I think we all want to be seductive, but I also believe that understanding how to be seductive might stump most of us... because knowing how to be seductive isn’t just about being the most beautiful person... of course, having natural good looks help, but they only get you so far... that's why they say the beauty only runs skin deep! So there is no point being a stunner if you don’t have the other attributes required to lure someone to you. If you are cripplingly nervous, arrogant, or bore people to death with your conversation it’s going to be hard for them to imagine ripping your clothes off
Just start with thinking about the qualities you find... it’s not just all about looks, is it? So, lets know what personal qualities you expect in seductive men and women... I think three qualities in each gender... the best three you consider :)
So I'll go first...
Men
Knowledgeable
Confidence
Boldness
Women
Patience
Inquisitiveness
Playful
PS: You can also describe the attributes if you want to !
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
I think that for both genders, intelligence, sense of humor and communication skills are key. For women, an eye catching smile and sparkling eyes are musts, and kissing skills help a lot.
Intelligent
Witty
Animal Lover
Physically Active
Preferably a bit more outgoing than I am
I say that last one, because I would never leave my house outside of work if it wasn't for BF. While we're both introverts, he's far more outgoing than I am. He pushes me to go out and be social, and I'm thankful for that. He does a good job teasing me to come out of my shell.
I can't agree more, but you're required to mention personal qualities
Ok Miss Lilly, I can't agree more than what you've mentioned in your opening remarks. However, I'd like all the qualities in a woman which makes her lovable :)
Intelligent eyes. They look at you not about you. Coordination in style and taste. Their appearance fits there style and manner. They like to touch and flirt naturally. Intelligence, specialization, words & vocabulary. I've been turned on just from speech with out seeing the woman. It first happened to me in high school and later in my early 20 I fell in love with a co worker I only new from the phone. Immediately I had to meet her and I new she was smart. She was and we fall in love and lived together for 3 incredible years. She set the bar high for any to follow since.
In women: Personal confidence without being over-confident or aggressive, kindness, intelligence, curiosity, and playfulness. Physically, I prefer a woman to be soft (not muscular). Also, good hygiene is highly recommended.
Men --- Sorry, I don't care what men have or don't have.
Women - short term
Pretty eyes
Pretty face
Nice personality
Intelligent, but a bimbo can be fun too.
Women - long term
Pretty eyes
Pretty face
Good personality
Intelligence
The first thing I look at on a woman is her face, then if she's close enough, her eyes. Everything else really doesn't matter to me. A pretty face with pretty eyes can over come almost anything.
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