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LaceyChains
Over 90 days ago
Female, 41
United States
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Quote by Jillicious
This is kind of a silly question isnt it? Its like asking if I would admit to eating potato chips. Its not something that I go around randomly telling people. I don't talk about potato chips with people who I'm not familiar with. Perhaps you may enjoy potato chips; Lays, you can't eat just one. But why would you share your bag of potato chips with someone you don't know?
Haha. That's true. We have been just talking about us women, but hardly any of the guys I know would ever admit to jacking off but I'm sure they all do. It's a lot easier to talk about here.
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I enjoy watching a man shave. It's just one of those things that looks masculine. I've never offered to help though. That might be fun.
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I've waxed but usually just shave. My hair will grow in pretty thick if I let it. Funny, I've never though about as pleasurable. To me it's more like shaving my legs. It just needs to be done.
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My GF's gardener caught is in a jacuzzi. I was in the water, but she was sitting on the edge, and on the edge.....lol. It was really funny
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The unisex bathroom of an am/pm. It was at night and we knew the guy running the register. I put my hands against the wall, no way was I lying down in there. I loved the idea of it though.
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Maybe it has to do with the ego younger guys have. With a lot of them it's as long as they came it's good sex. If they didn't, it was wasn't really sex at all.
That's one reason I like older guys
I'll be honest, most of those 11 guys didn't make me cum, but they were just a little to inexperiance to know what I needed. Sometimes all it takes is for a guy to be patient and a good kisser fore to enjoy being with him
That's one reason I like older guys
I'll be honest, most of those 11 guys didn't make me cum, but they were just a little to inexperiance to know what I needed. Sometimes all it takes is for a guy to be patient and a good kisser fore to enjoy being with him
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Quote by Chuck
"good girls don't do that"
That is the situation in my home.
If that is the case, I don't think I know any good girls.
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Do handcuffs, blindfolds, leg cuffs and such count? I have 2 solid rubber dildo' and a bunch of vibrators from my small bullet vibs to my largest "anotomically correct" strap on vibrating dildo, my favorite for personal use is just a straight red plastic vibrator that is just over 7" but does glow in the dark. I've got a few anal toys as well.
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I've lighted a candle for her Cris. Whatever your personal beliefs, know I will give a prayer for her.
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Quote by KyleQuote by LaceyChains
Uh, yeah there is. If it's painful (when it's not supposed to be) or leaves you feeling empty or used, that is bad sex. I don't have to cum for it to be good, but I do have to feel good about it the next morning.
If sex is just a sport, and it is to some people, then it can be judged solely on performance. As you point out there are emotional aspects which can be quite negative. Two people bored with each other may find it hard to have an orgasm and when they do wonder why they bothered even when well versed in sexual techniques. It all amounts to bad sex.
On the other hand two people with the fire between them can have great and satisfying sex without being very good technically.
I don't know if it's a guy thing or not but I don't think I could have even decent sex without that emotional conection. I mean sex as a sport? I've been a fairly easy target for guys, still I have to feel something for a guy before I could have sex with him. Maybe that's just me.
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My first time hurt and the blood scared me even though I knew it was normal. I did really like the guy I was with though and he was very sweet about it. It wasn't by any stretch good sex, but it could have been alot worse.
My next guy was really clumsey and in such a hurry that, even though I'd done it with my first a dozen times or so, it hurt almost as much as losing my virginity did. Afterwards I was so angry with him and myself for trusting him when all he really wanted was to fuck me. That was probably the worst time I ever had, mostly because that was the first time I was really used for sex.
I've been with 11 men and 3 women and all but 3 of the guys were at least good enough to leave me willing or wanting them again.
My next guy was really clumsey and in such a hurry that, even though I'd done it with my first a dozen times or so, it hurt almost as much as losing my virginity did. Afterwards I was so angry with him and myself for trusting him when all he really wanted was to fuck me. That was probably the worst time I ever had, mostly because that was the first time I was really used for sex.
