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BeautifulSpirit
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 53
0 miles · Dublin

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The chat should be early in the relationship. I personally asked early in my relationships. These days you can't be too careful. If they are offended to bad. I mean it could cost you your life, and no one is worth that. Remember condems only reduce your chances and are not a full proof. I know I talked to my boyfriend in a relax atmosphere. We were in the bench swing relaxed. No pressures. No horriness or hormones to influence your decisions. Stand firm and get the tests or say no. If your partner doesn't care enough to get tested then do they really care about you? There no excuse for not getting tested. This is just my opinion.
You never know when the love bug is going to bite. Keep in might that people are people and some tend to be Not so up front on the Internet. I know I have a some big stories told to me. It's easy to think they are perfect because their flaws can't always be seen. Keep a level head, open mind, and use caution when someone or something sounds to good to be true.
I think you should keep trying. Seek the advice of a doctor to check if your prostate is enlarged, anemia, or diabetes. Get your thyroid checked too. If not then try acupuncture. I know...needles but it really works. I have seen to many men do the drugs for helping ED end up with some major complications. I tell people it's your body saying "hey, get me checked out". I'm no doctor, but it can't hurt.

There is a lot of things you and your partner can do that is pleasurable. Give it try, you just might find out its a lot of fun!
Why not give a bj while on your cycle. Sex during your period can be good. The only time I would not relations is if I have cramps really bad. I know some girls are taught any sex is forbidden during this time. Some of my friends also tell me they are not even a bit horny during this time. Maybe that is it.
You really didn't need to do this. Just let people chat with you and get to know you. Since these kind of request often leave the mental image of fingernails running down the chalk board, I refuse to even bother. I am just going to think it is your age or you are a fb generation junkie. There are lots of great people here, I'm sure if you visit the chat room and introduce yourself you might get a better response.
It's really nice to get a pic or gif on your wall. I think it's only polite to get to know the person and only post something the would enjoy. Plus obeying the rules here.
I am not one to wear tattoos. My grandfather had them so I don't mind if others sporting them. Some are pretty but that is about it for me. I'm just not Turn on by them.
I enjoy it when a man starts out teasing me with his hot breath and a few fast licks. Then goes into long strong strokes with the tongue. Working his way into my slit. Also enjoy when he pays particular attention to the clit. I enjoy it when a man nips at the outer lips and nips my intermost thigh. A little tender sucking goes a long way. Some long tongue diving in and out of my nector spot. Then going back up to the clit. What drives me wild the most is when I dont know what he is going to do next. If this isnt enough of insite...read some stories that have women receiving oral stimulation. There are numerous writers on here that seem to have the right words to give you some ideas to try. Some of the ladies also have posted well written step by steps in other simular posts.
I wouldn't want a guy that shaved his legs. That's just not right on so many levels, but that my opinion. smile
Im sure it would be fun, but I'm way to much of a coward and too many video camera these days.
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I love it when he licks my entire pussy...tasting my wetness...then softly sucking my swollen clit....inserting his long tongue into my pussy...darting in and out....then swirling his tongue around my meaty lips...then sucking each one...nibbling. OHHHHHH what pleasure!


Pretty much sums it up for me.
Please read this I too had only been with my hubby. You are headed down the same road I was going. I think your question is more asking is it ok to cheat. I was cheated on and let me tell you it just isn't something to take lightly. You have been fuck. You said you go through the motions. That is fucking. I think what you want to be taking charge of and have sex like you did years ago. Well dear unless you can talk to hubby your in a rut. Let me be frank, is having a few minutes of sex worth your life. A big mistake commonly made is he will wear a condem. Condoms only REDUCE the risk. You can still get herpes (hpv) which causes CANCER. I worked on a floor and I seen the deviation it can cause. A 14 old wished someone would have told her the truth about condemns. She is now fighting for her life.

Am I preaching no. I'm trying to get you to look at your marriage. Communication is the biggest way to win this battle. Tell your husband about your desire. Role play. Pretend to be strangers. I also think you are naive like me. I believed in a guy here and got a bit smitten with him. It didn't end well. We no longer speak and if I'm in a chat room he leaves. A few are here, NOT. ALL, People on here are completely different from what they truely are. We are free here not to be judged. I bet if you talked with your hubby he might be into it. We all in lows in our sex lives and 90 percent it's either communication or a physical problem. Some Guys on here Tell you what you want to hear. Don't fall for it. I make a rule never to make a "connection" with someone close to where i live.

What if this dude could be a criminal or worse. Is it worth your life. Here is some things I done. I left lush for a while. I might read a story but stopped talking. I took a hard look at my life. My husband cheated on me. It hurts like hell. It's not something I can forgive him for. The simple fact is we didnt communicate. Marriage is 50/50. If you ate here talking to this guy you aren't giving your marriage enough attention. I came here for answers. I found some wonderful men to help me and answer my questions. My husband regrets what he done because he sees that I wanted to work things out but he crossed the line. Marriages are fragile. And no it's not ok to seek a man to fuck. Cheating is cheating. Once you cross that line you can never go back. Please take my advice and learn from my mistakes. Talk to your husband. Share stories on here that you like. It can give you some ideas to help you to get creative. Let me give you something that I done. I told my husband I like to have my hair tugged and gently spanked. He really awakened him but then I found out he cheated. He said if he had known that things may never had to end between us. I miss him alot. I loved him for 21 years and still do. Please don't cheat. I hope this helped.
I love it. Never got enough of it while married. Mmmm maybe I will make it mandatory in future relations. I love it very much. It never really got to orgasm but I didn't care because it felt so wonderful.
Both do severe damage. However a homewrecker enjoys the destruction in most cases I've seen. The cheater destroys a family.
Can walk away from a home wrecker and do the right thing a stay faithful.