So, I've got this co-worker who's in his mid-forties, a little under six feet tall and in great shape. We both belong to the same gym that's in our office building, so I've seen him outside of his business suit, and likewise. We're both in marketing, so we end up working together a lot, and even travel together some. I"ve even had dinner and drinks a couple of times with he and his wife, and perceptive as I am to how people perceive me, I can safely say that she was never threatened by me being around her hubby. In fact, we got along great, had the same sense of humor, etc.
There's a palpable attraction between me and this guy, in the way that we look at each other (the pre-kiss look) and in our body language, but since he's married and he's never come reasonably close to making a move, that sexual tension has remained. We've gotten fairly close, and have gradually covered more and more risque subjects in our conversations over the past year or so, probably as a way to channel that energy somehow, but also because I end up dragging most everyone who knows me into sexual conversations ;). Not to bore you with this, I'll cut to the chase:
He invited me to down to the hotel bar one night when we were out of town on a business trip, and after a couple of glasses of scotch, he starts talking really wierdly, and asking clumsy questions about what I think about being with a women, etc., and basically just not seeming himself at all. After I told him to cut the bullshit and tell me what was going on, he asked me what I thought about him, if I ever thought about taking it further. Being a few drinks in myself, I was too surprised to respond right away, which is when he straight-up asked me about "maybe being with him and his wife some night." (!!!)
Now, I don't know who among you have ever found yourself lucky or unlucky enough to be in a threesome (my experiences have ranged from mind-blowing to creepy and a little scary), but I've certainly never 'made plans' to be in one, they just sort of happen, and usually with the aid of some substance or another...
I don't know what to do. The guy IS fucking hot, he's not my boss or anthything like that, and his wife's no slouch either (hot little Latina, about my size but more curvy), and there's no one in my life that I'd be cheating on. But I've never knowingly had sex with a married man before, and being with him and his spouse kind of freaks me out. I know, I know, I'm not living up to my 70% sluttiness score by even hestitating to ask the question, but I'm curious what you guys think about this.
At the time, I played it coy, and told him I'd think about it. Have you ever messed around with anyone at your workplace? Sexually speaking, I've done a lot of stuff in my short life, but that would be a first for me!
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Propositioned by a married couple, one of which is a co-worker, to have a threesome
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It's kind of a complicated subject, because not only they are a married couple, but also you seem to spend a lot of the time with that man at work. Threesomes to me are less fucking with the body, more with the brain. It is a question if someone can mentally handle it. All the couples that I knew that had a threesome split up to a few months after - no matter for how long they have been together before it happened. Of course, there are some people who never care about anything, but most of people actually do. Sometimes they figure they do care already *during* the "action".
In case if something went wrong with their marriage, you have to answer yourself a question, would you be not only able to handle the fact you *could* have been one of the factors, but also to spend much time with your co-worker, or if one of you is psychically forced to change the job. The level of sensitivity is different for everyone, so this question is only to *you* and not anybody else. I only point out there is this kind of danger and that is not rare.
From the threesome experience I have myself, despite they were successful in sexual terms, there were always some repercussions later on. However, I had a foursome with my co-workers once and it was a great thing (except I couldn't walk later on), but it was a bit different situation. These Bulgarian guys worked at the same tennis event I did, and we were getting along really well, and we did it on the last day of our cooperation. We haven't seen each other ever since, so I don't know if or how it affected their lives, as for me, I felt fine.
Good luck making up your mind! (Ah, anyway, feel flattered you were offered this
)
In case if something went wrong with their marriage, you have to answer yourself a question, would you be not only able to handle the fact you *could* have been one of the factors, but also to spend much time with your co-worker, or if one of you is psychically forced to change the job. The level of sensitivity is different for everyone, so this question is only to *you* and not anybody else. I only point out there is this kind of danger and that is not rare.
From the threesome experience I have myself, despite they were successful in sexual terms, there were always some repercussions later on. However, I had a foursome with my co-workers once and it was a great thing (except I couldn't walk later on), but it was a bit different situation. These Bulgarian guys worked at the same tennis event I did, and we were getting along really well, and we did it on the last day of our cooperation. We haven't seen each other ever since, so I don't know if or how it affected their lives, as for me, I felt fine.
Good luck making up your mind! (Ah, anyway, feel flattered you were offered this
) Lia,
I have no experience whatsoever from which to help you. Natalia sounds like she has offered some things to think about. Seems to me if you give it a pass, no harm done. And it will always be something you can fall back on for a private moment and musing....
However, if you should indulge, and go through with it, the lech in me has total confidence that your recounting it would be exquisitely sexy - especially your descriptions of the hot latina number who is his wife. Perhaps a conversation with her, alone, might also be advised?
(Me, if there might have been a time when I might have been hit on in my professional career, I was too oblivious to recognize it...)
best wishes, and peace and safety to you in all your pursuits.
I have no experience whatsoever from which to help you. Natalia sounds like she has offered some things to think about. Seems to me if you give it a pass, no harm done. And it will always be something you can fall back on for a private moment and musing....
However, if you should indulge, and go through with it, the lech in me has total confidence that your recounting it would be exquisitely sexy - especially your descriptions of the hot latina number who is his wife. Perhaps a conversation with her, alone, might also be advised?
