I would like to know what kind of music do you like while you are having sex, the ambient is important and with a good music the night will be unforgettable!
For me it is - Ravel's BOLERO.
Its a classic and it runs for about 17 minutes and begins with a seductive note and builds up to a fantastic climax - and we attempt to do the same with the beat of the music.
I like most all forms of music, but when making love, I like to listen to instrumentals. Songs from Burt Bacharac (Sp?), Percy Faith, etc. Now if we're talking about straight fucking, then I prefer classical rock.
My ex boyfriend was a huge music buff, constantly needing something playing, even if it was just background. When we got together we were both virgins, and so when we had sex for the first time, he thought it would be comical to pay "Like a Virgin" by Madonna.
Even though we are not together anymore, I still enjoy having music playing while having sex. It can really add to the mood at times. You just gotta know when to play what.
For example, I wouldn't recommend death metal while you and your lover are having a romantic love making session. Common sense.
Personally, I love doing it while a great classic rock song is playing softly in the back ground. Sometimes, if me and a guy are really going at it and I know it's gonna be a great intense fuck, I'll play some sorta dubstep/trance/rave music. Quite fun
Really does depend. Sometimes its Enigma, other times Clannad and Enya, then again it is hard to go wrong with Grover Washington, Al Jerrau and the like.
In the build up to the main course, listening to Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Matt Monroe etc with glass of wine, candles.......then take it from there ?
I love a little sexy neo soul, it's smooth with a slow, seductive, old school R&B vibe. It gives you a nice rhythm to move to, but not overbearing or distractive. The words are usually very reflective. A classic is "Sumthin'Sumthin'" by Maxwell. It gives you an idea.
I guess I am a little different. I like soft music during the seduction but once we move to the bedroom I actually prefer no music at all. I want to connect to my lover on all levels, including sound, and music seems somehow distracting. Oh well, I guess I am weird that way.
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I like listening to the sounds and panting of my boyfriend. I like being able to fully hear and pay attention to the music of making love. To me that is all the music I really need!
(When I was younger~ it was rock, and then it became sultry music...) Now I just want to hear him, and that IS setting the mood for me when we are alone and I hear his hum and breath in my ear. WOO.
Quote by Leigh65 I guess I am a little different...I actually prefer no music at all. I want to connect... I guess I am weird that way.
We are alike then in that way. It does not seem "weird" to me at all anyway. It makes perfect sense to want that.
'And@ScriptWriter66^ who quoted Bram Stoker's 'Dracula'^ about listening to "the children of the night," ah~ weare them. Yes, I do like nightly noises: the wind, the wild rustlings & summer symphony in chorus out my window, but it would be quickly swallowed-up, swept under the tide and not distinguishable. Thunder and rain, on the other hand, make me in state of heightened arousal anyway, and I LOVE that background noise of a storm when having sex!