This sounds more like a question for the guys than girls since women are pretty automatic regarding this not to mention that most even have their men cum in their mouths already (whether they swallow or spit).
All I have to say is that you should at least give it a try particularly since you're already thinking about it. From a women's perspective, there is nothing hotter than a man who's not afraid of his own cum and if giving me pleasure is part of that equation, fucking awesome!
Although I've engaged in intercourse whilst having a full bladder (makes for an insane orgasm), I've certainly felt like peeing many times but can't say that I've actually done so as a result unless it was very deliberate like a golden shower. I supposed I'd be more inclined to let it flow if we were in the shower but anywhere else? Yeah, I'll hold it until I get to the little ladies room thank you.
Just another toy in the tickle trunk! If I can have my toys, he can have his. Besides, just like men enjoy watching women play with their toys, I too find it very arousing to watch my man play with his.
From a woman's perspective, I too agree that there is definitely big and then there is TOO big. I also think there is a difference between being too big naturally and being too big on purpose with implants. Some women can't help the size they are regardless of their frame and believe me when I say that that can create a serious love/hate relationship with their breasts just as a woman with small breasts might have. Personally, I think the beach ball enhanced look, particularly when they don't even jiggle are very unattractive but then again, there must be some men that like that look otherwise why would women bother to get them?
I'm no stranger to cam fun and have indeed made my fair share of mistakes particularly in the beginning when I was trying Lush on for size. It's with that in mind that I can confidently say that, for me, it's really only exciting and even fulfilling when it's with someone I know, trust and have a connection with.
Early November was the last time, when my partner came up for a visit but come Monday, he'll be back and we'll be spending the week making up for lost time!
I can't tell how old either of you are but I'm going to assume you're in your twenties. That being said, I had the same issue all through my twenties. I thought there was something wrong with me that I couldn't enjoy sex the way they seem to in movies or in porn. It wasn't a lack of not wanting sex because I did very much but at the same time, back in those days, I didn't get very wet on my own and needed a lot of lube to make it even possible to have sex.
Eventually, we tried different positions and found a few that significantly reduced the pain or comfortableness I was feeling which was a huge relief for both of us but especially for me.
When I got into my mid to late thirties, that problem all but disappeared and I've never looked back since. Sex has never felt better but that could be due to a number of factors not the least of which is just being more comfortable in my own body and my sexuality. I really can't say the same for when I was in my twenties or younger.
I'm no expert or doctor nor is anyone who responds here so I wouldn't rule out a visit to her doctor just to make sure there aren't any physical issues she needs to address. If all is well in that department, I say experiment with different positions, lube liberally and be patient with her. It's really not that uncommon.
I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment so there is a lot of "me" time in between our visits unfortunately. When it comes to phone or sex, I will usually wait for my partner to initiate it for some reason. When we're together, I think I'm the one that initiates more often or at least I'm more obvious about wanting some playtime even if it's just me taking care of him. That's not to say he never initiates when we're together but I think I'm still the one with the higher libido. And besides, we usually only get to see each other a week at a time so we need to get in as much lovin' as possible to keep us going until our next visit ;)
Sorry...haven't heard of this until now.
What can I say about MdeSade64 that hasn't already been said. He's a man that appears to never be at a loss for kind words who seems to have a knack for seeing beyond the obvious. Nothing is lost on him.
Definitely a big fantasy of mine ;)
Hmm I have never had a man ever say that to me - usually it's been the opposite. For me, however, I have been known on a few occasions to fall for a guy that might not have otherwise been my "type" but then again, I'm not with any of them right now so obviously the mis-match was a miss indeed :P
A good friend got me hooked on chia seeds. I've been including them in my diet on a daily basis for the past two weeks and I've noticed a significant improvement in in so many areas not the least of which is the mental clarity and energy I've seemed to found again. Can't recommend it enough! My next mission is to incorporate spirulina.
I say love what you have. Being comfortable with yourself is super sexy.
I did find amazing love with when I married my ex husband. As already echoed, the failure of that union and subsequent death of "the dream" was one of the most painful experiences of my life even though I was the one that ended things. I was bruised and beaten and exhausted and jaded and became cynical about love for a long while after my break-up. Thankfully, I did the work that was needed to better myself and managed to heal a lot of old wounds and make peace with it all.
These days, I'm so grateful to have found love again for the second time.