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Ok, Perfect fingering technique required!
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I know, what a romantic phrase.
Anyway here's my advice:
Two fingers (unless she asks for more) I dont appreciate having three or four trying to work their way in, it wont work!
Have them facing upwards towards the sky
Instead of just straight in, out, in out, use them to massage the walls, especially the g-spot which is at the front about an inch or two in.
Curl the ends of your fingers up and move them back and forth like you;re doing a 'come here' movement
Occasionally you could switch to just in, out, in, out, but the way shown above should be the main one you do
Hope that helped!
Anyway here's my advice:
Two fingers (unless she asks for more) I dont appreciate having three or four trying to work their way in, it wont work!
Have them facing upwards towards the sky
Instead of just straight in, out, in out, use them to massage the walls, especially the g-spot which is at the front about an inch or two in.
Curl the ends of your fingers up and move them back and forth like you;re doing a 'come here' movement
Occasionally you could switch to just in, out, in, out, but the way shown above should be the main one you do
Hope that helped!
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Quote by MMonroe
I know, what a romantic phrase.
Anyway here's my advice:
Two fingers (unless she asks for more) I dont appreciate having three or four trying to work their way in, it wont work!
Have them facing upwards towards the sky
Instead of just straight in, out, in out, use them to massage the walls, especially the g-spot which is at the front about an inch or two in.
Curl the ends of your fingers up and move them back and forth like you;re doing a 'come here' movement
Occasionally you could switch to just in, out, in, out, but the way shown above should be the main one you do
Hope that helped!
I love this technique but even better if you lick and gently bite her clit as you finger her. This drives me wild!!
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I love this technique but even better if you lick and gently bite her clit as you finger her. This drives me wild!!
I always do better with practical, real life teaching. Can you walk me through this process step by step? I'll be right over for my first lesson.
I always do better with practical, real life teaching. Can you walk me through this process step by step? I'll be right over for my first lesson.
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MMonroe has it right... always make sure your fingers are gently curved... not ram-rod straight and stiff. ie. most of the porn you watch is way wrong with technique.
A bad fingering technique is a total mood-killer. Watch to see that she is moving against your fingers enthusiastically and not squirming to move away from your fingers. When I was younger I endured some bad technique because I didn't want to ruin the moment by telling him that he was doing it all wrong. I had only hoped that my reactions to his persistent stiff-fingered warp-speed stabbing would have give him the clue that his technique sucked (which almost never worked). I've learned to be a lot less subtle as I gained more sexual experience.
So keep the fingers curved (towards the belly, not the back), concentrate on G-spot stimulation/massage more than aggressive 'in and out', and pay attention to how her body reacts to you.
Happy fingering...
A bad fingering technique is a total mood-killer. Watch to see that she is moving against your fingers enthusiastically and not squirming to move away from your fingers. When I was younger I endured some bad technique because I didn't want to ruin the moment by telling him that he was doing it all wrong. I had only hoped that my reactions to his persistent stiff-fingered warp-speed stabbing would have give him the clue that his technique sucked (which almost never worked). I've learned to be a lot less subtle as I gained more sexual experience.
So keep the fingers curved (towards the belly, not the back), concentrate on G-spot stimulation/massage more than aggressive 'in and out', and pay attention to how her body reacts to you.
Happy fingering...
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Agreed with all of the statements above... and don't forget... take your time, don't go ploughing in like a bull at a gate, take it slow and easy until she's wet enough to get a bit more vigorous (or unless she asks)- nothing worse than being finger fucked without any warm up! and make sure you pay attention to the clit every now and then. I find that if my boyfriend takes his fingers out and plays with my clit in little intervals, when he puts them back in, it feels all the more sensitive having had a little break. ;) xoxoxoxox
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Try this video, [Go onto pornhub.com & search for: Full body orgasm] it's GENIUS!! Once you get the knack, BOOM...
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Whatever you do, make sure either her or your finger are wet.....dry finger on dry clit.....ouch ouch ouch. Always remember that our clits are hyper sensitive and so as a result it's super important that you take it slow with them...instant vigorous clit rubbing is one of the most painful things I've ever experienced. Don't do it!
everything else has been covered.... the 'come hither' movement with your fingers, over or just in front of the g-spot.
everything else has been covered.... the 'come hither' movement with your fingers, over or just in front of the g-spot.
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I love this technique but even better if you lick and gently bite her clit as you finger her. This drives me wild!!
Indeed. Add nibling and sucking to the mix and your girlfriend will be having orgasm after orgasm.
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Of course the benefit of using your fingers is you can get yourself into completely different positions - this adds a whole new dimension
oh yeah - try softly crossing and uncrossing two fingers inside as you play - just for a little variety. Also, if your fingers are long enough, don't forget stroking the cervix - it works wonders
oh yeah - try softly crossing and uncrossing two fingers inside as you play - just for a little variety. Also, if your fingers are long enough, don't forget stroking the cervix - it works wonders
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Of course the benefit of using your fingers is you can get yourself into completely different positions - this adds a whole new dimension
oh yeah - try softly crossing and uncrossing two fingers inside as you play - just for a little variety. Also, if your fingers are long enough, don't forget stroking the cervix - it works wonders
Surely not !! x
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My advice....communicate with the woman. Ask her what she likes or how she likes it....most women are tge same but all are different. And don't forget to tell her how beautiful her pussy is either. Read up on the subject ....knowledge is power!
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Of course the benefit of using your fingers is you can get yourself into completely different positions - this adds a whole new dimension
oh yeah - try softly crossing and uncrossing two fingers inside as you play - just for a little variety. Also, if your fingers are long enough, don't forget stroking the cervix - it works wonders
Surely not !! x
It's true - you must allow me to demonstrate sometime ;)
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