A phrase I made up some years ago, and it means just what it sounds like it means: what really turns you on big time?
A hot voice whispering something naughty she wants to do to me in my ear is one thing that just sizzles my nizzle!
The sound a man makes when he is cumming. Sounds anyone makes during orgasm just get me completely hot and wet.
Long slow passionate kissing that just seems to last forever and suspends you and your partner in time.
Nipples being played with
Teasing, I find being able to draw someones focus to a single point, helping everything else fade away deeply arousing.
There is more to it than that but if you want to know you can ask me and I will try and explain in a little more detail.
Whispering to me what you want from me, and hearing him moan for me.
A girl who really starts to get into it, talks dirty, and moans wantonly?
Also turns me on when a girl knows what she wants with me and either takes it, or whispers it quietly in my ear.
And, it only happened with one girl, but she was able to trail a finger from my side down to the V of my thighs and make my muscles spasm (in a good way) like crazy.
Sensuality sets me on fire with embers that glow through out the night
The thought of my kind, loving, gentleman pleasuring me roughly.
The thought of giving my lover orgasm after orgasm until she can take no more. Pleasuring her roughly and then kissing and cuddling her until daybreak and beyond.
When a dominate man throws me on the bed, holds my arms above my head. Holding me down, taking complete control (:
His Hands, says it all.
Show me, don't tell me.
A beautiful toned bubble butt in jeans that seem to wrap it perfectly. Mmmmouth watering.
With a woman....a sultry voice esp. in the vein of Kathleen Turner's voice. Just her talking seductively or whispering in my ear can really turn me on big time.
As far as body types with women I term if the Amazon-type women (i.e. Lynda Carter, Wonder Woman, etc) -- brunettes with nice figures. Just love that type of woman and they usually instantly turn me on. She must have a nice butt and beautiful eyes.
With a man....a hairy chest or legs are big turn-ons. When dressed even if a few buttons are opened to reveal some hair it is hot.
I love long wet kisses from either.
Long walks esp. in the woods with heavy flirting and touching
The sound of wind chimes from a gentle breeze
The sight of either sex in nice underwear does more for me than even seeing them naked.
Secret public displays of affection (i.e. a brush against the leg under a table at a restaurant, running their foot up my leg, etc.) -- things shared only to the knowledge of the two but in public.
Talking dirty.
A person assured of themselves and dominant but not controlling dominant (both men and women). They don't mind taking the lead when needed or making the first move.
The smells and sounds of sex. For instance the smell of the cock, balls, pussy, cum, and even mild body odor. The sounds of flesh against flesh, etc.
The thing that really sizzles my nizzle....a really hot and heavy make out session with my lover!
When I cum in her an pull out and she licks me clean, while rubbing cum all over her pussy and ass.
i love the psychology of bdsm and the emotion of sex.
his front to my back, his fingers through my hair, his face close to my neck, his breath next to my ear, his eyes piercing into mine...
When she says "Yes Master"
A hot pair of legs on someone who has noticed I've noticed and smiles.
i love the look in her eyes when she almost passes out riding me and it hits her ,mmmm yes that look in her eyes