IRL, I would feel a little funny being with a guy under 30 (I have kids older than that); but on-line, it's all about excitement and fantasy and I have to admit I've had great fun teasing a 24-yo.
Besides, stamina is nice, but one earth-shattering bull's eye beat six near misses any day
I think it simply depends on the person. I've never really dated anyone that much older than me, but I've dated women a lot younger. With the ones that worked, it really came down to a matter of intelligence. The last girl I dated was 18 years younger, but she was just....dumb. She couldn't even hold a conversation about vacuous crap. When I wasn't fucking her, I was bored.
Intelligence and spelling; those are my two indicators.
If they use grammar correctly and consistently.... please excuse me while I remove all of my clothes and assume the position of their choice.
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As long as they are imaginative, responsive, and can spell and construct intelligible sentences, and aren't obviously chatting simultaneously (long, long pauses) I am not too worried about age. Context and mutual interests are much more important.
If the two people are happy why should it even matter to others
That is a very good question, I have always been with older men, my last husband was 17 years older, however, my new boyfriend is the youngest man I have ever been with respectively and he is still 8 months older, I have found I don't have much in common with younger men, they just don't excite me, but I am not so niave as too think that I would not ever meet one that would.
I'm 25 and Ive been talking with this women from England shes 32. She came to Kansas to see me for a week last month, We hit it off and had a great time. Cant wait to go over to her side and visit.
As far as lush I don't have a specific limit. I take their interests and our interactions into consideration. I do have the best conversations and chats with people my age or older though.
In real life I usually dated someone around my age or within 5 years older but before I got married I fell for someone 5 years younger and my hubby is younger - so I think it's best to be open as long as the person is of legal age! With that said, younger people are still growing and learning and the older a person is the more set in their ways they are...
I guess I'm lucky...At 33 I was asked the other day over the phone repeatedly, if I was actually over 18. In person, Some have given me the age stamp of 25, and my Wii Fit keeps telling me I have the fitness of a 20yo - so I don't really care about an age limit, so long as my partner can keep up with me!
no age limit but for a relationship... no more than 5 years younger or older
Guess I don't have much of a limit either way. The biggest difference was 16 years - her 52, me 36. I wouldn't be opposed to that gap again, up or down!
I rarely come to the forums, not sure why other than time and energy... Anyway, I think in real life my choices have been made, I"m 32 and my lover is almost 62, very mature and giving, if you know what I mean. On line is a different story, fantasy can be whatever we choose it to be though I tend to still prefer a mature man to the young studs who so enjoy the quick hard pounding encounter, give me a man who knows the value of taking time to smell the roses any day. So, in cyber and role play I tend to want maturity in the men or women I play with. If they happen to be 18 and can hold that as dear, fine, if not I'll know it and send them packing in a heart beat.
All depends on the maturity level....and how much i like the person...theres no set age difference...its kinda stupid to deny someone love based on JUST their age
Age is just a number ...
Maturity and intelligence level are the only concern, really. Oh and compatability.
"When it comes down to it, I let them think what they want. If they care enough to bother with what I do, then I'm already better than them." -Marilyn Monroe
Depends on the person. As long as we have a good conection, some thing in common, it really doesn't matter.