I could not agree more. I have never sent a message saying to comment on my photos either because, as you say, if one really wants to comment on them, one will.
I put photos up because I felt like it. If I never get a comment, so be it.
"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."
--Evanescence
lmao i just put this "please don't solicit me for comments on your personal pics here on lush....have faith that you look good...self confidence is a turn on...not self promotion" on my profile after getting a mass e-mail....
wtf....did they SPAM me for praise..lmao...
love this thread & a amen!!!
I agree farmgal. I mean, if anyone wants to comment on my photos, they are free to do so I'm not going to go fishing for them.
I couldn't agree more. Sometimes I feel like responding with, "what do you want me to say?" My guess is that if they want comments, they are looking for something specific.
They are obviously lacking self confidence and need the approval of others to make the feel better, if I'm total honest I have to fight the urge and withhold an less than complimentary comment and have found the delete button handy!
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Some people need the attention. I pay it no mind, though. In fact, I took most of the erotic pics I had up down because the comments started to creep me out. And the pics weren't even of me.
Edit: And also, some people use hijacked pics of extremely attractive people. So in their little fantasy world, they want you to tell them how attractive "they" are...when in reality you're telling them how attractive the person is from whom they stole the pics. Which is rather bazaar.
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Well I'm glad to know I'm not alone on my thoughts!
i am new but i imagie its for the approval, the same reason people do it on facebook and tumblr and whatever the fuck else they're on now a days
"I'm a baller on a budget bitch!" - Daniel Tosh
i think it's rude asking people to comment your pics.
Because perhaps they just yearn to be desired? Who knows but I wouldn't do it. If my friends wish to comment then that's fine, I appreciate that but I wouldnt ask people to do it.
Vanity. Most people are here to be seen. That's it, that's all.
Yeah rude. Who asks for someone to comment. That's silly.
I could care less if people look at mine...they are not of me and just random pics.
I could care less if people look at mine...they are not of me and just random pics.
I think it's hands down the most annoying damn thing ever!!!
...well, maybe not EVER, but it's definitely up there on the Most Annoying Shit Ever List.
My favorite is when it's people that have OBVIOUSLY pulled pics from some model site!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
The story solicitations..?.. Eh, I don't mind TOO much and kinda understand. At least it's a contributing factor to the site... the story submissions, that is.
It's a way to build confidence. People need to be told that they look good, even if it's from total stragers and even if the stranger is so filled with lies that that their pants are burning to a crisp.
And many of the people who actually comment is thinking "If I comment flattering words he/she will cyber with me." It is that simple. I comment on profiles and pictures if I really feel like it, but I don't think I've commented on more than a few pics because they deserved a comment.
I keep my pics in a private folder and dont post them in my albums, if I want anyone to see them I show.
Its a personal thing I guess
I would never ask anyone to comment on my pics. If you want to comment on them, feel free. I you dont want to, that's cool too.
I honestly think some people have massive egos and like to see numerous POSITIVE comments on their photos because that validates them being sexy, gorgeous or whatever it is they think they are. They post the pics to get a reaction, if they don't get the reaction they were expecting they go on a fishing trip. Quite sad really because the lack of comments don't necessarily reflect a lack of appreciation for the photo itself.