Whoever writes, doesn't beg or sell, and has something to say with any depth is real. The rest, you can ignore.
There's a lot of genuine people here that don't post pictures. Has nothing to do with being "fake". Has to do with privacy.
I thought this was going to be about boob jobs and penis enlargements.
And there you have a real person. Notice the great comedic timing (was talking about ArtMan, but Dude got in first. Not that Dude doesn't have a good sense of timing as well), and a man's constant point of view (ha ha).
By the way, I am Jimmy Paige, and don't you think otherwise!
i dont see the point in being fake,we are 100 % real,i would say 40-50-% of pics ,profiles are fake here
I am real, my pictures are real. my responses are real. My avatar is NOT me, but i am curvy brunette and ride a bike so i use it to represent. if anything i try not to be quite so cutting and sarcastic as i am in real life.
Considering how many people try to bluff their way through conversations on subjects they obviously know nothing about, like swinging, nude resorts, BDSM, etc. I'd say the percentage is quite high.
Can anyone on lush be totally real, the illusion of being is part of the draw to lush, otherwise we are stuck in reality. And the escape is what in some part we all long for. None of us are as real as we claim, the question is what is truth, and what is real. And not being overbearing enough to know the truth, and let the other enjoy there illusion!
I think everyone... We all have a fake moment we fake being nice, we fake being sweet, we fake everything. Our moments of truth are small.
I would have to agree I think everyone fakes something on here, some do more than others though.
I have to agree with Shylass...Does it matter?
"Fake" and "Real" here is a broad spectrum. It boils down to
what each individual expects/seeks when they join. Some just
want a fantasy. Some want a reality. Maybe some want both.
All I can say is keep seeking and you shall find...
Fake what? Like anyone is going to post a face pic. Wouldn't that just be awesome for your boss at work to see?
Here are some general rules:
1. Assume that all avatars are just pics or representations of the person behind them - not a real photo of the actual person, unless otherwise stated.
2. If someone has naked photos in an open public-gallery on their profile - take it with a grain of salt. How many people do you know outside "the adult industry" that would be cool with posting tons of explicit pics of themselves online for anyone to access. Double the skepticism if the photos show their face. Triple the skepticism if they have nude photos posted of their supposed best friends, family members, boyfriends/girlfriends, and teachers... because... let's face it - who the fuck would do that?
3. Yes, there is a skewed demographic with an endless array of 19 yr old bisexual/lesbians that look like professional models on this site that are always extreme level-10 horny. If you *are* actually a 19 yr old lesbian looking for a girl to chat with - damn, I feel bad for you - you will have to wade through a lot of fakes.
4. If a person has spent a lot of time on their profile, has earned a lot of badges in the way of voting/commenting stories or actually writing their own stories, you can probably put a little more trust in them - they have invested time into the site and aren't just here for cyber kicks and trolling for friends.
5. Read between the lines when you see a profile. Does this sound like a real person, or more like a stereotyped two-dimensional sex-bot who proclaims themselves a nympho fuckslut with unrealistic (daily) sexual adventures. Most real women will not want to present themselves this way, even if they are super kinky - and they will probably have some standards, even on the internet.
*** Don't get too bent out of shape about who is real and fake. Develop some basic "internet smarts" and talk to people based on how much you enjoy the convo. If it isn't your style, then move along to the next person. Chances are, this site is going to be the extent of your interactions with them, so as long as you're entertained here, then it's all good.
Fake can be construed so many ways. Hidden identities are not necessarily fake as much as they are prudent. Get to know and friend other members and discover that they are very real and interesting people with very real opinions and feelings.
i don't have time to worry about who is fake unless they are talking to me... i try to be as real as possible.... and that is why i do not have any images other than my avatar.... and that is really me... do you think anyone from work will recognize me???? lol