(Me, if there might have been a time when I might have been hit on in my professional career, I was too oblivious to recognize it...)
best wishes, and peace and safety to you in all your pursuits.
Fireman
I love threesomes. However, never with a co-worker because if it doesn't work out, you have to see him at work and things could get weird. However, if you decide to go for it, I'll cross my fingers and I hope you write a story about it. Good Luck.
Advanced Wordsmith
Oh, gotta agree with fireman, *love* stories about threesomes ;) Then, go for it Lia LOL.
Fireman
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Oh, gotta agree with fireman, *love* stories about threesomes ;) Then, go for it Lia LOL.
One more thing. If you LOVE your job, DON'T do it. However, if you don't care about your job that much or if you can find another job than go for it.
Whenever it comes to office romances, I think you have to ask yourself what happens after the fun. If it's something you think you can handle, you then have to apply the question about the other people involved. How do you think they would handle it? Would it end up being a love triangle? Would it just end up being a mess? Would you feel awful if he was doing the same with other partners in the office?
Some things to think about.
Some things to think about.
I agree with the comments here. My wife and I swing from time to time and it's not always pleasant even with people who have experience. Everyone has to have a mental state that allows them to not need attention constantly and the guy has to not be looking for a girl to cheat with. My experience is that I will only do something like swing or have a threesome with people I meet outside of friendships, work, etc.
This isn't a good example but a true story. I went to a swinger party and my wife and 3 other women sat on the couch, got naked, made out while the guys watched helplessly (but enthusiastically) from the sidelines. After about 30 minutes of this, the women decided they were far too worked up and took the party to a room upstairs to which it turned into an all out orgy. Fun, fun, fun! No complaints here.
But as luck would have it, one of the women, a young single girl who had spent a good deal of time licking my wife's pussy, worked at my office. I nearly lost a kidney when I saw her walking down the hall toward me. At first I nearly panicked! I was worried she would tell someone, then worried what I would say. But when all came down to it, she didn't acknowledge me (perhaps she was too drunk to remember me) and I never said a word to her about it. She was only a part time employee, dressed very seductively, gained the attention of many of the men in the office but turned out to be a bit nuts. She was let go soon after. I was glad she either never remembered me or was too scared to say anything. I'm sure if I had confronted her she may have "outted" me at work. Not cool! But damn, she was hot.
So what's my fucking point? Take the advice here, don't do it. Just flirt, have fun and be a tease. Guys like that even if they say they hate teases. Have fun!
Natalia, you rock!
This isn't a good example but a true story. I went to a swinger party and my wife and 3 other women sat on the couch, got naked, made out while the guys watched helplessly (but enthusiastically) from the sidelines. After about 30 minutes of this, the women decided they were far too worked up and took the party to a room upstairs to which it turned into an all out orgy. Fun, fun, fun! No complaints here.
But as luck would have it, one of the women, a young single girl who had spent a good deal of time licking my wife's pussy, worked at my office. I nearly lost a kidney when I saw her walking down the hall toward me. At first I nearly panicked! I was worried she would tell someone, then worried what I would say. But when all came down to it, she didn't acknowledge me (perhaps she was too drunk to remember me) and I never said a word to her about it. She was only a part time employee, dressed very seductively, gained the attention of many of the men in the office but turned out to be a bit nuts. She was let go soon after. I was glad she either never remembered me or was too scared to say anything. I'm sure if I had confronted her she may have "outted" me at work. Not cool! But damn, she was hot.
So what's my fucking point? Take the advice here, don't do it. Just flirt, have fun and be a tease. Guys like that even if they say they hate teases. Have fun!
Natalia, you rock!
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Don't shit where you eat.
eloquent in its brevity, Chef
I really appreciate and am enjoying the responses to this 'conundrum' of mine. Speaking of Mr. 40-something, we just had a meeting together, and he looks at me like he's ready to rip my clothes off right here in the office.
If I was more mature, and he was less attractive (mind and body) it would really bother me....
Lia
Lush Legend
I agree with Chef 100%...I've said it once I've said it a 1000 times.....you don't shit where you eat.....just not healthy for ya.....lol
"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."
Fireman
Hey Lia,
So have you decided? Inquiring minds want to know?
So have you decided? Inquiring minds want to know?
Flutterby Pharie
Hey Chase......what are you whispering there that NO ONE can see??
♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
Seeker
It says, Hey Bat, I think we've got one side of the fence down. LOL
Flutterby Pharie
Good lord, Birdie!! How can you see that??
♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
Seeker
Super woman eyes....LOL
Advanced Wordsmith
copy and paste does the job, too *grin*
Flutterby Pharie
Well, now that I know what it says I can actually read it.......LOL
♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
Lush Legend
So how's the weather Chef.....
........LOL!
........LOL! "Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."
Lush Legend
Over here too....its cool and raining today....nice day for snuggling.....heh heh.....
"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."
Fireman
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Over here too....its cool and raining today....nice day for snuggling.....heh heh.....
Need someone to snhuggle with?
Lush Legend
Already got it covered, thanks.......LOL!!!
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"Love all, trust a few, and do wrong to none."
Fireman
LOL... nice one
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