I hate it when it happens, especially when I have a connection with them. But, now I am on the other side of things, since I just came back after disappearing. I only disappeared, though, because my dad died on January 11th, and didn't get the chance to come on the computer for that very reason. I feel bad, because I'm finding out that people were worried. /: Hopefully I can make it up to them.
Can't say it's happened to me on Lush, but it's happened to me elsewhere.
I no longer hold it against them. At first there was bitterness, now all that's
left is a mild worriment that they might not be okay.
When it comes down to it, all you can do is hope for the best for them, and
strive for the best for you.
Lush members do not disappear, they fade away to Lush pastures in the sky.
I'm missing one now, but I knew so its not so bad. We'll speak again soon. And if you're lurking as a guest, get off of here and handle your business!!
When I first came to Lush I had trouble finding where I fit in. I always felt like an outsider even though I did try to fit in and find my 'spot'. Then I met someone who was so sweet and understanding and we exchanged emails, some sexy and others not, and I loved her so much, and I just kind of disappeared from Lush, but she was single and eventually moved on and away from me, so I came back.....and now am having trouble finding where I fit in.
Ahhhhhhhhhhh.....Is it one of those cycle things???
If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright
I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
Thank you so much for the kind words chefkathleen. I feel much better now. 'I Do fit in Auntie Em, I do, I do!' Thank you and kisses. I won't disappear again.
And such sound advice from WickedShads. Now I'll fit in and be lubed up also; oh wait a minute, I think I already had the lube part down.
If you ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it.................Frank Lloyd Wright
I always practice obedience, when it's in my best interest.
I think the 'fitting in' thing comes and goes. It's very easy to go unnoticed, and then unexpectedly you're embraced. I don't think there's any club, it's just all of us reaching out to the world. So, hello Redlips. Sending you warm greetings.
People come here for different things. Sometimes it's lonliness. Maybe she found someone and is busy enjoying a new relationship and doesn't need the companionship Lushies provided before that. Perhaps she had lots of free time before (unemployed, out of school, etc) but no longer does.
If I was to ever leave the site my account would remain open until someone closed it for me. I do have habits of randomly disappearing for weeks on end in some places, but I always end up returning in the end. So long as this accounts open I shall be here and if I am off for a month or so don't panic, I shall be back. (Usually after those month breaks I promise to everybody that I'll be more active than I was before)
