had been giving him blow jobs to compleation for some time, and he would go down and or finger fuck me. I had lost my uterus in an accident when I was 11 and did not have to worry about getting pregnant
We had his parents house all to our self. We were on the couch in the den and I was giving him a blow job while he was playing with my pantyless cunt. Then his mother drove into the carport. We got ourselves decent and went to meet her outside. She was unloading groceries that we helped her bring inside. She had come home several hours early after a car hit a power pole and knocked out the electricity at her work.
After we finished helping with the groceries we were both still worked up and needed some relief. We decided to walk over to the playground a couple blocks from their house. We went behind the maintenance building near the back of the playground. Behind some hedges we could not be seen. I started blowing him and he pulled me up kissed me passionately while unbuttoning my blouse.
He pushed my bra up and started sucking on my hard throbbing nipples. Then he turned me around and I leaned against the building with my outstretched arms. He flipped my skirt over my back and grabbed my tits with both hands. With him rolling both nipples he eased his cock into my extremely wet cunt and began pumping me faster and faster. Within a short time my whole body was trembling with my first cock induced orgasm.
I had several orgasms back to back. As my third or forth orgasm began to peak he picked up his pace and I felt his fist rope of cum hit the back of my pussy. He went stiff with his cock pushed into me as deep as he could and shot a couple more ropes of cum into me. When we broke our union I looked down and there was a very wet spot on the side walk from me squirting against the building and it ran onto the sidewalk. As we walked back to his house I could feel his cum and my juices running down my legs. I had to
Masturbating and oral sex produced orgasms was great. The ones produced with his cock pumping my cunt was much more intense.
Brandie
There are only two men in my life that I make love to, Hubbie and Steven. That happens 2 to 4 times a week. All the rest are what we call “sport fucking”, which happens a lot more often. It is the “sport fucking” that produces the stronger and more intense orgasms. Both ways are wonderful and I need both.
Brandie
You know sometimes it is not a guy, so it depends on who and where it is. If they are a stranger, it will depend on what they look like, I’m not talking about how attractive they are, more like, if they are creepy or not, and their demeanor. Where we are also goes into the equation. “It ain’t gonna happen in a business meeting.” I am usually wearing a long dress or skirt to those.
I am an avid exhibitionist and tend to let them get a good look when and where it is approperate. Sometimes even making it obvious I am flashing them. Then I’m checking to see if I get a rise out of the situation.
Brandie
Not wearing any today. But if I did they would be a yellow lace thong or bikini from the set that would match my bra and garterbelt. It makes me feel sexy, while still looking business appropriate.
Brandie
With the right partner a very intimate moment. Absolutely erotic and orgasmic.
Brandie
Yes, coffee for me.
Brandie
We slept through breakfast and went to lunch. We had Spinach & Artichoke Dip, and I had Grilled Chicken & Shrimp over Angle Hair Pasta with a 5 cheese sauce. Then we stopped off at Baskin & Robbins where I had a double scoop of Winter White Chocolate ice cream.
Brandie
No we did not use condoms the first time. I was not able to get pregnant so there was no need to use them. It was not until the late 80s that condom use became mandatory with us. That was when AIDS / HIV showed up. That is when we formed our private swing group. We all got tested several times during a 9 month period. We have all been tested every other month since the initial testing, and we have all pledged to not play outside our group without protection. Brandie
First, HAPPY BIRTHDAY from a RL sub to another. I'm not sure if your sub roll is in real life or just on Lush Life. I read part of your profile and hope your Birth Day spanking is for real.
I read that you like to read about the BDSM Lifestyle. I have only two things I can give you for BD presents. The first will be to let you know about my two stories I have posted here. They ARE NOT fantasies. They are based on a real event that occurred shortly after my 17th birthday. Teach, my first Master and high school teacher, brought me to his Harley Riding Group's three day weekend party. It turned out to be "My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower." Teach taught and introduced me to many firsts that weekend.
This event brought me into the BDSM / Swinging / Girl Friend - Wife Sharing genres of the Lifestyle. My last gang bang was Sat night, my next one well be tonight. Hubbie became my Second Master about a year after we were married. I dated Teach until the second weekend before I married Hubbie. We will celebrate 39 years this summer. So, except for that year I have been in the lifestyle since I was 17.
My second BD present will be to offer to share with you my experiences over the last 42+ years. Feel free to ask anything you wish. I also have some experiences outside of my marriage, with Hubbie's knowledge and encouragement, as a Master to both guys, gals, and couples.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TonyaL
XOXOXOXO
Brandie
Just check out the pictures of some of my dresses. And yes I do wear them out in some public places.
Brandie
No doubt about it I'm addicted.
Brandie
With Hubbie one of our most erotic events is when just the 2 of us go out on highway 51. We go after dark in the evenings after 9PM. There are swamps on both sides that blocks the view from the interstate and the railroad tracks. Once we get in our spot where the view is about 1.25 miles in each direction between two intersections to the highway.
I will strip to stripper type music getting totally naked for him then give him some head. Then he will forcefully put me up against his truck with us both standing. He will fuck me hard from behind while calling me vulgar names, like whore, slut, & white trash, and reminding me he is my Master. When I cum he cums so hard his back will go into spasms and he gets a lot of Charlie Horse type pain for about 20 to 30 seconds. He shoots so hard I can feel his cum hitting the back of my cunt. When he starts cumming I do too. Even with his back in spasms he will keep fucking me until I run the course of several waves. He tells me the pain increases the intensity of his orgasm.
Brandie
Hazel, both of them.
Brandie
When I was much younger I would use a cucumber, zucchini squash, and sausage as a dildo. I fell asleep one night after using a cucumber. The next morning I forgot about it and my mother found it when she made my bed. When I came home from school she ask me why a cucumber was in my bed between the sheets. I do not remember what I told her. I do remember she was not very happy, and stayed upset with me for a few days. That is the only time I can remember leaving a toy out.
Brandie
It happens often and I just join them.
Brandie
I would be happy to have either with this gentleman.
Brandie
Dinner last evening was at the American Pie dinner on Veterans Hwy in Metairie. Hubbie and I split a club sandwich and a bowl of their homemade chili. Their club sandwich is the best we have ever had outside of our home. And so is the chili.
Brandie
Another welcome to LS. Hope you can find some things and members that will peak your interest.
Brandie
