It depends on who. Friends and those I've talked to before don't mind whispering. New acquaintances prefer no whispering. I'm not afraid to say things in public. It's fun to talk in public.
Lush is a erotica oriented adult social network site. Here the provision of chat is one of the value addition feature... So you're in a chat room on an adult site and I think if there is no whispering, then there is no chat...
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Quite partial for a whisper given that I am Whispered_Words... ;)
I enjoy someone wanting to speak to me.......
I like to have the option and at times it's fitting to whisper
depends on the room most of the time its shut off lol
I don't mind being whispered, and sometimes I might whisper myself. Much more important is the content of the whisper or message itself. On the other hand, strangers who all of a sudden request a private chat (the one with the separate pop-up window) I will usually ignore.
I am quite often whispered to when in a chat room. It can be a male or female. Often expressing that they like what I'm posting but, for whatever reason, they don't want the room to know their likes. I seldom have a problem with it. I've not yet had to turn off whispers. But I will say I only initiate a whisper to a friend who I know has no problem with it.
I believe asking is more proper. But it depends on how the initial whisper is worded. If it starts off vulgar I would let them know that is not approperate. If it is polite I would probably respond in a like manner. This applies to someone new. Those that know me will know how to approach me.
Brandie
Whispering, to me, is someone who have low self esteem and is afraid of others taking over their conversation with that individual. Other times I think they have something to hide and do not want others to know...And the third, but not the least impression I get is that chatter is not the person their profile says.
I'd get it if a whisper opened a new window or something, but it doesn't seem to. Am I missing something?
I'm going to turn this around a little. I can't tell you how many times I have gone into a chat room, said hello and nobody responds. One day last week I went into every room available and received the same reply, crickets. I realize I'm new here and maybe that has something to do with it or people are busy but not a single hello? My two cents.
Yes, why not. You have the choice to ignore
I see why some sights no longer have or have never had chat rooms. It's such a shame really because how else are you going to communicate with others you have never communicated with before? Oh well, I have let my views be known.
Whispering is best as its discreet