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do women cyber?and if so are they really out there or is it purely a myth
Quote by CurlyGirly
Nah, they're all just dudes pretending to be women. If you close your eyes and pretend...
Seriously, I'm sure a lot of the women here have cybered at one time or another. But, as Trinket said, most women are choosy and like to get to know someone first. "Hey, do you cyber, cuz my dick is hard?" doesn't usually work as an introduction. I've had some great times cybering, but there was/is a connection with that person.
Quote by Dudealicious
I am still spent! Thanks again, you are one crazy cyberfuckerupper!
Quote by Tammy_Nguyen_77
I do not, I am not comfortable with it, and I do not think my husband would be comfortable with me doing that either.
Quote by JohnC
Might I suggest you do it with your husband?
Quote by delia4you
I enjoy cybering when my playmate is intelligent, articulate, and imaginative. It's like any other form of sex, actually - how enjoyable it is depends upon whom you choose to do it with.
Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
I enjoying cybering but I also find just a sexy conversation talking about sexual experiences, what the person likes, etc. .... in fact I think that is even hotter sometimes
Quote by Emerys
Did it once. The guy bored me. He was inarticulate and so obviously didn't care about anything besides getting himself off. I never did it again, and honestly, I don't think I even want to. That last experience left a bad taste in my mouth. Besides, I'm a bit paranoid about personal security these days.
Chatting about sex/fantasies or role-playing is more fun for me these days. Unfortunately I haven't come across many people who are both interesting AND literate, so my options have been extremely limited.
Now, do women cyber in general? Of course they do. An old female friend of mine once told me that she loved having cyber sex. I highly doubt she's the only one.
Perhaps you're not looking in the right places. Or perhaps you're coming across too strong. I know that I, personally, could never cyber with someone I didn't know/trust at least a little. Which means that we'd actually have to have had a conversation about something OTHER than sex at some point.
I don't presume to know how you go about asking for it, but if you're just randomly messaging women (via PM or chat) with comments that go along the lines of "hey sexy, u want to be freaky together on cam?" then you're probably turning more people off than on.
It would help to actually know how you've been approaching people about it thus far.