I've been with 11 men and 3 women and all but 3 of the guys were at least good enough to leave me willing or wanting them again.
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Uh, yeah there is. If it's painful (when it's not supposed to be) or leaves you feeling empty or used, that is bad sex. I don't have to cum for it to be good, but I do have to feel good about it the next morning.
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Quote by Carmenica_DiazQuote by LadyX
what is chocolate BDSM?
Non-BDSM - vanilla, sweet, sometimes cloying, predictable.
BDSM - chocolate, rich, warm, surpising, addictive
Mmmm, then I am definatly a chocolate lover...
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the quickest is by hand in a few minutes, but the best orgasms come from anal and clitoral stimulation with a strong toy, and either a good porno or a good cybering partner.
I couldn't agree more sweetie. I've got a vibrating plug I love having in me while I'm being ridden. It makes me cum really hard.
mm that sounds like a great toys, how much was it? I might have to get one for myself.
A guy bought it for me, but It wasn't expensive or anything. You could probably find one online. Get some good lube with it sweetie.
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I like a little hair on a guys chest. Enough to play with, but not enough that my nipples arn't touching his chest. lol. I haven't been with a guy that shaves his pubes, but I think Id really like it!
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Quote by Jillicious
Does anyone else find it odd that the clothed female nude male (cfnm) thing is a fetish?
Seriously. I guess if me keeping my clothes on helps you get your rocks off then thats something I could do...
On the other hand I think its pretty selfish of a guy to want to hang out naked without me.
Mmm, if he's naked, there is only two ways I'll act. One, I like him in and i'll be naked to, or i'm running as fast as I can!
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My belief is that many more people have experianced some form of than is generally known. These things tend to be the deepest of family secrets, so secret that even other family members don't know about it, and I am speaking from experiance here. I envy a woman like doll that has been able to be open about her experiances and has had the chance to come to terms with it. Anyway, I think it's that hidden desire to try it or to do it again that drives the subject.
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i agree with milik. besides its a one time gift that she should give to someone she cares about not just some guy that has money, status, etc. It takes away the specialness of it if you pay for it.
I am really shocked that any girl would even consider selling her virginity. Losing mine was a moment in my life Ill always treasure. If I had just wasted it like that on somthing that meant nothing, I'd have never forgiven myself.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Those girls are possibly just lying because they weren't brought up in an environment where female sexuality was celebrated or seen as important to a woman's overall happiness. They may be hiding their activities in fear of judgment.
There could also be some religious or cultural guilt associated with it, or just a feeling that "good girls don't do that", and sex is for procreation or male-pleasure only.
Sad but true. We as women should be celabrating our sexuality, especially because we hold the keys to the kingdom.
I honestly feel sorry for women who have allowed our male dominated culture to make them ashamed of themselves for having desires. I think the greastest thing about lush is that it gives us a place to be proud of it.
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I love to play with my kitty. It's probably about the most "normal" thing about my sexlife
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I like to swallow. But even if I didn't, I think i'd still do it rather than have him go off in my face. Ever get cum in your eye? That shit aint no joke. 
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Quote by AlissaQuote by roccotool
Sorry, not a fan. I'd rather engage in stimulating conversion with someone with intelligence.
With whom? Henry Kissinger?
okay, that was funny
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Quote by ReallyHard
To be honest, Bullock's on-screen persona is such that she seems more approachable than some other famous hotties. The answer gets marginally more clouded if we're supposed to pick someone from our 'top 10 to shag' list... not that I'd kick ol' Sandy out of bed for eating crackers.
not to be really dense, but what does that mean anyway. I've heard lots of guys say that but none has fessed up. Is it like some secret guy code or something
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Quote by SadBi-Virgin
the quickest is by hand in a few minutes, but the best orgasms come from anal and clitoral stimulation with a strong toy, and either a good porno or a good cybering partner.
I couldn't agree more sweetie. I've got a vibrating plug I love having in me while I'm being ridden. It makes me cum really hard.