i'm all about giving! as much as i do enjoy receiving and having my own magnificent orgasm, it is not my ultimate goal when i'm with a partner. i get just as much, if not MORE pleasure from making my partner's experience a memorable one, watching him react and respond to me, knowing that i'm the reason he's enjoying himself so much - THAT is a HUGE turn on for me in so many ways and my own orgasm becomes secondary.
now...if my partner is one of those men that only likes to receive and NEVER gives...i may have a problem with that too, lol. i have needs too after all. the best experiences are when a giver meets another giver - initally there is some sweet conflict over who wants to please the other first but in the end, both partners win and win BIG!
I agree with Belle...when 2 givers meet the experience is amazing.
I am a giver too. There's for me no better giving position when a woman is on top of my face.
Being between her thighs. Her in complete control. That gives me immense pleasure.
Quote by BelleduJour i'm all about giving! as much as i do enjoy receiving and having my own magnificent orgasm, it is not my ultimate goal when i'm with a partner. i get just as much, if not MORE pleasure from making my partner's experience a memorable one, watching him react and respond to me, knowing that i'm the reason he's enjoying himself so much - THAT is a HUGE turn on for me in so many ways and my own orgasm becomes secondary.
now...if my partner is one of those men that only likes to receive and NEVER gives...i may have a problem with that too, lol. i have needs too after all. the best experiences are when a giver meets another giver - initally there is some sweet conflict over who wants to please the other first but in the end, both partners win and win BIG!
Im a giver too. Nothing turns me on more than to know my lover is responding to my touch. Belledujour, I think your answer is perfect for me as well.