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Thanks for the video clips jackinandjillin
Quote by Bunny12
Honestly I have known many woman that could really care less if they ever had sex and their poor men are lucky if they even feel they need to service them as their wifely duty some won't even do that. I really think a lot of it has to do with hormones and how women are raised in society basically being tought to be inhibited. I really feel sorry for them and especially their men it's a no win situation as many can never even begin to address it. Guess my problem is the opposite raging hormones! LOL Yes for all these situations communication is the key. The exact same thing can be said about men and ED problems so it all goes both ways. I really wish people would just consider sexual dysfunction as a medical problem and go talk to their docs!
Quote by VanGogh
it's not just women who can lack a desire for sex .... but should you find yourself with one that "sets the flame" ... enjoy and play to keep that flame lit!
Van
Quote by Necho
If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you it is because it is boring for her and she doesn't derive pleasure from it.
I can promise you if the sex is fun and exciting, she won't loose interest.
Quote by Necho
I can promise you if the sex is fun and exciting, she won't loose interest.
Quote by WellMadeMale
Specifically, are these women showing a lack of interest in having sex with you?
Quote by Black-velvet
I don't speak for all women when I say this, but for me and most of the women I know, the build up to sex is much more exciting than the sex itself. So if I were to give you a word of advice, then it would be.... foreplay, foreplay and more foreplay. And if that doesn't work, then just ask her what pleases her, how she likes to be touched. Have fun!
Quote by icemanQuote by Black-velvet
I don't speak for all women when I say this, but for me and most of the women I know, the build up to sex is much more exciting than the sex itself. So if I were to give you a word of advice, then it would be.... foreplay, foreplay and more foreplay. And if that doesn't work, then just ask her what pleases her, how she likes to be touched. Have fun!
Black-Velvet is totally right! Foreplay before play!!
And, don't ever be afraid to talk to her, communication
is so important. Don't be afraid to ask what she wants!
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Very true about the communication. That said, I can't stand when they ask, what gets you off or what do you like? the very first time you are together. It feels like they are lazy if they can't try something on their own first. Show a little initiative!
Quote by icemanQuote by Black-velvet
I don't speak for all women when I say this, but for me and most of the women I know, the build up to sex is much more exciting than the sex itself. So if I were to give you a word of advice, then it would be.... foreplay, foreplay and more foreplay. And if that doesn't work, then just ask her what pleases her, how she likes to be touched. Have fun!
Black-Velvet is totally right! Foreplay before play!!
And, don't ever be afraid to talk to her, communication
is so important. Don't be afraid to ask what she wants!
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Very true about the communication. That said, I can't stand when they ask, what gets you off or what do you like? the very first time you are together. It feels like they are lazy if they can't try something on their own first. Show a little initiative!
Iceman, I like what you said earlier about her being first. There are to many out there that don't think that way, and when they are done the show is over.
Quote by The_Driver
I got off track with that, but the point is that if your healthy in the mind and body then you will want sex. Its what we are programmed to do. If you aren't wanting it then something is wrong and people should start thinking about how to fix it.