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Life, philosphy and the Female Anus

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okino77
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Now that I have your attention smile

I was recently looking at a photo set on one of those quasi-artsy nude sites and there was a set of an exceptionally pretty (in the most girl-next-door sense) girl who was about 18 or 19. She had done several sets before and always kept to pretty demure posing but in this one set, she appeared to be "opening up" more. In one particular photo, she was shot from above on her hands in knees with her butt arched up, her cheeks were parted open and between them, clear as day, was her cute anus, visible to the viewer for the first time after months of photos that were significantly more modest.

This wouldn't mean much as some girls start showing off the bits from the get go but something about her slow, protracted tease and her innocent look set the comment section into a frenzy when that photo was published. Guys were commenting on how beautiful it was that she had finally surrendered to the viewer the "most intimate" part of her body (referring to her anus). The conversation quickly turned oddly philosophical, that there was something strangely humanizing about seeing such a beautiful girl's anus. It was like how you build a beauty up as the idealized, flawless goddess in your mind but then, when confronted with her most explicit orifice, you recognize she is ultimately human and her revealing that humanity is like a beautiful and erotic exchange of trust.

Now, this could all be written off as pretentious prattle but it seriously got me thinking. Why do many men view the anus as the "most intimate" part of a woman's body. It is not as singularly feminine as the vagina nor strictly associated with sexual reproduction like the vagina but it is often regarded as even "more private." Beyond a simple glandular attraction, what do you think the allure if of the female anus is? Do you relate in seeing a beautiful woman's anus as something that's transcendently erotic?
simar
The Engineer
well i guess it depends on sexual fantasies,well it does for me.....i mean some people might say that anal sex is something that couples usually tend to experiment on after a long time,so in that sense you could say that people would believe that women are opening their most intimate part.
On the other hand people with highly abusive yet erotic sexual fantasies might consider it an intimate part on the argument that its the most .......painful when involved in sex(i don't know what that means)
Well thats my point ,many people would have other points too
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mirrorkisses
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From a female's perspective, I think that the association with the anus being more "private" is largely because women often hold more insecurity and shame in that area . I had a female friend who was afraid to have doggy style because she didn't want her boyfriend seeing her anus, as she mistakenly thought it would be a turn off for him. It really represents the ultimate vulnerability for a woman because it is seen as not glamorous, associated with a body functions that women don't wish you to know they possess lol. I believe it should be embraced as a beautiful erogenous zone, personally, as this opens a woman up to her full sexuality and I'm opposed to any form of bodily shame.
simar
The Engineer
Quote by mirrorkisses
From a female's perspective, I think that the association with the anus being more "private" is largely because women often hold more insecurity and shame in that area . I had a female friend who was afraid to have doggy style because she didn't want her boyfriend seeing her anus, as she mistakenly thought it would be a turn off for him. It really represents the ultimate vulnerability for a woman because it is seen as not glamorous, associated with a body functions that women don't wish you to know they possess lol. I believe should be embraced as a beautiful erogenous zone, personally, as this opens a woman up to her full sexuality and I'm opposed to any form of bodily shame.


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okino77
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Quote by mirrorkisses
From a female's perspective, I think that the association with the anus being more "private" is largely because women often hold more insecurity and shame in that area . I had a female friend who was afraid to have doggy style because she didn't want her boyfriend seeing her anus, as she mistakenly thought it would be a turn off for him. It really represents the ultimate vulnerability for a woman because it is seen as not glamorous, associated with a body functions that women don't wish you to know they possess lol. I believe it should be embraced as a beautiful erogenous zone, personally, as this opens a woman up to her full sexuality and I'm opposed to any form of bodily shame.


That makes a lot of sense that it is partially rooted in women's perceptions of that area, that when a woman does reveal her anus she is casting aside her shame and opening herself up to her full and complete humanity, which to men is an overwhelming experience of trust and intimacy.
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Probably because the anus was not built for sex but for waste elimination. That makes it and means crossing the line. People tend to desire what the can't have. Gay men have little choice. But a woman has more. There is much pleasure in pleasing others. I suspect that for many women to give up their anal V card is a special gift for their lover and,he better embrace it as so.
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Probably because the anus was not built for sex but for waste elimination. That makes it and means crossing the line. People tend to desire what the can't have. Gay men have little choice. But a woman has more. There is much pleasure in pleasing others. I suspect that for many women to give up their anal V card is a special gift for their lover and,he better embrace it as so.