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Would you ever fuck your closest (opposite sex) friend, knowing that is as far as it will go.

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I'm best friends with mine, most of my other female friends I would do in a heart beat, her ....I'm just happy to be around!
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Ok rephrase I'm close to mine as ever! Of course we best friends lol
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I had a chance 25 years ago to do my best friend's wife - chickened out to preserve the friendship. I still fantasize @ it. I believe she would have agreed to have sex.
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Quote by Ban
So my question is age old and timeless. Fuck your best friend when the situation presents? Your choice!



No.
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definitely makes the friendship better. Gets the curiosity out of the way and you can be really open to one another about everything. Those are the friends that I've kept the longest.
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In my early 20's I did. It lasted for awhile and then I got bored. We stayed friends for many years after that. In retrospect, probably not that great of an idea. As stated earlier, if I am attracted then I made it happen long before the best friends became a reality. The attraction for the female body and sexual desires that I have when I see a woman, I would just make it happen. BUT, there is this sister-in-law I have that could fit this question....in an instant I would
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Quote by MMonroe
No, thats why he's my best friend and I havent fucked him already


I thought it wouldnt happen to me to... I thought i was diferent too...... but it really does...always!!!! lol
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YES! I've had sex with most of my closest friends over the years. (male and female) I don't believe you ever really know a person until you see their intimate side, (uh family aside here) and I've always had a closer bond with them afterward. It's never been awkward for me, and its easier to be friends without sexual tension. Also works with that sort-of friend who's kind of an asshole but you're secretly attracted to.. they're like pussycats after and become good friends also. i.m.e that is.
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Yes with a best friends of both sexes and yes the relationship changed. Mostly for the better as we both no longer lived under the stress did he/she have the same feeling and desires that I have.

Some we grew apart, but I doubt that the sex was the key factor. We just grew to be different kinds of people.

I am sure all the "Friendship BooK" would warn away from taking a friend as a sex partner, but I would not have missed the experience and will not in the future should the opportunity arise.
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YES! I've had sex with most of my closest friends over the years. (male and female) I don't believe you ever really know a person until you see their intimate side, (uh family aside here) and I've always had a closer bond with them afterward. It's never been awkward for me, and its easier to be friends without sexual tension. Also works with that sort-of friend who's kind of an asshole but you're secretly attracted to.. they're like pussycats after and become good friends also. i.m.e that is.



good for you 'troublein' *grin* I, unfortunately had opposite experience, ruined two friendship, now I know better.
I thought that we will have sex here and there, you know to help each other out, giggles, however those two boys had different whishes..Maybe it was young age reason why we couldn't pass that or they couldn't understand that our friendship will never become something else..
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Quote by Alison90
Been there a couple of times. Probably not a good idea though. The friendship changed.


Unfortunately I second that... The contact has changed and I miss the old contact still.. Every few years we try again but once you've crossed that line it is hard to go back... So from now on a definitely No... I value the friendships I have too much to screw it over
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Of course I would. Friends come and go. Sometimes it's better that they cum and go! Giggles.

Really I have had fun with my friends and never had a regret. Life is too short.

xx B.
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Yes! I've already done that!!!!
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That's why they're friends, I'm just not attracted to them in that way.
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I do it all the time! She's my wife>
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If that happens and u're still friends not taking it any more further... there is such a degree of intimacy between you both that you cannot probably experience with anyone else.
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I would and have been occasionally for the last 3-4 years. But, we don't when either one of us is dating someone else. Once in awhile we think maybe it could become more, but then we realize we just are more compatible as friends that fuck.
That said, I do think that our situation is more of an exception than a rule. In most cases one of the two wants more.
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Funnily, I did with one of my closest male friends....

It wasn't awkward and we're still great friends and back to normal...

I guess it was just a transient thing?
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I'm confused. If I fuck a close guy friend, knowing that fucking is as far as it will go...what is supposed to come after fucking, when it's supposed to go farther than fucking?
Oh yeah...more fucking...until it ends.
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absolutely not... i care to much about my relationship with him. If there was emotional, sexual feelings between me and him, then it might be different if the feelings were mutual. BUT... i don't think i could do a friends with benefits with my best guy friend, because our friendship means more to me then sex.
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Oh yeah baby. We have messed around without doing the dirty deed. Of course that was before our spouses and kids. I still wonder what it would be like.
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I've had several friends that over the years we used each other...nothing like being close with a friend and being comfortable that you are both in the same place mentally and emotionally. So to answer the question I would be with a close friend.
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I'm friends with my exes, and have had a FWP relationship before. For me, it worked out well. It got a little passionate there for a bit, but it was a lot of fun, and we are still friends.

I HAVE to be really fond of the person I'm with, anyhow, so it stands to reason they'd be a good friend before they become my lover.
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I'm a loner, Dottie. A Rebel...
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Yes. But my gf after that was not comfortable with her around subsequently
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Well two years ago had sex with a good friend I worked with. Felt like I was just a notch on his belt.
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Well...not now because we already had our moment in high school.
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Yes.Firstly because she took the trouble to ask me.Secondly yes because it had been a while since her last sexual encounter. Thirdly we did it once and still have flirty tex and chit chats.....
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Always risky but sometimes doable. Would presence in a non-sexual nudist environment change the desire or the risks?