I often wonder about what it would be like to be with a woman? I find them sexy and alluring but have never been with one. So my question is, who is it you have thought about being with but have not yet?
Would ever be with a woman or man who has a spinal cord injury?
Would you ever be with someone of the same sex?
I look forward to your answers. Please post your own would you ever questions, just don't go to crazy.
If you feel comfortable with it try it!
Yes I would, just because a person has limitations doesn't change who they are.
Yes I have on a few occasions and enjoyed it!
I kissed a guy once and it wasn't great, he was a close friend and we were quite drunk, so it didn't matter. He had a beard, too, so that didn't feel nice! Haha! I have mutually masturbated with a man once. I didn't enjoy it really at the time. He was gay and came very quickly. Now and again I will think about it and it does slightly turn me on, but not enough to cum.
I've never given thought to spinal injuries and it's not something that my brain can really imagine or process!
As for women, the most beautiful, sensual, erotic and wonderful creatures god could've created. Each one is beautiful in their own way and gorgeous because she is a woman. Very happy to be straight!! Haha! For me, vaginas are the most beautiful thing in the world and I love heterosexual sex.
Sassywheels wrote:
I often wonder about what it would be like to be with a woman? I find them sexy and alluring but have never been with one. So my question is, who is it you have thought about being with but have not yet?
Would ever be with a woman or man who has a spinal cord injury?
Would you ever be with someone of the same sex?
I look forward to your answers. Please post your own would you ever questions, just don't go to crazy.
1. She knows who she is. I fantasize about actually being with her, and usually it's at the most inappropriate times! lol It will just pop in my head
2. Wow, random thought. Not enough info for me to answer. quad, para? Did I have a relationship with them prior to the injury? Do they have any feeling? Would I pursue this specifically, probably not.
3. No, have no interest
Thank you everyone for your honest replies I appreciate them. I asked the spinal cord injury question because I broke my neck 24 years ago and I have met some women who have been in relationship since their injury and others who have not, and it often makes me wonder, "What strong man can handle being with a woman with a SCI?" I know more men who have a SCI and have no problem getting a woman to go out with them, but my women friends with a SCI especially my friends who are quadriplegics have a harder time finding a relationship.
I'm not man bashing. I'm just saying. It seems that women are more accepting of dating somebody with a spinal cord injury, then some men that I've met.
I like how honest everyone was without being hurtful or mean.
Not turned on by men in some ways, but some turn me on that I still don't want to be with in that way, but have loved as deeply and deeper than some of the women I've been with in the biblical sense.
Been asked by gay men who say "how do you know if you don't try it."
Answer: Could you love a woman as much as the man you're with?
Just know yourself before mixing things up.
So my question is, who is it you have thought about being with but have not yet?
If my thoughts were speech bubbles over my head when I think about this man, I'd raise a lot of eyebrows! He's in my thoughts all the time and means so much to me.
Would ever be with a woman or man who has a spinal cord injury?
If I was in the relationship beforehand, I'd want to try and have some sort of exual and intimate relationship. It does take a strong person to be selfless but love transcends many things.
Would you ever be with someone of the same sex?
This does not interest me in the least bit. I have too much of an interest in a sexy man.
Highwayman: I could love a woman as much but not in the same way.
Please post your own would you ever questions, just don't go to crazy.
My question: I can't think of one right now, but I will ponder it.
Would you ever be with someone of the same sex?
This does not interest me in the least bit. I have too much of an interest in 'men.'
Pretty much my point.
To WSCLG my answer to your questions.
My questions:
Would you cheat on your lover just to satisfy an itch? I think deep in my heart if I am in a committed relationship I would not cheat. I often say if someone is unhappy in their relationship then he or she should get out of it before someone gets hurt.
Would you participate in a threesome just to satisfy your lover? If I felt uncomfortable about doing it then no. If my lover was insistent then I think he and I would certainly have an issue.
Would you leave your lover if they cheated on you? I have always said there is no way I would be able to stay in a relationship with somebody who cheated on me. Now that I am older if it was a circumstance that I thought we would be able to work through with counseling, then maybe I would stay. It would just be very hard to trust that person ever again.
